Ukungaqiniseki malunga umgangatho ngamnye

Kakuhle eyaziwa mkhuba "mama yamaYuda" ngubani onqula amanabukeni lwakho usana kunye nomntwana uphefumlela: "! Izzy, wena yingqondi". Ukuba utitshala athethe kakubi komntwana wakhe, wathi: "Izzy! Thina apha ningaqondi. Siya kwesinye isikolo. " Russian yi namarhela: "UYohane, wena esisinyabi yena." Ukukhulisa abantwana nashkodivshego cat: "Musani ukuya, musa badanduluka, maan, yintoni ikubulale umgqakhwe kukutyeba Yiya ukudlala ngebhola!?!" Kwaye ngoko bayazibuza kutheni phakathi izazinzulu, amagcisa, koonobhanki kunye nabadlali amaYuda. Le mfihlelo ke ilula: khulisa abantu bazithembe ngenxa yendalo ngemfundo ngentlonelo. Thazeka kubangelwa iimpazamo kwimfundo.

Umntwana ulingisa abasabela ngayo ukungaqiniseki, abazali abakwazi ukuba iziganeko ebomini. Kwiminyaka emithandathu ngaphambi engqondweni yakhe angabi nako ukwenza ulwazi engenayo kubalulekile. Ngqo okanye engathanga ngqo eziyingozi iingcebiso, iinkolelo, isimo, ubuhlanga, iingcamango neemposiso abazali okucinga ezixineneyo ukungaqiniseki elishweni lakhe ngqo kwi ienjini lomntwana. Ukususela kule ukungaqiniseki inkunkuma eyenziwe isipha entle - inkqubo yayo izimvo malunga ebomini. Isiphakamiso ngqo yingozi - ibinzana ngathi, "wena musa bafanelwe ukuba le ',' kungekhona Senka ikepusi", "ngeke", "musa nokuba bazame," "apho", "iya kuba ubomi idlala isidenge kwaye udonga lokunithumelela ". icebiso ezimbi engathanga ngqo, "nangona yintoni na umsebenzi indlala Akafanga" (cebiso lokukwekwa: "Wena akuyi uya kufumana umsebenzi ofanelekileyo," "uyakwazi kufa yindlala"), "wena ubuncinane ezithile, kodwa indoda yakhe" (cebiso yeSabelo: "wena - ugly", "wena ukufumana indoda elungileyo"), kunye namanye amabinzana singanyangekiyo ngomoya ofanayo. Ngamanye amazwi, ukungaqiniseki asilophawu isegazini. Ukungaqiniseki - imveliso ye elihle kwezentlalo.

Kwaye ngoku, isidalwa diffident amanyathelo ehlabathini abadala. Kodwa ukuphumeza le njongo , oko akwenzeki ngenxa yokuswela ukholo kubo. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, oko lufundwa ukuba zonke izenzo zakhe Kukuze ukusilela. Ukunikezela wena indoda encinane, yolungiso lweengxaki, oko overstates uqikelelo yehlabathi lwangaphandle. Ngokomzekelo, injongo kukuba ukuya eyunivesithi phambi kwakhe. Kwabaziingqola imisebenzi yabo, kwelinye icala, kunye bangcangcazele wegunya University, kwelinye icala, loo gusha yeyela badengeka, ukuba yethusayo. Sangaphandle ukubaluleka yaseyunivesithi Akungenwa andilalele edinayo, yaye ngaphakathi uzaliswe ukubaluleka yokunqongophala ukholo amakhono abo. Ukuhlanganiswa, baba engakhuselekanga. Yonke amandla iya ixhala, ixhala kunye noloyiko. On iimviwo amandla ihleli.

Ukungaqiniseki - kuba inqolonci, exutywe luloyiko nentlonelo ukubaluleka zehlabathi ngaphandle. Nokungaqiniseki ebomini zimeko ezimbini eziphambili: zangaphakathi - ukoyika nabangaphandle - nentlonelo ngaphandle, i overestimation izinto ezinzulu zehlabathi ezingqongileyo (ukubaluleka). Ukungaqiniseki igcwele uloyiko. Ngokomzekelo, umntu wanxunguphala ukudada (fear), ndicinga ukuba akazange aphumelele (ukungaqiniseki). Okanye omnye umzekelo: umntu ofuna ukuthatha uhambahambe ngokuhlwa, kodwa uziva engakhuselekanga ngenxa amatyala ukuxhatshazwa kwabafundi ngabanye apha kwisithili. Xa efumanisa ukuba amapolisa bezithili Silihambahambile ezitratweni, uloyiko zithathiwe, kwaye nalo ke ukungaqiniseki.

