Nokhetho zexabiso engangempi uqhuba yokuziphatha kwethu

Kwanokuba ekuqaleni-bulumko, abantu bacinga ukuba Ulobumba yokuqhelaniswa ixabiso ezisisiseko mntu, yintoni nezikhundla zabo nendlela amaxabiso kuchaphazela isicwangciso ubomi babantu. Ngumzali, le ngxoxo ndingayeki unanamhla. Izigwebo zethu ixabiso semvelo okanye ebekwe ekuhlaleni ngenxa yemfundo, apho ipesenti umntu ekhetha sabo, apho - inkqubo ixabiso le imveliso yengcinezelo evela kuluntu kunye kulingisa kwezentlalo inxalenye mntu?

Akukho mfuneko yokuba kufuneka ubonise ukuba kwafika umntu bume yezilwanyana. Kwaye ngoko ihlabathi isilwanyana unalo ezininzi zengqondo ukuba babone yoqhelwaniso ixabiso: oko kukuthi, ngaphezu kwabo bonke, ukugcinwa ubomi nokuzala. Njengoko abantu bavela obeku- ezihlala apha emhlambini, nathi sibe umnqweno ixabiso amandla kaThixo, ezinokuthi luboniswe ngeendlela ezahlukahlukeneyo - iinkanuko ezaneza ukubathoba abanye, ukuze passionarity. Kwaye xa sithetha ngalo alpha, beta kunye nabantu wesigrike ehlabathini isilwanyana, ngoko kutheni anyaniseke kwaye musa ukucinga ukuba iindlela ezifanayo ziqhutywa, kunye nabameli boluntu buya Homo sapiens? Ngokufanayo, siya eziqhutywa Bemvelo nokuzala, leyo ngokungangqalanga imisela amaxabiso zethu kubuhle (ngubani ekufuneka ziqwalaselwe ubenomtsalane intsebenziswano ngokwesondo), kwezoqoqosho (nokwanda kwempahla ebalulekileyo bazidlulisele inzala yabo), yezopolitiko (umnqweno ukuba balungelelanise ubomi ngokuchaseneyo sisiphithiphithi nokungalawuleki), njalo-njalo .

Noko ke, abantu - i "zoon politikon" isilwanyana kwezentlalo, ngoko ke uluntu inyanzela kumaxabiso zayo ngamnye bokuqhelaniswa value. Oku kubonakala kwinto yokuba kuluntu kukho iiklasi ezithile kunye iyaxela, ngoko kukho amaxabiso abameli kwezi klasi kunye nezigaba. Uyakwazi ukuthetha malunga ixabiso nofundiso le amahippie kunye "yuppies" lamanani abalimi kunye nabasebenzi, kakhulu abantu zonqulo akekho. Ngomhla ukuyilwa zengqondo nazo kuchaphazela "mass zingqondweni" - le paradigmat apho umntu Wenyusa ebuntwaneni.

Njani ulwalamano lwethu izinzile ukuya eziphathekayo nangokomoya iimpahla, imilinganiselo, iimbono, mvisiswano leyo, kwelinye icala, inokusikhokela ebomini nokukhokela ukuziphatha kwethu? On imfundo yabo kuchaphazela uluntu luphela, okusingqongileyo, imfundo kunye namava ngayo ngamnye. nokhetho abaninzi ixabiso wabumba ngokubambiseneyo zingqondweni, ku lawula kuluntu atityudom. Ndandikhula, umntwana kakhulu ngokukhawuleza uqala ukwahlula ixabiso yaxela uluntu ababezibiza sisininzi sabantu. Ngoko ke, kwiminyaka 70 kwinkulungwane yokugqibela, ubukumkani "socialism phambili", ulutsha ebizwa ngokuba "doublethink". Naluphi na uluntu awayo lamaxabiso apho kutsalela abantu. Ibiya kuthetha ukuba bonke abantu bafanele efanayo amaxabiso yobomi: impumelelo, ubutyebi, ubuhle, ulonwabo. Ke ukuba ubuhlobo izinto eziphathekayo, i-orientation Ixabiso lingaba 'ukwenza kuthenga,' yaye 'ukuba asele. " Ngapha koko, yintoni "impumelelo ebomini": ukuphumeza mna okanye uthenge imali isikhundla kwaye wenze nto? Yintoni i "ubutyebi": intuthuzelo lobuqu okanye belahla uthuli emehlweni? Yintoni "mhle": isimbo kitsch okanye zibiza?

Nendlela eliluqilima na orientation ixabiso? Nangona ukuba usenze ngendlela yokuziphatha, betshintsha kunye nobudala. Kodwa ke, nangona kunjalo, sonke sikhokelwa umnqweno wokwenza okulungileyo. Kuphela apha, "elungileyo" luqondwa sithi ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Kulungile - kulungile sikwancedela thina (nokuba ububi kwabanye), okanye oxhamlayo abanye, nkqu ukuzincama? Yiloo nto abantu zonqulo ubuza umbuzo: apho kufuneka baqonde "elungileyo", kodwa kuLowo owenza sibe ngabantu, leyo eyabangela ununtu ofuna ukuba kulunge wenze okulungileyo "kuba nje."