Uvuyo yomntwana: yokudlalela abantwana ngezandla zakhe

Abazali abaninzi bazama kangangoko kunokwenzeka nabantwana ukuphumeza kweli lizwe. Oku akothusi: umoya ococekileyo, amanzi, okanye umlambo, iintaka zicula kusasa. Yaye ukuba usapho lwakho nalo isiko ukuya kweli lizwe, ngoko ke kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba olu hambo luncedo nje kuphela, kodwa kumnandi. Yenza umntwana wakho azive ekhululekile yaye kumnandi, ukudala iimeko eziyimfuneko. Ukuze ufumane ibala yabantwana kweli lizwe ngezandla zabo, kufuneka utyalo encinane imali, ixesha kunye nomfanekiso- ngqondweni.

Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenze - kukuba nokulungisa site, apho iya kufakelwa yokudlalela. kusenokwenzeka ukuba benze ngezandla zabo. Kuyimfuneko ukuqinisekisa ukuba indawo yokuba isigqibo sokwabela ngenxa yale njongo, kwakungekho ezisezintabeni okanye mihadi. Kwaye ukhuseleko ubuninzi kumntwana weqweqwe kungcono usebenzise ingca.

Xa avele ucwangco yokudlala lizwe ngezandla zakhe, qiniseka ukuba ukutsala amatakane ngokwabo. Okokuqala, umsebenzi edibeneyo izisa, yaye okwesibini, uhombiso pad yinto ukuzilolonga elungileyo ekuyileni yomntwana. Yintoni ekufuneka ukuba isakhiwo thina, siye safumanisa. Ngoku kufuneka ukuba ukwazi oko kufuneka kwi inkundla kuye ngebhongo kubizwa ngokuba "ibala abantwana ngezandla zakhe."

Into yokuqala ethi qatha engqondweni - kukwazi. Kakade ke, benze ngezandla zakho kungaba, kodwa inokuthenjwa xa uthenga isixhobo imidlalo abantu abayaziyo ungumgwebi olungileyo. ukhuseleko umntwana kakhulu. Ngoku abenzi inganikeza uluhlu olubanzi izilayidi zeplastiki kubantwana abadala ngaphezu kweminyaka 2. Nangona abantwana mihla kulento lomdlalo kakhulu ngaphambili kunye nabazali babo. Zicingele ukuba ibala yabantwana ngezandla zakhe sele ifakwe kwisilayidi.

Ukuba une sinengcamango ukwenza yesanti, ukugcina isithuba, oko abekwe phantsi kwisilayidi. Yena zinezibonelelo ezintathu engenakuphikwa, yaye, yeha, thabatha 2. Kwizazi: intlabathi lisoloko ivaliwe yaye komile kwimeko kwemvula; ngendlela umntwana adlale ngelixa yimikhwitsho; ukonga space. Bendlela: akukhathaliseki nokuba uzama njani, indlu kwentlabathi; ukuba afuye abanofikelelo esitratweni, ukufumana endleni entlabathini ayinakuphepheka.

Ngoku makhe sithethe ujingi. Ulenga chain nokuseka indawo umntwana kubo, qinisekisa ukuba isiseko iqhotyoshelwe ngokuqinileyo emhlabeni. Oku kudla kwenziwa kwi ubunzima bakho. Kwakhona qinisekisa ukuba indawo ngaphambili nangesemva iyafumaneka ukuqhuba iimitha ubuncinane ezimbalwa.

Kuya kuba kuhle ezilungisele embindini kunye isilayidi, oojingi kunye yesanti yabantwana indlu. Loo ukwakheka ezenziwe ngezinto ezahlukeneyo, kwaye hayi ukuba ulwakhiwo. Kubantwana abakwiminyaka encinane eyakhiweyo enjalo iseti amalengalenga, uyakwazi ukubeka up intente okanye intente lula ukuba Congress up. Into esemqoka ukuba umntwana lifumaneka lula emoyeni.

Ukuze ufumane ibala lokudlala labantwana ngezandla zakhe, Kakade ke, kufuneka ube nezinto eziluncedo: Ngumntu olungileyo ummandla ukuphumeza zonke izicwangciso zakhe. Khumbula ukuba oku isakhiwo yokudlalela iSADC kwanda. Ngoko ke yintoni na ukuphatha ukwenza ngenxa yezizathu okanye omnye olu hlobo, ungenza oku kulandelayo.