Nabani sihlangabezana ukungaqiniseki kuhlolwe, kuba ngaphandle kwendawo yamandla ayo. Hi xikombiso, le oligarch ogula pet inja. ilungelo lakhe "isaqhwithi ukuzithemba." Lithemba, Kakade ke, hayi, azafunyanelwa ndawo wahlala. Kwakukho uloyiko, kunye nokungaqiniseki. Yena wangena ummandla olungazolanga ukungaqiniseki. Ke ngoku yena wezilwanyana ilungileyo. A wezilwanyana - ukungaqiniseki kwimicimbi yemali umntu, kodwa yobungcali eyinyaniso intsimi yabo. Ngoko ke kuvela: ezimalini zokuvavanywa uziva apaha kuthelekiswa oligarch kunye oligarch eziva engakhuselekanga kwezonyango, apho ugqirha wezilwanyana uziva siqinisekile.

Ukungaqiniseki - koko kukholosa uphawu esahlukileyo. Njengoko ithemba, oko kuxhomekeke kuphela kuloyiko, kodwa iimeko zangaphandle kunye neemeko. Sizama ukuba ukuzibonela ngokwam kunye nehlabathi ngokubaluleka yabo. Kuthatha isabelo yengonyama ngayo amandla ethu. Xa unika le umnqweno ukunamathela ngaphandle abonise wonke ukuba elungileyo kubalulekile, kwaye nje ngokuzola zinxulumene ukubaluleka kwayo, ajikelezileyo engathandi va yona. Wakho ukuzithemba kunye self-ukubaluleka iya kulingana kuvavanyo abanye. Okunye uluvo lwesithandathu baqonde ukubaluleka kwakho.

Phezu umntu engakhuselekanga, okt umntu phantsi ukuzithemba, njengoko ikrele Damocles ebeke ukubaluleka zonke zangaphandle. Le meko kolu phuhliso ukuba oku ephikisanayo kunye nokuba unetyala. Ekubeni nokungakhuseleki ebuntwaneni Esukelana ukuziva unetyala kwaye irhuqa him eceleni ukuqiniseka retsedivist. Ngenxa yoko ukuziva ungafaneleki, emncinane kunye yalutho. Njengoba ukuphila umthwalo enjalo aqala ngababuthuntu, izigqibo kunye laliphakathi nje. Ngelo xesha, imvakalelo ityala emfutshane ngathi iimpukane kulo doti, ezandleni. Idlala on ityala, ke baninyanzela ukuba ukuzithethelela abonise into. Ulahlekelwa amandla nokukhula ukungaqiniseki kwabo, yaye zizandlala ngeendleko zakho. Usenokuzithethelela kwabanye, akufanele.

Mxelele wena: "Mna kulindelekile ukuba ube wena; ukuba nemihlali buhlungu, ngabandwendwisi, ukwenza i" ephosakeleyo, "ngokweminye izenzo yokuzithethelela, ukuba buhlungu. Ndinelungelo ukuba kwaye bavakalise iimvakalelo zabo, uvavanyo kunye nezimvo ukuzithethelela nokuxolisa. I unelungelo ukubeka izinto zalo kwaye abe ngokwakhe, nangona izimvo zabanye. Ukuze athi "hayi" ngaphandle uziva unetyala. "

Akukho mntu unelungelo kunigweba. Thumela zabantu ekhaya. Khumbula, ukubaluleka kwakho enkundleni sesokugqibela. indlela kuphela liya kukuphelisa iimvakalelo ezibuhlungu unetyala. Ngamanye amazwi, ayeke ukuba anilwele ukufaneleka kwabo alahle umnqweno ukukugwebela isigqibo imibuzo ngokubaluleka yayo yangaphakathi. Kuyinto nje, kwaye kubonakala iintlobo ezimbini: ixhala malunga ukuzixabisa kunye nemvo letyala.

