Ifenitshala ye igumbi teen: ukuba ukhetha njani?

Namhlanje, siza kukuxelela indlela ukukhetha ngefanitshala amagumbi teen, ngokuba le nkwenkwe akhule okanye intombazana akukho kuphinda kuphumla gumbi ayiqabe zokudlala. Abasele bona ngokwabo njengomntu omdala ngamnye, kwaye ingadlulanga kuthetha akunakwenzeka ukuba ningabaleli yona ukuba uyenze. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntwana wakho sele ekhulile, kwaye udinga iimeko encinane ezahlukeneyo, siza kukuxelela indlela ukudala le meko kwaye ukwenza ubomi bomntwana wakho inemibala kwaye bonwabile.

Ngokutsho manani, iminyaka elivisayo uthathwa yiminyaka 11-15 ubudala, xa umntwana uqalisa ukwakha ingongoma lwabo lwembono, zokuzonwabisa, izinto. Uthabatha onomdla kwizinto ezininzi ebomini uze uzame ukuba ukuthatha inxaxheba yonke into. Kungenxa kule kwaye kufuneka ingqalelo, ukukhetha ngefanitshala amagumbi elivisayo. Nakuba kunjalo, imida ecacileyo kunye nemithetho, ukuba podobodrat ngayo ifenitshala, ayikho. Kufuneka va ungaziva ukuba ufana nomntwana wakho, uze sikhokelwe ingqiqo kunye ekucingeni izabelo eziqhelekileyo. Qaphela ukuba, ukuba umntwana wakho engasekho ishukunyiswa ntaka kunye unodoli zokudlala, kodwa, umzekelo, uthi ufuna ukuba umhambi, oku kufuneka kube inkuthazo kuba ukuba utshintshe imeko egumbini lakhe. Kwaye akukho mfuneko sakubambezela le nkqubo, kungenjalo kuya kukhokelela ingxabano ngezithuko.

Xa umntwana wakho ekhula, kufuneka icace into yokuba ifanitshala abantwana ukuze amantombazana sele kufuneka yahluke kakhulu ukusuka ifenitshala ukuba amakhwenkwe. Ke ukuba ngaphambili ukuba kwakunokwenzeka ukuba ukukhetha umbala ubhetyebhetye, kodwa ngoku ezinjalo "amaqhinga" umntwana wakho akaqondi.

Okokuqala iinkcukacha enye ezincinane kodwa ezibalulekileyo kakhulu. Ngaphambi kokuba ukhethe ukuba umntwana wakho umbala iphepha lodongo, ifanitshala kunye amalengalenga, kwakunye neendawo zonke njengokuba ubona wena kufanelekile. Ngoku, ke, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba umntwana phantse umntu omdala nokulungiselela igumbi ifumana umsebenzi yayo ephambili, ngokunjalo zonke ngefanitshala amagumbi ulutsha kufuneka zikhethwe kunye nayo.

Oko kumlungele na abafana

Amaxesha amaninzi, abakwishumi elivisayo, amakhwenkwe baqale "ukuqinisekisa 'abazali babo ukuthemba, ukuze abasirhumela umbala kweendonga abamnyama. Noko ke, musa ukoyika, nkqu abayili abamnyama mihla ezingenza abe kakhulu ekukhanyeni lingakhululwanga eyoyikisayo. ifanitshala abantwana abakwishumi elivisayo kakade, Kakade, akathandi kusebenza, ngoko ke kufuneka ukuba babukele kunye nomntwana wakho buhlanganiswe langaphakathi kakuhle, wabulawa ngendlela mihla. Ekubeni bafana wayeyoliswa kakhulu ibhola ekhatywayo kwaye phantse zonke kwezemidlalo jikelele, ngaba iya kuncanyathiselwa eludongeni kwi iipowusta igumbi amaqela ozithandayo kunye namaqela. Ukongeza, nkqu ifenitshala uyakwazi ukubonakalisa zokuzonwabisa zomntwana. konke kuxhomekeke linjani noko ufuna ukuba umntwana wakho. Umzekelo, umbala beendonga, ungakhetha i elintsundu kwigumbi ngakumbi njenge inqaba zamaxesha, uze emva koko "knight" lakho liya kuba khona kamnandi kakhulu.

Oko kumlungele na amantombazana

Apha, icala, i licace gumbi, ngcono. Le ntombazana ngokuqinisekileyo akazange afune ukuba bachithe ixesha labo mahala kwigumbi elimnyama ezinomxholo ekhatywayo. Faka isicelo igumbi sisimbo bubuhle, okanye sebenzisa Kunjani: iindonga pink, amaso sijinga, nezincedisi ezimhlophe. Nangona kunjalo, khumbula ukuba igumbi Kukhazimlayo kakhulu Iyandonwabisa ingqondo, umntwana lowo uya kuba kubi ukulala ebusuku. Bekhumbula oku, zama banciphise ngobulumko lodonga. Babe imifanekiso eziqaqambileyo neephowusta, kodwa ingakhanyi kakhulu. Ifenitshala ngamagumbi zolutsha   amantombazane angaba ayinalo okanye isimbo "uqhagamshelwano lwetshiphu emsebenzi-zobugcisa". wena nomntwana wakho apho kufuneka akhethe.