Iimvakalelo e bengqondo - nto ... Types, iimpawu iimvakalelo

Iimvakalelo e bengqondo - le yenye imixholo engundoqo, nto leyo ebangela umdla omkhulu phakathi izazinzulu, ngokunjalo ngabantu abaqhelekileyo. Le meko sikhatshwa ngumntu ngokusisigxina. Ngokukhawuleza nje ndivuka kusasa, siye sizive kwangoko iimvakalelo ethile, leyo inokwahluka ngokuxhomekeke ezahlukeneyo iziganeko. Yintoni elula nabaqhelekileyo kubonakala, enyanisweni, kuba yinkqubo entsonkothileyo, nto leyo efundwayo ziingcali sele ukutyhubela iinkulungwane eziliqela.

Yintoni na umqondo

Iimvakalelo e bengqondo - luhlobo abasabela iziganeko okanye iziganeko ezahlukeneyo. ubomi babantu akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kwazo. Kwaye nokuba uba yesiqhelo, ngaphandle amava ecacileyo, ngoko abantu baya iqala ukufuna mnandi, ukuphulaphula umculo, ukubukela iimovie okanye udlala imidlalo, nokucinga. Ingakumbi umdla kukuba umntu ukuba ubukho epheleleyo akudingeki kuphela iimvakalelo HIV kodwa ezimbi ezinxulumene ngumsindo, ubuhlungu okanye usizi.

Iintlobo nemizwa bengqondo

Ekubeni imizwa yabantu ayinakuba ngokufanayo kuzo zonke iimeko, kusengqiqweni ukuba ukuhlelwa zabo. Oku kuthetha ukwahlukana ngokungqinelana iimeko nemiqathango apho kuvela. Ngoko ke, iintlobo izivo bengqondo ukuze kwenziwe ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:

• qwa aphezulu - yonke into enxulumene kunye noluntu. Oku kuthetha ukuba isimo sengqondo abantu kubo, abasebenzi, kwakunye ngurhulumente kunye noluntu ngokubanzi. Sinokuthi ezi mpawu kakhulu oluzinzileyo, njengoko phantse ke musa ukutshintsha ubomi. Kulo mqathango kufuneka zithathelwe ingqalelo, kwaye iimvakalelo ezinxulumene ngothando, akuthandayo nyanya ngokunxulumene kwabanye abantu.
• amazwi Moral, leyo kuthiwa isazela ifane kwakhona alawule ubudlelwane babantu. Bekhokelwa kubo, umntu umisela indlela yokuziphatha kwabo kwabanye. Kwakhona, ukuziphatha kunye yokuziphatha ikakhulu kuchaphazela nokuziphatha lwesimo somntu othile.
• Yinxalenye yobomi bomntu kungathathwa ngengqiqo practical. Bona ezinxulumene nomsebenzi lezabasebenzi ukuba akhaphe abantu bonke ubomi babo. Apha esinayo engqondweni kungekuphela nje isimo sengqondo ukuya emsebenzini, kodwa kubangelwa iziphumo yayo emihle okanye emibi. A sigcina icala - le yenye iingqiqo ezibalulekileyo kule shedyuli, leyo ingaqatshelwa stimulus engundoqo umsebenzi emsebenzini.
• iimvakalelo ezikrelekrele ebonakaliswa umntu, ukusukela nje kwixesha lokuzalwa kwakhe. Bona udibene na umnqweno eqhubekayo sokungafundi into entsha, ukuhlalutya, ukuthelekisa kunye nezigqibo. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, ngenxa nokwanda kwabantu, zinaso iintlobo ephakamileyo kubonakaliswa.
• ingqiqo imizwa - oko ubuchule bomntu ukwenza izimvo ezichanekileyo malunga ubuhle, ekhawulelana uhlobo okanye imisebenzi yobugcisa. Nale meko siza nazo yonke imihla, ekuhloleni inkangeleko yabo, kunye nabanye xa bejamelene into entle, emabi, ezintle nasongo njalo njalo.