Awunayo nto nakubani, yaye nabani musa ukuba natyala lanto. Uyayithanda intsapho yakho. Abakhathalele enecala. Ukunyanzelwa inkolelo - umahluko ezimbini ezinkulu. Le nkolelo kungekho zimbophelelo kunye ngokunyanzelwa. Bonke abo bephazamisa imida yakho, uthi, "Andiqondi ukuba ibe ingelosi. Bonke abantu engenasono. Andinalo ukuhlangabezana nokulindelweyo kwabanye, lako imithambo bayibingelele ngenxa babo ndiya kuba abanye. "

Ukongeza kule sangaphakathi, kufuneka nangoku ugqibe ukubaluleka lwangaphandle, nto leyo ebonakaliswa ukungaqiniseki nokuntsonkotha iingxaki. I esithi "Kusoloko kungcono apho, apho kungekho kuthi," kanye kule series. Engeluncedo lwanto ukubaxa ukubaluleka izinto zehlabathi. Oku kubangela iveze nexhala. Umzekelo, ufuna ukufumana umsebenzi, kodwa ungawuqwalaseli wena akandifanele befuna izikhundla - self-kwamathandabuzo uzenza ngayo. Ukuze nilwele sikhundla - oku ubuchule bakho kunye nendlela yokuziphatha. Uya kufumana exhaleni yaye ngokuthe ngcembe sehla ekudakumbeni. Ezi mvakalelo iya kuthatha onke amandla. Ukuba uyaqaphela asete aura njengolubalulekileyo indawo efunekayo yaye siyaqonda ukuba akukho oothixo ngeembiza, mhlawumbi uya kuthabatha kwesi sikhundla. Kubonakala ukuba ukuze kuphunyezwe kwisikhundla ukuba udibana ngokupheleleyo, kwakuyimfuneko kuphela ukunciphisa ukubaluleka isithuba. Le mandla ngaphambili lichithwe mercilessly namava yanto zabo, yaye ngoku uya ntetho avulekile kumqeshi iimpawu zawo zilungileyo.

Nkqu nezilwanyana ezibanjwa kwi kukubaxwa ezininzi ezingokubaluleka izinto zehlabathi lwangaphandle. Kumabonakude, siya ukubalisa ibali yehashe nabaKhulisi, ezingenakulinganiswa ukuba zidityaniswe kunye imazi yehashe. Wamfuna wamfumana eemazi zamahashe ezintle, kunye nexesha ngamnye yehashe ukunika kubo. Emva koko ukuhlukana baqonda. Yena eziqatywe udaka imazi yehashe entle kwaye yehashe ephila ngayo waqabela. Iqhinga kukuba ubuhle inkunzi yehashe oneentloni, kodwa xa waluqaba, iqatywe ludaka, waqonda ukuba wayengekho kakhulu okanye ngcono. Amadoda amaninzi ukuthetha malunga nendlela amahashe.

Amaxesha amaninzi indoda engakhuselekanga abafuna isiqinisekiso self-ngokubaluleka kwihlabathi ngaphandle yokuziphatha boorish kwaye nekratshi. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, ukuba unako abahlaze abanye, ukuba baziphathe ngamandla. Boors kakubi - ngabantu engakhuselekanga. Ukuze bathi ngandlela ithile ngokwakhe, ukuba ukuzibonela ngokwabo ukubaluleka kwabo, sebeqala ukubonisa nakratshi krwada.

Ngokumalunga yokungaqiniseki: imigaqo kwimeko ezingazinzanga ningabi ngabayenza ulwazi ngokupheleleyo ngeziganeko ezizayo, kufuneka ukulawula thile imingcipheko. Thina musa ukubatshabalalisa ubunyani bale meko, kwaye ukungaqiniseki le nyaniso. Ngenxa yokungaqiniseki azinakuphathwa. Thatha indawo loshishino okanye yezimali. Business - umncipheko. Ukuba ngaba awuwathathi ubungozi, ngoko musani imali nto. Ngubani na esichengeni, ukuze, njengokuba sisazi, angadli champagne entolongweni ayihlali. Kufuneka uthathe neentandabuzo lula njengokuba ukuya givens kunqandwa. Thina sonke kwiimeko ezifanayo kubomi isikhephe efanayo. The main idrophu ngokubaluleka, kunye nokungaqiniseki uya kutshitsha.