Indlela ukuba abe ngunongendi

Wonke umntu ufuna intuthuzelo kunye cwaka apho intliziyo yakhe iya kuba ezolileyo mnandi, kodwa ingaba kukho indawo on Earth? Kakade ke, ikholwa uyayazi loo nto - oku ke itempile kaThixo, okanye kunokuba monastery. Kungenxa kule ndawo ingcwele, ixesha limi ngxi, yaye ebaluleke kakhulu kwaye ngoku ibonakale. Apha ohlala inyaniso. Kukho into eyaba khona kangangamawaka eminyaka - kuba ukholo nentobeko.

rhoqo umntu ubuza umbuzo ukuba leyo uya kuze ukwazi impendulo, kutheni ke apha, yintoni umsebenzi wakhe emhlabeni? Abantu abaye le umba ibalulekileyo ebomini, uqale ukucinga ngendlela ukuya eMonastri, eshiya yonke kubomi. Phambi kokuba wenze nyathelo sibi ngolo hlobo, kufuneka ngokunyanisekileyo ukuphendula umbuzo yokuba ukulungele ukwenza njalo kangakanani.

Indlela yokungena eMonastri, njengoko umntu ukushiya befikelwa ziingxaki etshabalalisayo, ukuba bazibandakanye ukukhanya, inyaniso, ukholo kunye msulwa ngokomoya? Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukucinga uxanduva senzo, ukuba sele ukulungele ukuba benze oko.

Thina basoloko yoonongendi, apho sinandipha bazola, ingca ezintle, iintaka becula kunye nokwakha zigcinwe kakuhle. Apha yonke into ezikholekileyo emehlweni, ingakumbi imvula. ngokuphila emishini yangaphandle kubonakala uzolile kwaye, ukusa kumlinganiselo othile, nokuba mnandi, kodwa abaninzi abayazi ngawo ngaso nto. Umzekelo, asinguye wonk 'umntu uyazi ukuba seal ehlabathini - kuba ukholo engenasiphelo ngaphandle kwegazi.

Shiya Lihlale eMonastri ayikho lula. Ukuze wenze oku, kufuneka ukuba ube ezinye iimpawu zomntu - umonde omkhulu nokuthobeka. Kuyinto ezi mpawu abantu ukuze abangenalo kubomi bemihla ngemihla. Ngokuzichasa kubo yaye kungekudala ukufumana ubuthathaka, kunokuba sempumelelo. Woonongendi into eyahlukileyo. Khumbula, kwisigcini- yokuhlala engcwele yobomi, apha eyona nto iphambili nyulu epheleleyo kunye nokuthobela efunekayo. Le umntu isigxina ubomi bayazi, leyo ichazwa ukholo olunzulu kuThixo. Ithe - ke ukholo yokwenene, badla ngokuba ziingelosi basemhlabeni.

Ukuba ngaba isigqibo ufuna ukutshintsha ubomi babo, kodwa andazi ukuba ashiye indlela woonongendi, siza kukunika amanye amacebiso. Kuqala kwinto zonke, yiya ibandla confessor bakhe uze uthethe ngayo. Uya kuqonda wena ngokugqibeleleyo kwaye iya kunceda ekukhetheni woonongendi. Ukongeza, umbingeleli uya kukuxelela ukuba kuza kuba yimfuneko ukwenza njalo phambi kokuba utshintshe ubomi bakho kakhulu. Ingakumbi oku kusebenza izibophelelo zakho kunye nolwalamano lobuqu, kwakunye nemiba yomthetho kunye namaxwebhu.

Ukuba sele ukhethe wokuthengisa eMonastri ngokuyimfuneko thetha umphathi okanye abbess. Baza kukwazi ukuba bakuxelele indlela abe ngunongendi. Ukongeza, umfundisi wakho uya kubalisa woonongendi yemihla ngemihla, ukuba kuya kuba yimfuneko kuni kubomi emishini elizayo. Kukho ezinye ukulinganiselwa ezibalulekile ukuba bazazi phambi kokuba bahambe isigodlo.

Ukuba ukhetha woonongendi, ngoko ukufika uya kucelwa ukuba nosondeza yokundwendwela ukuze uqinisekise ubudala. Ukuba utshatile, kuyimfuneko ukuba isiqinisekiso somtshato. Njengoko kulo naliphi na iziko, apha uya kucelwa ukuba babhale elithi Philaretus kwaye usoloko sicela ukuba yamkelwe. Kufuneka ebhalwe egameni umphathi.

Uya kuba imeko yokulingwa iminyaka emithathu. Ukuba uyathobela, kakuhle baziphethe kwaye uzinzile ngokweemvakalelo, ngoko ke Ngqonyela ubhale umfanekiso postrizhenii zakho lokulawula ngubhishophu. Kulo mzekelo, uya kufumana umyalelo emishini.

Indlela ukuya loonongendi? Le nkqubo ke okufanayo ababhinqileyo kunye monastery eyindoda. Uya, ukuba utshatile, aninabo abantwana kunye nabazali abakhulileyo.

Phambi kokuba ukwenze oku nyathelo, kuya kufuneka ayeke ukutshaya ze uqale ukuthandaza kusasa nangokuhlwa. Okulandelayo, kufuneka kwamkela intsikelelo kayihlo ngokomoya. Kuya kukunceda ukuba uphephe iimpazamo.

Indlela ukuba abe ngunongendi? elula kakhulu. Entsonkothileyo ngumbuzo kuphela yokuzikhethela yokuziphatha.