Imilingo Folk amisele ngesondo umntwana

Nantoni na nithi, kunye nokuqaliswa yenkohlakalo indlela ultrasound kwesifo inkqubo elindele umntwana, ndayihluthwa yeyona yeenowuthsi imincili - umbuzo engumzekeliso 'Ngubani na? "Xa nefoni, okanye phantsi iifestile esibhedlele iphelelwe ukufaneleka kwayo. Namhlanje, kudala ngaphambi kokuba azalwe, izibini ezininzi bayazi kakuhle abo nizalise usapho babo - inkwenkwe okanye intombazana. Kuphela kwezinye iimeko, xa irhamncwa omncinane ithatha ingafikeleleki "-Ukubona Zonke Eye" indawo, egciniweyo le mfihlakalo engcwele. Ke kaloku ke ngumonde abazali onke amalungu endlu aqala akhuphisana nabanye ukukhumbula imiqondiso abantu nokumisela ngesondo umntwana, kuba abayi kwindawo ezinencasa emnyama kodwa nodandatheko.

Yaye yakuba le "inzululwazi" lonke! umama Young waya abenzi bemilingo, wayeyithanda zokuphulaphula izigwebo abalindi nokuthimla ukusuka eluthulini, sijike phezu, iimagazini ezindala maxa wambi nkqu pre-revolution apho izihlabo intsomi amisele ngesondo umntwana zaye bakhonza ezahlukeneyo kakhulu "onegunya." Noko ke, kwezinye iimeko, uphindo olunokutyeshelwa, njengoko imiqondiso emininzi ukujonga besini lo mntwana ngenxa kwiminyaka emininzi okanye eminyaka, kwaye kuyenzeka, kakhulu ebalulekileyo. Hayi kubi ke imozulu ubuncinane. Ngoko ke ukuba kuyenzeka ukuba US akanako ukunika impendulo ecacileyo, kutheni khumbula amava wooyise. Nokuba liphuma umdla zesiqhelo, ngoko ukuze uthelekise iingqikelelo nenyani.

imilingo Folk amisele nesini umntwana zahlukahlukene kakhulu. A ingxenye kubo edibene iimpawu zangaphandle, kwaye ezi mpawu zibonakala kakhulu, ukuba ikhona, kufanelekile ukuba bathethe malunga ukuthembeka kunye ngokuphathelele iimpawu. Mhlawumbi eyona ezaziwayo-kakuhle, "ikhoboka elithembekileyo 'phawu - elimile esiswini okhulelweyo. Ukuba ukhaliphile, "yemixoxozi", ekhutshwe kwangaphambili, ukuze ukususela emva enzima, libonisa inkwenkwe; ziyafana zonke, "ngamaxolo", kubonakala ngasemva kwi kwemiqhele emacaleni - uphawu le ntombazana. Kwakhona, libya ediphini isisu - le nkwenkwe, iphakama - intombazana leyo. Bathi kwakhona ukuba ingaphandle umama okhulelweyo engaphenduli ezilandela iinguqu ezinkulu, ingakumbi ukuba nje buhle, ukuba lo mfana belindile. Ntombi ufana "ukuba" ubuhle kanina, ngoko "imiba" umbono wakhe podurnevshy umntu okhulelweyo, yobuninzi amabala kunye bomvu. Ke unyana unika ukuhamba "idada" okuthile umama wakhe, ngoxa ekukhuliseni amantombazana nyikaka mfazi yimazi yexhama. nombala mnyama (areola) apha neengono - intombazana, areola zigwangqa - le nkwenkwe. Kwakhona ayekholelwa ukuba ucaphuka xa abasetyhini abakhulelweyo icebisa ukuba kuya kuba intombazana; Oku kusengqiqweni ukuba sikhumbula ukuba intombi ilindele kway amaxhoba imbonakalo - kuba akukho uya kuba ngumntu ocaphuka msinya!

Kukho abanye bathi, izihlabo abantu Outliers amisele ngesondo wosana, kodwa ke ingaba iziphumo leembono, ophuhlisa kuyo ongaqhelekanga kunye nobulumko. Ngenxa yoko, kukholelwa ukuba xa isibini zothando a Pope elizayo, ngoko ukuze alumeke inkwenkwe, yaye ukuba umama okhulelweyo, ngoko, ngokulandelelanayo, ntombazana. Kodwa le ndlela luluvo kakhulu - Hamba uye ufumanise ukuba ngubani umntu uyamthanda, kwaye uvale kwihlazo. Pope "yabalaselisa" omnye umqondiso: ukuba ukhetha ukuvala kukuhlamba, uza kuba yindlalifa, kakuhle kwaye simahla, ngokulandelelana, ukuya heiress. Abo sele babe nabantwana, izihlabo abahlala yaleza ukuba ukukhumbula ukuba yintoni na igama lokuqala usana yangaphambili ukuba oko "Mama" - uya omncinane, "Papa" - mzalwana.

Yonke into kuluhlu - kodwa iimpawu yokukhulelwa. Sex umntwana, okwangoku, ezinye iinkolelo wavumela ukuba 'ukumisela' imini phambi okanye ngalo mzuzu wokukhulelwa. Umzekelo, ukuba indawo yomntu ngexesha ngesondo ukuya ekhohlo ibhinqa ingqalelo indlela Qinisekisa ukukhawula intombazana, xa wayebongoza loo Yawushiya umlenze wavumela "ukuba" inkwenkwe. Yokuselelwa ityiwa olwandulela isenzo uthando "umsebenzi" phezu komntwana, elithozamisayo - eyona medi yomhlaba. Ngesondo sibini mbono esebenzayo uthembisa ukuba intombazana, kodwa ukuba iziqhamo uthando sisiphumo sex esenzeka emva kokuba ikhefu elifutshane, ngoko kuya kuba inkwenkwe.

Kukho kwakhona uphawu: ngethuba isenzo nokubalelwa umfazi anxibe umnqwazi zamadoda - ngoko ke uya kuzala inkwenkwe, yaye ukuba kukho indoda benze isithethe eqhiyeni female - intombazana. Kodwa lokunxibela ezinjalo, kunokuba unike kuphela bulawu bungangobo ukuba umdlalo uthando kwaye akubonakali ukuba kuchaphazela besini wosana. Kodwa ngethamsanqa ngaye - kakuhle, akanakuba umntwana uludwayi kabani abazali bazimisele ukuya naziphi namacebo ngenxa yabantwana elizayo.