Yintoni ekufuneka ukuba ilungiswe nokufika womntwana okanye ube nengqiqo

Endlwini kwakukho "ulonwabo" - kuzalwa. Makhe bathethe malunga nendlela aprintiweyo usaqala - ukukhulelwa nokuzala, kubhaliwe kwathiwa amanqaku ngokwaneleyo. Nendlela ngokwengqondo yaye buhlungu ngokwasemzimbeni ekuqaleni Mama kunye ngokubanzi yonke intsapho. La manyathelo Kulula ukuba kanye nje ngokulula ulibele. Kukho omnye umba ebaluleke kakhulu - ukuba ukuhluleka bezifo, nokungafuni kwabo ukusebenza. Ngako oko ejongene abaninzi, kodwa umzekelo uya kunikela emhlabeni lokuyijonga okanye isalathiso esikhawulezayo kwisenzo. Nanku umzekelo kule ngxaki inombolo enye uninzi iintsana - kwesisu. Ukuba le nkqubo kabuhlungu iyaphindwa kwi itakane iiyure ezingaphezu 3-4 ngosuku kunye izihlandlo ezingaphezu kwama-5 ngeveki yaye kamva 21,00 - ucinga. Kodwa akukho mfuneko yokuba babhenele kugqirha uze ubuze lo mbuzo: "?! Ntoni", okanye uve impendulo:. "Pat pelenochku 'ukuze bonke abantwana" Uxolo lwakho lwengqondo kufuneka sidlule iimvavanyo, bonke ngokuxhomekeke meko. Ulindele! Ndithi ukubuza, ngenxa yokuba nje ukuva ukusilela kwaye weyisekile ukuba akukho mfuneko kuwo. Andifuni ukoyikisa nabani na, oko kwenzeka kunqabile, kodwa baby wam yokulunywa zaba lwesikhumba neemvavanyo apho asifuni ukuthatha iinyanga ezi-2. Ngala iintlungu, siye saba, ukuba engaqhelekanga, kweli isebe luvo apho yandenza ndeyiseka ukuba umntwana wam trauma wokuzalwa kunye eninzi yeziphumo kwaye kufuneka siphathwe ... ndiza kubaleka unyango ezimbalwa zamva zange ukunceda, yaye wathabatha umntwana evela kwiSebe eli, into akazange afune ukuba ukuba baqonde iingxaki zabantwana. Ndithi ngokuqiniseka ukuba akukho ufunwa, kuba amaxesha amaninzi becela uncedo bonke oogqirha kweli sebe - akukho ziphumo. Ukufika ekhaya, ndatyelela Intanethi ezininzi iinkcukacha ngempilo zosana, fumana oogqirha abanobuchule, waza wajika yonke into staphylococci, nto leyo ithathwa kwaye kude zonke iingxaki baya. Kuphela umbuzo usahleli: "Kutheni na ukuba umntwana ukulala, ngenxa yokuba umntu, ngenxa yaso nasiphi na isizathu, uyala ukwenza umsebenzi wayo. Ndiya kuthi ngakumbi: ukhathalelo lwempilo free swi nga pfuna umntwana wam. Zonke iingcali sityelela umrhumo, kuba oogqirha ngokwenene oluphendulayo nesemgangathweni, ndafumana kuphela kwiiklinikhi zabucala. Xa ikliniki ezidolophini ngexesha lokugqibela thina kwiinyanga 1.5 yaye ukususela ngelo xesha esinayo akukho mntu wayefuna, akukho namnye ekuthiwa, yaye akazange icacise nto malunga nempilo zosana, nangona umthetho Russian, bonke abantwana ukuya kunyaka-akhawunti ekhethekileyo phantsi kweliso iintloko iikliniki abantwana ngokwabo. impilo umntwana ngundoqo kwixesha elizayo, kodwa ingaba yintoni na kwixesha elizayo, ukuba "abantu yesibini emva kokuba uThixo 'akafuni kusebenza. Umama imeko Dear namhlanje yokuba kufuneka ukuba uthembele ingqiqo lakho. icebiso lam eziphambili - Yiba nengqiqo!