Mfundisi ikhoboka umntu - oku ukulingana

Ukususela ebuntwaneni, utitshala wethu (makhe kubiza ngoko wonke ngubani nayiphi na impembelelo kuphuhliso wethu: abazali, ootitshala, ootitshala, abadala, njl) asingenise umlinganiswa othile, ubuntu, ungabenza umdla ethile, yakha inqubo . Ngoko kuza kufuneka ukuba ifuthe ngexesha lokufikisa, kubaluleke gqitha ebomini bethu elizayo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, Kakade ke, ngenxa yokuba sizama ukwenza abantu abaphumeleleyo bayakwazi ukwenza izigqibo, ukuthatha uxanduva ngezenzo zabo, ukuze bazuze iziphumo ezigqwesileyo.

Kodwa ngesizathu esithile, ukuze akhule abe abadala, abanye abantu baba iinkokeli, namabhongo, ngenjongo, ukuzithemba, uyakwazi ukukhokela kwabanye. Nangona abanye, ukungaphithizeli Kunoko, yiba (okanye uhlale) oneentloni, maxa wambi bobusana, elinde lowo uya kubakhokela, ukubonisa indlela, nithi, mandenze ntoni.

Sonke musa ubengamvanga kanye kanye okanye kabini ukuba ngamnye bayawa abantu komnye iindidi ezimbini: nokuba yena yenginginya okanye umntu olikhoboka. Yiloo nto kanye enye yezinto ezibalulekileyo kwi ukuba uya ukuphumelela ebomini, luhlobo luni yokuphila kuya kukhokelela kwaye uya kuba yintoni na iziphumo zezenzo zakhe.

Kweli nqaku siza kuthetha ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukukhokela, yaye oko kuthetha umntu eqhutywa. Kananjalo cinga yeempawu azalwa kuyo nganye kuzo.

Khokela umntu. Leader. Kuba didi abantu abo abangoyikiyo ukuthatha uxanduva ngokwabo, izenzo zabo, ubomi babo kunye kubomi babo ababathandayo. Aba bantu bakwazi ukwenza izigqibo zabo, ukoyisa iingxaki, ekuhleni bangasoloko ukuveza izimvo zabo (kwaye unayo!) Yaye uphawule indawo yayo. Amaninzi aba bantu self-ezaneleyo sizithembile. Ukuba ulime izakhono elungileyo lombutho kwaye akhokele. Musa ukukhalazela ngobomi okanye ukubulawa abanye abantu. Jonga ebomini ngakumbi kakuhle kwaye kuzo zonke iimeko, ezama ukufumana amathuba ezintle. rhoqo kakhulu ke le lokuhle abacinga eyakhayo ubomi kunye neziganeko.

zenza abantu. lo ephambene ngqo inkosi. Abantu abanjalo musa kusoloko uluvo. Kwaye ukuba, ngoko ke bakhetha cwaka. Kukho iimeko xa uyele uxanduva kwabanye - ukuba banela asichukunyiswa. Bayakhalaza wekamva, iimeko kunye lithemba, kuba ubomi wabaphatha kakubi. Jolisa ubuthathaka kunye nesikhundla ixhoba. Kuzo zonke iintsilelo zabo naziimbandezelo ityala nabani na kodwa bona. Njengomgaqo, silahle yaye unxunguphele. Izigqibo zenziwa kabuhlungu yaye qabu xa izigqibo zenziwe ngenxa yabo, yaye xa sixelelwe ekwakufaneleke ukuba bakwenze.

Ngokwendalo, ezahlukeneyo kunye nesimbo kunye nomgangatho wobomi aba bantu.

Ukukhokela ubomi zahlukahlukene kakhulu - zizele intshukumo, amandla, iziganeko, iimvakalelo. Nabo nice yaye kumnandi, ngenxa yokuba lo mntu - umphefumlo inkampani, usoloko uyakwazi yaze yangxenga ifuthe lomanyano indlela usenza intw engwevu ekruqulayo. Ukuba siziinkosi ubomi babo.

Kwangaxeshanye, eqhutywa umntu - nguye ohlala lwako laliphakathi nje. Kwimbali yabo, akukho impumelelo ebalaseleyo kunye neziphumo. Ubomi babantu abanjalo maxa wambi nkqu bona ngokwabo kusonwabisa. Singasathethi ke abanye, owathi, ukuba Elucweyweni ngamakhoboka abantu bazive ndidikwe, imo udandathekile, imo embi.

Osahluleyo labantu, nokuba yelungileyo nokuba yembi. Yonke nje. Kwaye kulindelekile. Ngapha koko, abantu abakwazi abe yinkokeli ngokwemvelo. Kanye njengokuba wonke ayikwazi ibe likhoboka. Kungenjalo, ubomi bethu bonke bababuyisa udushe.

Kuya kuhlala kubakho abo ukudala amashishini, amashishini, imibutho. Kwaye kuya kusoloko abo basebenza apho. Abanye bayakuthanda zonke izibonelelo baphile ngokupheleleyo. Abanye ubakhonze. Ukuba kukho umntu akazi, asazi nemasikwenze, apho ukuya, ukuphuhlisa, kwaye kusoloko kukho umntu oya kubonisa indlela amse yintoni ulwalathiso. Loo ubomi. Lo mthetho, nto leyo ezisa ngokuvumelana eluntwini, kwaye ukulingana.

Xa ndiqukumbela, sinokuthi ngokubanzi omnye - inkosi okanye umntu olikhoboka - nendoda yakhe iimpawu ezintle nezingeloncedo, nobubi. Ke ukuba iinkokeli namathuba ezimbalwa kakhulu ukufezekisa into ethile, ukwenza yokuphila kwabo banqwenela, eziqhutywa ngoko kufuneka nje ukuba basebenze nzima phezu wena nokuphuhlisa. Ngapha koko, imbali akukho ekumnikeni ngamatyala apho abantu ezibonakala ingathi yimimangaliso kwaye laliphakathi nje babe ngababusi-class zehlabathi nobuntu abadumileyo.

Le ndoda ngokwayo unako ukuzenza ndlela afuna.