Uthando Umtshato: Indlela Zigcine uthandane naye?

Ngokuba amadoda nabafazi phambi komtshato ngokubanzi romantic kakhulu. Intlanganiso elide-ilindelwe, iziphiwo iintyatyambo, umnqweno ukukhangela njengoko kulungileyo kangangoko kunokwenzeka nokwenza uluvo kuFeliks le iqabane kudala iinkumbulo alibaleke, isibini uhlala inkumbulo yayo kwiminyaka ezayo. Kwaye ke amanzi ayeka nendlebe imatshi ngu Mendelssohn, yaba betshatile, waza waqalisa ubomi njengesiqhelo.

ndicinga nje ngolwalamano zomtshato, nayiphi amaphupha amabini ukuba umtshato kunye nothando lwabo ziya kuthatha iminyaka emininzi. Kodwa abaninzi silibale ukuba ukuze ugcine uthando entsatsheni, kuthatha umsebenzi omninzi. A impazamo eqhelekileyo - kulindeleke ukuba iqabane ngoku alibotshiwe kwaye ngoku akayi kumka. Ixesha lihamba yaye isibini uqalisa ukuba ucinga ukuba umtshato kunye nothando lwabo bobethwa oqhiphuke umbilini, qala enyundululu ezincinane, izityholo macala kunye ukukhangelwa unetyala. Kodwa umtshato ezitshatileyo ngabantu ababini, yaye ubudlelwane Kudla ityala zombini.

Akumangalisi kucingwa ukuba ubomi unako ukutshabalalisa umtshato kunye nothando, yaye ukuba oku kwenzeke, zama ukugcina aura of romanticism ukuba ezingqonge ngemihla kwangoko ukuthandana. Kwaye oku kusebenza kuphela amadoda kodwa abafazi.

Eyona yingozi iisayikholojisti umtshato bakholelwa ubudlelwane bazibandakanye. Njani eyona usapho imini. In Wagidima ekuseni ukusebenza, ngokuhlwa umfazi uya evenkileni, ukulungisa isidlo, libandakanywe wokufama kunye nabantwana - kuthathwa umthwalo. Umyeni wakhe ngexesha benza ukufunda okanye TV apho kabuhlungu off ukwenza izinto ezithile. Le meko kakhulu, kodwa ke into ngokukhawuleza kakhulu ukubulala uthando nomtshato.

Abasetyhini isikhalazo ukuba umyeni wakhe ayihlawuli ingqalelo kuyo, wozirhola iintyatyambo, akathethi amazwi uthando swi nga pfuna kunye wasekhaya. Kodwa imisebenzi yasendlini, ungafumana kumnandi xa uvula ibe uhlobo umdlalo. Yahlula loxanduva phakathi kwabo. Kungcono noko ukwenza yonke into kunye. walungisa ngokudibeneyo bakhonza isidlo lulula ajikwa uthandane. A Uhambo edibeneyo ukuya evenkileni zinokudityaniswa kunye bahambahamba sites zakho ozithandayo. Abasetyhini bayakuthanda ukufumana inkxaso rhoqo yesibheno sakhe - ndithi yokuncoma zakhe, ukunika izipho ezincinane kanye kungekho sizathu.

Kutheni kucingwa ukuba ubudlelwane linyanzelekile ukuba ukunika umntu, kodwa kuba yinto embi ngokupheleleyo. Abafazi senza iphutha kukuba emva kokuba betshatile yena, ubona indoda yakhe zikhona yaye ngokupheleleyo liyayeka ukuba ukujonga emva ngokwabo. Old gown, inyathelwe iiteki, imaski ebusweni bakhe - zonke ezo ukubuyisela amaza yothando kulithatha. Abasetyhini bakholisa ukuba izaba omnye - ndiziva ndikhululekile kangaka. Kodwa ke umntu uyamthanda amehlo akhe. Kwaye xa iingqameko ukuya kulala kwi lingerie buphelile okanye neqwengiweyo yokulala musa silindele kuye into okuxhaphaza.

Ukuze babe ngamanye amaxesha yanele nje ukuba kuthengwe iimpahla ezintle, wanxiba ilokhwe kwaye musa ukulibala ngokwakhiwa kunye iinwele. Le ndoda iza kakhulu umnqweno wakho ukuba muhle yena yedwa, kuye bekuya kuba bungqina wothando lwenu.

Musa ukulibala ukuba oyindoda womelele uthanda ukufumana iimpawu ezincinane ukusuka oyithandayo. Kwaye ke akusoloko izipho. Madoda, njengabafazi ukuthanda yokuncoma, kufuneka azive ethandwa kwaye bakwazi ukucombulula naziphi na iingxaki. Bonisana nabo rhoqo kangangoko, ukudala imvakalelo yokuba kuphela uyakwazi ukucombulula iingxaki ezininzi. Konke oku kwandisa ukuzithemba kwaye kuvumela indoda ukuba bazive befunwa.

asifanele sicinge ukuba yonke into aya ukusombulula ngokwayo Ukuba uziva imimoya ulwalamano lwakho kwaye nomtshato nothando basengozini. Kamsinya uhlale phantsi etafileni thethwano, kokukhona ukuba ahlawule ukunganeliseki kwi amathupha nje ngokuthatha izigqibo. Uthando - yimvakalelo inqabile inxulumanisa intliziyo umphefumlo. Kubalulekile ukuba basebenze nzima baze bagcine umkhusane romance yonke iminyaka elide kubomi bomtshato.