Indlela ku susumetela umntwana wakho ukuba ukufunda? izincomo kwengqondo

Enyanisweni, indlela enye, indlela susumetela umntwana esikolweni, ayikho. Ngapha koko, Njengabantu abadala, abantwana ngokuyintloko ngabanye. Ezi iimpawu ezizodwa inzala yakho kufuneka ingqalelo.

Okokuqala zonke khumbula, ukuba umntwana kufuneka banikwe ithuba lokuba ubonise geqe kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Kakade ke, akukho zimpazamo abayi kuwenza, kodwa hayi kwinqanaba lokufunda? Kodwa uvuyo karhi self-ezigqityiweyo ziya komelela ngokwenene, ingakumbi ukuba baqonde umntwana uloyiso encinane, Bekudumisa yona - ayikwazanga ibe ngcono ukuzama susumetela ukuba uqhubeke. Akubuzwa ukumgxeka gadalala kakhulu, rhoqo esalatha phandle iimpazamo iimpazamo, whacks ufuna ukufunda kwaphela.

Ukuthetha ngendlela ukukhuthaza umntwana esikolweni, kubalulekile ukukhankanya enye impazamo eqhelekileyo ukuba abazali abaninzi bayavuma. Oko iyaqala yokuguqula ngokoqobo indlu ibe sisikolo yesibini ukuseka ingqeqesho ingqongqo, yaye ngesisa isinongo konke ngamazwi "umfundi kumele", "umfundi kumele". Kholwani ndim, abantwana esikolweni oku ngaphezu ngokwaneleyo. Ekhaya, ndifuna ukuba bazive bekhuselekile, ukuba ube kusemnandi uzole kunye nentuthuzelo. Ngoko ke, akukho mfuneko yokuba ukulawula phantse yonke into umntwana - makenze isigqibo ukuba okanye hayi kuyanceda kukugxininisa umculo okanye aphum nezifundo ukuba ufuna ukwenza phambi: lokuphumla kancinane kwaye ubone uthotho oyintanda khathuni series okanye ngoko nangoko uqale umsebenzi.

Akukho kangako ukuba kusikhuthaza njani umntwana wakho ukuba ukufunda, ukumenza azive ukuba uyamthanda yaye ndiya kumthanda noba yintoni namabakala kwidayari yakhe. Amanqaku - ndikuxelela umvuzo umfundi. Ngaba awufuni usapho wandithanda kuphela umvuzo wakho? Okukhona umntwana ngakumbi nzima kule nkalo - umntu omdala, ediniwe yengcinezelo rhoqo, ungakwazi ukubhala ingxelo kwaye ushiye. Kwaye itakane nje iye ndawo ukuhamba kodwa ekhaya. Kwaye yiloo nto usapho lwakhe kufuneka silinde inkxaso, uthando nenkathalo.

Ukongezelela konke oko kutshiwo ngasentla malunga nendlela ukukhuthaza umntwana ukuba ukukhumbula ukuba akukho mntu uthanda ukuba aqale ukuthelekisa nabanye, esebenza kakhulu kunye noogxa nzima ukusebenza okanye, njengoko kwimeko yethu, abafundi. Akunakwenzeka ukuba ukuthelekisa naphakade, naphantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko. Kule meko kwecacileyo, impendulo njengokonzakala elide, yaye okubi, umntwana wakho uya kuqalisa ukwenza ukudlula zonke ngokwe yakho neendlebe abazizithulu ivaliwe kuwe.

Nangona yokuba abazali abaninzi bebuza imibuzo malunga nendlela susumetela umntwana wakho ukuba ukufunda, qala ukuba ahlawule imali kumabakala ezilungileyo, hayi inqubo engcono. Ingakumbi xa ucinga ukuba abantwana bafunde kungekhona abazali, kodwa ngokwabo.

Kufuneka ukuba ifuna umntwana abe A ngqo kuzo zonke izifundo ngaphandle kokukhetha. Okokuqala, ngokuba le mihla loo nto ayiqinisekisi ukwamkelwa ethile kwiyunivesithi eyaziwayo. Okwesibini, ngenxa yokuba, nokuba iyaphumelela, oko kuphela ukubamba obungabangeli mdla, nokucengceleza befuna amakhulu izibakala. Kakhulu ngcono bekuya kuba ukuba umntwana uya kugqiba ngokwabo ezo zinto ukuba ngokwenene umdla, kwaye iya kuhlawula ingqalelo ukufunda kwabo. Mhlawumbi akazi ngentloko yonke le ncwadi, kodwa uya kukuqonda kuzo - kodwa ibaluleke kakhulu ngakumbi. Hayi kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba umfundi uya kuba izinto akathandwa. kukuba ngelo xesha apho kwaye wayeyithanda into ephambili.

Kakade ke, eyona nto ibalulekileyo indlela susumetela umntwana ukuze uphumelele ekufundeni, ubuchule, yaye kamva ebomini, kukugcina umdla. Thenga kuye iincwadi ezibangel 'umdla yaye iintyilalwazi, ufunde ukusebenzisa i-Internet, nonke iinkqubo zemfundo kunye iimovie. Akukho nto kuya umntu ukufunda into entsha kangangoko self-umdla kulo. Unga nokuba ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba angabikho esikolweni njengoko umnyinyiva, ukuba ufuna ukubona i lwezenzululwazi umboniso omtsha ngokuzalwa wendalo zize ngokunjalo izinto ezifihlakeleyo kwi Bermuda Triangle (ubuncinane kwi imeko emva kokuba ufunde imini lwakho material).

Vumela umntwana imvakalelo iklasi yokuqala ukuba kwicala lakhe, ukuba izalamane abasenyongweni abantu bakhe inkxaso kuye, kungekuphela nje ngamazwi kodwa nangezenzo. Kwaye, kakade, hlonipha umntwana wakho. Ngapha koko, kakade naye, nakuba asakhulayo kuphela, umntu kunye neemfuno zabo, amaphupha neenjongo!