Izivo Psychology

Ethetha le ngxaki yokusetyenziswa uvakalelo, abantu abaninzi, ngenxa yokuswela ulwazi, thelekisa nabo izivamvo. Kodwa ayikho kakhulu ntiyiso. Izivo bengqondo - yokusabela (okt - nokubonakaliswa yangaphandle) ezintweni ezithile, iziganeko okanye nokushukunyiswa amanyathelo. Yinto uhlobo njengenye yeekhomponenti into efana ukuziva. Iimvakalelo ukuchaza umahluko phakathi yintoni umntu sifumana nzulu ezantsi ngaphakathi.

inkqubo Emotional lukhatshwa iimpawu ezifana:

• Inzala na iziganeko okanye izibakala.
• Uvuyo kweziganeko ezintle.
• Okumangalisayo kukuba, oko akukho sezandleni nokuba mintlhaveko entle okanye embi, kuba akukho nto ukuchaza ngokucacileyo engasafuni izibakala ezithile.
• Ukubandezeleka ibonisa imeko kwangaphakathi okwenziwa iziganeko ezibuhlungu.
• Umsindo ezinokuvela xa kuthelelkiswa umntu okanye iqela labantu (kwezinye iimeko angakhula abe walicukuceza) ethile.
• Ukwehluleka - yimvakalelo ezimbi esinokubakho ukuya ziyaphila noma izinto, kwaye kwezinye iimeko.
• Uloyiko kuvela umntu kwimeko apho kukho isoyikiso wokhuseleko lwalo (kwaye oku ngenxa yaphula indlela ukusoloko yobomi, kwinguqu esa entsha, kwiimeko ezingaqhelekanga).
• kuvela Shame xa umntu kuba esoyika indlela abanye nokuziphatha kwabo.

Ukuba sizityand ubudlelwane phakathi kwala magama efundwayo ngokusondeleyo ngakumbi, singatsho ukuba iimvakalelo - ibe yinkqubo ngokweemvakalelo.

Iimpawu izivamvo

Nemizwa bengqondo - a ngezenzeko ukuba kuthetha ubukho eziliqela iimpawu:

• Valency - yenye iimpawu eziphambili ezichaza iimvakalelo. Ngako oko, umntu unakho babe iimvakalelo entle okanye embi. Kwakhona, kwezinye iimeko, basenokuba cala (okanye, bethetha ulwimi lenzululwazi, kufikwa).
• Ngamandla - ungamandla apho kukho iimvakalelo ethile. Kusenokuba encinane, phantse xa kungekho nafuthe mood lomntu. Ukuba amandla aphakamileyo, zangaphandle ibinzana ngokweemvakalelo ezifanelekileyo.
• iimvakalelo Stenichnost - ingqiqo egqiba impembelelo yazo nemisebenzi yabantu. Ngenxa yoko, kwezinye iimeko, baya kukhuthaza umntu ukuba sikhuthele kwaye ngamanye amaxesha - ukuba ziziswe urhulumente okhululekileyo, melancholic.

Njani indlela avakalelwa kuchaphazela mood

A umntu onwabe luqinisekiswa kakhulu iimvakalelo ukuba uvuya. Kuxhomekeke umthunzi abanazo, abantu baziphathe ngendlela enye okanye omnye, uziva udakumbile okanye ngokuchasene noko, - ezinamaphiko. Ngoko ke, elandelayo iimvakalelo kodwa kube nefuthe elihle echongiweyo igalelo ukuyilwa kwento isimo esihle:

• ukwazisa ehambisana nomoya omhle umntu owenze into entle;
• Uthando - nomsa wesini esahlukileyo;
• uncoma - kubonisa iziyolo ubuhle ;
• isisa - yimvakalelo omhle ebangelwa ngumntu okanye isilwanyana;
• uvelwano - yofuzo komnye umntu ezinxulumene imbonakalo yakhe nezenzo ezilungileyo;
• Inkanuko - bethandana kumntu okanye into.

imizwa ephambene

Nemizwa bengqondo - into enokuthi nayo ibe mibi, ndizibhokoxa kakuhle nempembelelo kwindlela ovuke. Ezi ziquka:

• ikhwele - kwenzeka ingqalelo xa zaneleyo nabantu ababathandayo;
• antipathy - ubutshaba angachananga okanye afanelekileyo loo ndoda;
• iwayini - imvakalelo embi, ezenzeka emva kokuba intshukumo ngabom ephosakeleyo;
• intiyo - imvakalelo zokuthibana nomsindo, abhekiswe umntu othile;
• Uloyiko - iimvakalelo ezingakhiyo ezinxulumene isisongelo kukhuseleko lomntu.

