Yintoni na ixesha ezibuthathaka lophuhliso lwabantu

ixesha sensitive, eyaziwa ngokuba yi "onobuzaza", ngabo ixesha elithile xa kudalwa iimeko evumayo ukuze kwakhiwe izakhono zabantu ezithile, zokuziphatha kunye neempawu nasengqondweni. Abazali nabantwana abancinci kufuneka bazazi kwazo, silungiselele kubo, ukuba umntwana kwiimeko ezininzi lula kuba tixi up ulwazi olufundiweyo.

Eyona engundoqo Amathuba ophuhliso nendlela abayibona ngayo ihlabathi

I edumileyo Utitshala Italian utitshala Maria Montessori, ixesha elide ukubuka abantwana ezikhulayo, umbhali udale indlela yophuhliso yokuqala. Kuyo yaveza amathuba amaninzi ukwenzela uphuhliso olusebenzayo lwemiba ethile psyche. Indlela, umbhali uza kwisigqibo sokuba iimeko ezinjalo umntu ngexesha elinye kuphela ebomini bakhe. Ukuba ayithanga nexesha baqhelane iiphiriyodi ezithile ezibuthathaka, ayisayi bayalalela njalo kubo. Ubizela ndawonye imihla elisondeleyo isahlakalo ngamnye kubo, kodwa zonke umzali kufuneka uthathe unonophelo komntwana wabo, kuba awunakuze uthi ngokuzithemba elide kangakanani elo xesha.

Kuyimfuneko ukuba kulungiselelwe imfundo wosana olo. Ulwazi ubukho lamathuba anjalo naphezu neempawu ngamnye komntwana wakho ukunceda abazali abanothando isicwangciso soqeqesho kangangoko. Nanga amaxesha ezibuthathaka iqhosha eyabelwe Montessori:

• uphuhliso lweelwimi - ukususela ekuzalweni ukuya kwiminyaka emi-6;
• kwimbono komyalelo - ukususela ekuzalweni ukuya kwiminyaka-3;
• Uphuhliso oluvo - ukususela ekuzalweni ukuya kwiminyaka 5.5;
• bezibona izinto ezincinci - ukusuka kwi 1.5 ukuya kwiminyaka 6.5;
• uphuhliso iintshukumo kunye nezenzo - ukusuka ku-1 ukuya kwiminyaka-4;
• kuphuhliso lwezakhono zentlalo - ukususela 2.5 ukuya kwiminyaka emi-6.

amaxesha ezibuthathaka yophuhliso iimpawu ngokomzimba

Njengoko sele kukhankanyiwe, mntwana ngamnye eyahlukileyo kuphuhliso lwabo. Naliphi na ixesha sensitive lunokwenzeka akazubhaqwa, kwaye silungele nayiphi na kuzo. Kubalulekile ukunikela ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kuphuhliso physical iimpawu umntwana, ngokuba umsebenzi komzimba kubalulekile ubomi. movement ikhokelela ekubeni ngunogada ukuya Ukwanda igazi mpilo. Nevuthisayo ngexesha ke, ondla iiseli zobuchopho anoxanduva imisebenzi yengqondo. Okokuqala, lo mntwana kuthatha nomdla iintshukumo ngamnye, ephindaphinda nabo bazali, ngoko etsala yinkqubo amanyathelo aliqela xa ufuna ukugcina imali, okanye ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo kunye nezijekulo.

Indlela yokusebenzisa nexesha elibalulekileyo and sensitive

Ixesha ekupheleni naliphi na ixesha xa umntwana Iyakwazi ulwazi nezakhono ezithile, emnyuse zokwazisela le meko ngoku, ukuba bazimisele endaweni yabo ehlabathini kwezentlalo. Ezi ngongoma zibizwa ngokuba 'kumaxesha amanqam "xa umntu omnye etshintsha ngayo ubuntu kwixesha elifutshane kakhulu.

Kakade ke, yemifanekiso mncinane abantwana indima singabazali, ingakumbi umama unempembelelo. Ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuba esweni ngokusondeleyo nemisebenzi yabo, nayiphi na impendulo ukuba kwenzeka ntoni, ngenxa yendlela ebabeziphathe ngayo iikopi umntwana sikanina. Ngokuba abantwana abadala utyelelo ebaluleke kakhulu kumaqela okanye izitiya apho uqeqesho lwenziwa ngokungqinelana nenkqubo Montessori yombhali; kukho yonke iwotshi kid ootitshala khathalela, yonke into ngokulinganisela, kukho naziphi na izinto eziyimfuneko ekufundiseni ngempumelelo nayiphi na ixesha ezibuthathaka.