Ukukhula komntwana esibelekweni. imfundo siswini.

Yintoni umhla njani ngokufanelekileyo ingqalelo i "Happy Birthday"? Siya kusetyenziswa ukuba ukubala uhambisa yobudala eziphilayo, ukususela mzuzu yokuzahlula komntwana emzimbeni kamama, ie, kokuba luzelwe. Noko ke, phakathi oososayensi ezivela kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo kaninzi zenzeka ingxoxo ngalo mbandela, kuba abanye babo anikele ukumisela 'wokuzalwa "yendoda omtsha imini isisu. Ngapha koko, ukuba sele kudala singqiniwe ukuba ingcaciso evela ihlabathi ngaphandle ibonwa kwaye ibhalwe sele kwisisele isigaba zophuhliso umbungu lo. Ukususela ngosuku sele kwi 3-5 iqanda incamathela eludongeni zesibeleko kwaye iqala ukufumana zizondlo neoksijini negazi sikanina. Emva koko, lo mntwana kuphuhliso Esibelekweni kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza, kwaye sele kwiintsuku ezingama-21 ukuba uqala emana intliziyo, yaye kweentsuku ezingama-40, uyakwazi ukubhala imiyalezo evela ingqondo yendoda elizayo.

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ukujongana nophuhliso usana esizalweni?

Kwi iveki yesixhenxe, umntwana eqalisa ukuba ukuhamba ngesantya ngokukhawuleza kwaye uqalisa ukwakha ubunzima kwezihlunu. Ngeli xesha (xa kuphuhliswa ngokupheleleyo indlebe engaphakathi) kusenokuba kufuneka ukuva izandi abavela kokusingqongileyo, kwaye ngoko yonke into eyenzeka Mama, kuboniswe ngqo kwi umntwana. Ngenxa yoko, ngelo xesha kufuneka ucinge ukuba ngokwenene ukhulisa umntwana.

Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba umama nomntwana yinkqubo lowo ngokusondeleyo banxibelelane nabanye. Lonke elo xesha kukho ekukhuleni komntwana esibelekweni, usana ifumana zonke izinto eziyimfuneko (izondlo, amajoni omzimba, ioksijini, njl) emzimbeni kamama, kodwa kuphela kwinqanaba nokomzimba. Abazali baye bakhohlwe, yaye ngamanye amaxesha musa ukuba kunye nophuhliso ebonakalayo kwithebhu efanelekileyo kwaye abasabela yezengqondo-iimvakalelo, ie, nemvakalelo komntwana esibelekweni.

ubuhlobo obuhle nomama notata womntwana wabeka cwaka ngeli ukuthwala umntwana, ngoko ufuna intsebenziswano yemihla ngemihla ingqalelo nje umntwana nonina kunye kwicala likayise. Kuba abafazi abakhulelweyo kubalulekile ukuze kuhlanganiswe ukuba umoya ukulungelelana, ukuzola kunye nentlalo-ntle, ngoko, ukuba unina iyavisisana kokusingqongileyo, umntwana uya siphuhlise kakuhle kwaye uya kuzalelwa entle nozinzileyo ngokweemvakalelo.

unina Okukhona womntwana iye imvakalelo uvuyo nolonwabo, xa kukho inani elikhulu zamadlala iiendorphin eveliswa emzimbeni, iimvakalelo emihle umntwana ufumana, njengoko ezi hormone ezosulela baby ngegazi.

abaphengululi ezibalulekileyo umngcatsha uphuhliso ezinobuchule umntwana kwixesha siswini. indima Big umculo, njengokuba kudala kwaphawulwa ukuba ekugqibeleni abantwana bafunde umculo, ngokufuthi yakuva, ukuba ngaphakathi kunina.

Positive abakhulelwe kumnandi ukuphulaphula umculo ngoncuthu, oko akuthethi akuthethi ukuba kuba umculo weklasiki, njengoko kudla ibango. umculo nje, kamnandi endlebeni kwabasetyhini kunye nomntwana. Wamkelekile ukucula, ukuzoba kunye ayithethi naliphi na icala zobuciko.

Ukuphuhliswa umntwana esibelekweni okanye siswini imfundo ibaluleke kakhulu kuyo ukuyilwa umntu kwixesha elizayo, ngenxa yokuba ngexesha wokuzalwa umntwana sele ekhaya ukuya kwiinyanga ezilithoba ubomi bakhe. Ngeli xesha, uya kufumana imvakalelo uvuyo nolonwabo, unxunguphalo, ingqumbo, uxolo, ulwaneliseko, umsindo kunye nobushushu (oku kwaba zizazinzulu IsiNgesi, owazeka imifanekiso iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo ebusweni zabantwana esibelekweni). Xa ekukhuleni komntwana esibelekweni, wabeka zonke iimvakalelo, iinkolelo, iitalente nobuchule, kukho umnqweno kwafunyaniswa kunye nolwazi olutsha.

Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukuba acinge nzulu olunjani, emva kokuba onke, imini kufanele kuqwalaselwe i "lungelelanisa ukuya ngasekhohlo" umntu.