Njani iimvakalelo

Formation izivamvo kwenzeka ngokusebenzisa eliqela imizimba ukuba idluliselwe kwindlela luvo ulwazi lokusingqongileyo. Enkosi kubo, umntu uyakwazi ukubona, ukuva, ngaphandle kwebala, ivumba okanye incasa, yayingena ethile kokusingqongileyo lwangaphandle, abantu ezingqongileyo okanye iimeko ezithile. Ngokomzekelo, ezinye iimvakalelo ezinokuvela ngokunxulumene ukubukela iimovie umdla, ukuphulaphula umculo omnandi, thinta kumphezulu ethile, kwakunye ulwazi uhlobo incasa okanye ivumba.

Enye lungu yovakalelo, elithanda ngokungekho endibalibeleyo ukubakhankanya na izixhobo vestibular. Iqhuba imisebenzi ebalulekile ingqiqo isithuba kwaye ulwazi lwendawo yabo kulo. Enye into ebangela eninzi mpikiswano kuluntu lwezenzululwazi, na intuition okanye kusengaphambili. Ngale ndlela, umntu ukuqikelela kuqala imeko kwangaphambili attuning ewayinini sihlandlo ezithile iimvakalelo emihle okanye emibi.

Imizwa nokuziphatha

iimvakalelo Moral - le yenye wabonakala aphezulu umntu ngokweemvakalelo, nto leyo bubonakala ngesimo sakhe ngokwakhe, ukuba abanye kuluntu. Formation ezi mpawu kwenzeka okoko ebomini. Ekuhambeni yokukhula umntu uqala ukubazi kufutshane kunye izithethe kunye nemithetho eluntwini apho ahlala, as a result kukho amaxabiso athile yokuziphatha,. Nangona isibakala sokuba eli didi iimvakalelo ingqalelo rhoqo kakhulu, nto nangoku nise utshintsho ezinxulumene iziganeko ezithile ekuhlaleni okanye ebomini babo.

Enye mpawu zibalulekileyo iimvakalelo yokuziphatha ingqiqo umsebenzi. Le nto ke kwakhona nge ubudala, kwinkqubo ndikhuliswe kunye nemfundo, yaye ukuba ndingubani. I-call of duty kunokuba kumanqanaba ohlukeneyo kunye kubonakaliswa:

• ngokwakhe - imbopheleleko ukuphumeza iinjongo ezithile, njalo-njalo;
• kwabanye - usapho, abahlobo, uluntu;
• ehlangene yabasebenzi - yokusebenza emkhosini yaye uxanduva lomsebenzi;
• urhulumente - imvakalelo ubuzwe isidima esizwe.

Iintlobo yeenkqubo ngokweemvakalelo

inkqubo Emotional - inkqubo iifektha elawula umsebenzi emzimbeni okanye emphefumlweni zabantu, nto leyo eyenzeka ukuphendula kwiimeko yokusingqongileyo kunye nokushukunyiswa indawo. Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuba okwangoku akukho ayisekho nayiphi na ingcamango eyamkelekileyo ukuba ukunika ingcaciso ngqo kolu luvo.

Ukuthetha inkqubo ngokweemvakalelo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ubukho ezininzi kwiintlobo yayo;

• kuchaphazela - oko mfutshane, kodwa amazwi ngendlela eyomeleleyo ngokweemvakalelo, nto leyo inokuchazwa yomsebenzi omkhulu ngokwasengqondweni okanye ngokwasemzimbeni;
• iimvakalelo ukunika umntu ukuqonda zesimo imeko, nto leyo akukho ndlela ezinxulumene nayo nayiphi na into ethile;
• iimvakalelo, njengoko kuthelekiswa udidi elidlulileyo, isimo sengqondo express kunye nezenzo zabantu ezinxulumene nayo nayiphi na into ethile;
• Mood - Iinkqubo ngokweemvakalelo elide, apho sinxulumana ezisingqongileyo eziqhelekileyo ebandakanya zombini nokuhlalisana izinto.

