Phezulu ukutyhilwa kwephupha elo: yintoni amaphupha umpu nomawukulindele nombono onjalo?

Ulwazi malunga ingafunyanwa umpu iphupha, phantse kuzo zonke incwadi phupha. Ukutolikwa yahlukile, kodwa uninzi inophawu ezimbi. Nangona kunjalo, oku kufuneka ndithi kuni iinkcukacha kancinci.

olichazayo Medea

Ukuba unomdla koko amaphupho umpu kufuneka ujonge kule ncwadi. Uyatsho ukuba isifundo usisimntwiso kokomntu ofihlakeleyo ngumsindo. Okanye benzeke, apho yena wayengazi. Kwakhona Nakuphi kunokwenzeka nomntu ezingemnandi.

Ingathengwa ivolibholi ithi umntu kufuneka bakulungele. Mhlawumbi kungekudala uya ingxelo ethile ebalulekileyo. Le ndoda ngokwayo emsebenzini esi sixhobo? Ngoko ke, kwixesha elizayo uya kuba yinxalenye ingxabano kakhulu. Ntoleyo, Noko ke, uya kukuphelisa kuthula.

Umbono ezilungileyo iphupha apho umntu ihlolwe, ukuwuhlamba waqoqa nompu. Kukholelwa ukuba - uhlaziye izicwangciso zabo kunye odolwa ethile ebomini babo.

ngokutsho Freud

Interpreter le psychoanalyst odumileyo uyakwazi ukuchaza into umpu iphupha.

Kwenzeka ukuba isigxina sakhe - ukuba uxhumane ngokwesondo yokuqala. Inkqubo ukuthandana ngenxa Arms kwaye ancome kubo Libonakalisa banomnqweno for self-ulwaneliseko. Kwaye ukuba ke akukho namnye, kodwa amanani amakhulu, lo mphuphi, ngoko ke ikhokelela ebomini sex kakubi. Kwaye oko kunokukhokelela imiphumo. Kodwa ukuba wanyula umbono wakhe umpu, ngoko ufuna ukufumana lokwenyaniso "iqabane umphefumlo." Kweli phupha obumntwisiweyo banomnqweno ukuze ulwalamano lwenu luhlale.

Kwaye yintoni iphupha ukudubula umpu? Ngokuqhelekileyo, le mbono ufuzisela ngesondo ubukrwada yabantu. Ukuba "esinye isiqingatha 'yakhe kubonwa kukutyeba. Mhlawumbi kwakungayi kuba buhlungu ukuba anyamekele izilangazelelo zalo akabandulula nemizwa senkosi.

Kodwa ke ukuba umntu luphinde ludubuleke kwi umntu - ezimbini. Kuba abantu, oku kuthetha ukuba sele kuchaziwe intombazana angathanda ukulufunda. Kodwa lo mbono yomfazi uthetha ngomnqweno wakhe ienjini ukuba ukuqhagamshelana ummeli sex yabo.

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Ukuze naye kufuneka kulungiswe, ubalisa ngezinto ikuqhuma iphupha ezandleni zakhe. Ndaza ndafumana ithuba lokuba imdubule? Le inzuzo enkulu kunye nokusekwa zobume bemali. Ukubona eziqhelekileyo, imdubule? Kuba kwintlalo-ntle kothile.

Ukuthengwa kwezixhobo ithi umntu umakhi ulonwabo yakhe, kwaye ngoku lixesha lokuba ukubeka ukuze ubomi babo kwaye bahlole lawo ezintsha. Kodwa intengiso zange izinto ziya kuhamba kakuhle. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, umbono onjalo intwasahlobo izenzo enobungozi kwaye iimpazamo noqhekeko.

Kodwa loo nto zonke, yintoni ikuqhuma iphupha. Xa umntu ebona umntu iinjongo zakhe izixhobo ezinjalo, ngoko kungekudala uza kuba lixhoba neenjongo umntu embi. Ndaza ndafumana ithuba ukuhlangabezana umntu ndaba kwesandla? Kusenokwenzeka ukuba umngcatshi uya kuba ngumntu osondeleyo, ngubani ulonwabele ukuzithemba.

Kodwa zokuzingela, eliphakamayo ngaphezu kodonga sesona impumelelo ukuba mphuphi kuya kufuneka balandele elide nzima ekufezekisweni naziphi na izimvo, esebenzisa yonke wakhe amandla, umonde, ubuchule, ukuzimisela nokunyamezela.

ngokutsho Miller

Le itoliki nako ukuchaza into umpu iphupha. Umbono yomfazi uthi kungekudala kuba uya baxokozelisa nenqala enkulu okanye scandal, kunye nokusombulula kuya kuba nzima kakhulu. Bona zii- "ithagethi ophilayo '- kumava kwembambano ezizayo.

Ukuba belikhona ithuba ukuqwalasela isixhobo embonweni, ngoko, enyanisweni, kufuneka uqaphele sobutshijolo. Kwafuneka ukuba ukucoca sifundo? Oku kubonisa ukuba kwixesha elifutshane bume n'wina umntu ezama bangene ulutshaba. Ngenxa mabalumkele abahlobo abatsha.

Ngakumbi uphawu okubi iphupha apho umntu ephethe umpu bamtola umntu abahlobo okanye izalamane. Lubonisa waxakwa ukufumana amagama. Ngenxa yoku, wayedla, singazi, ukulimaza abo bafanelwe nto. Kuya kuba kuhle ukuba aphinde imikhwa yabo nokuziphatha, kunye nokusebenza ngobunono phezu kuphuculo umlinganiswa.

Kodwa ukuba umpu ikhangeleka njani into engaqhelekanga, ke ngoko, kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezizayo apho kuya kubakho into, nto leyo esisizathu sokuba abantu ngokupheleleyo ukutshintsha izimvo zabo okanye nokuhlaziya inkqubo ixabiso yakho kude. Kwaye mhlawumbi iya kutshintsha.