Uyintoni umnqweno

Engxakini naziphi na izinto okanye iminqweno zinokwenza ingqiqo ethile. Umnqweno - le yenye yezona ntlobo zixhaphakileyo kweemfuno. Oku nje ukunqongophala kolwazi naziphi na izinto okanye iminqweno, kodwa kwakhona ukukwazi ukuphendula kakuhle kwiqela eziphakanyiswe:

• Yintoni kanye endifuna? Ukubanako ukuchaza ngokucacileyo into apho kukho imfuneko okanye yesizathu esingxamisekileyo.
• Kutheni ndifuna? Ukukwazi ukuqaphela isizathu, nto leyo yabangela ukuvela imfuneko yokuba nantoni na.
• Indlela ukuphumeza le njongo? Ulwazi okanye ukufumana iindlela ezithile okanye iindlela ezikuvumela ukuba ufumane into oyifunayo okanye ukufikelela naliphi na ilizwe.

imizwa yabantu ezinxulumene iminqweno, unako kwenzeka ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Baya ezinokubangelwa zombini kwiimeko zangaphakathi nangaphandle. Ethetha yokuqala, kufanelekile ukuba sikhankanye imfuneko lobuqu okanye ukungabikho naziphi na iingenelo. Enye imbangela umnqweno inokuba ukulandela ifashoni, kwaye umnqweno baxelise abantu namandla okanye neenkokeli kwamaqela asekuhlaleni.

Kunjani umnqweno, ukuba igcinwe ithuba elide kwaye inokuba kakhulu ngokusisigxina. Kwimeko yokuqala, uyakwazi rhoqo ukuthetha malunga neemfuno ngokweemvakalelo ukuba ngeke sigqibe iimpahla eziphathekayo. Kodwa iminqweno ezinxulumene nayo nayiphi na izinto ezithile okanye izifundo zingatshintsha okanye shwaka ngokupheleleyo ngenxa yotshintsho eziqhubekayo.

Indlela yokubonisa imizwa

Ukubonakaliswa iimvakalelo kufuneka kuqwalaselwe kuphela xa into ethile okanye inkqubo, kodwa ibe yimfuneko njongo, nto leyo uphawu lomntu ngamnye. Kuyenzeka ukuba eziliqela iimpawu ezithile, nto leyo unelona amazwi iimvakalelo:

• umsebenzi wonxibelelwano kukuba wonke umntu rhoqo ufuna ukuthetha. Vumela ukuba ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo size sincede nabanye isimo sabo kule okanye loo meko, kwaye uthabathe ulwazi olufanayo ukusuka interlocutor yakhe okanye kumdlali welinye iqela. Abantu nabo wavakalisa isimo sabo ukuya komnye. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba nxibelelwano luqhubekayo nje kuphela unxibelelwano ngomlomo, kodwa kwakhona ngokusebenzisa izimbo zomzimba, iimbono, kunye nezinye zeentshukumo.
• umsebenzi buqhinga (okanye impembelelo) Ivumela umntu ukuthumela ngendlela ethile iintshukumo kunye nokuziphatha kwabo nabanye abantu. Le nkqubo kunokwenzeka ngokuguqula ithoni kunye nomthamo ilizwi lakho, la izimbo esebenzayo, kwakunye ethile yobuso. Ukongeza, unako kwakhona ukwqhatha abanye iingxelo ezithile ezibonisa yakho urhulumente ngokweemvakalelo.
• umsebenzi ngokwasemphefumlweni ukukhulula iimvakalelo. Umongo kule meko kuxhomekeke kwinto yokuba ukukhathazeka engqondweni lidla ukuba yande kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni isiganeko okanye nesenzeko yayibizwa (HIV okanye negative). Echaza iimvakalelo zakhe, umntu idla yokuzifumana. Echaza iimvakalelo zakho interlocutor (ngomlomo okanye ngokusebenzisa izijekulo), umntu azive isiqabu ngokweemvakalelo aphelise uxinezeleko luvo. Zengqondo iimeko apho ukungakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi ngokweemvakalelo kukhokelela ukuphazamiseka engqondweni okanye zokuziphatha kakhulu.