Iintlobo zogonyamelo
umzobo nangokwasengqondweni umfundi mihla - ngumfanekiso ocacileyo iintsilelo bakhe kwezentlalo. Kwaye enye yeengxaki ezibalulekileyo kwisithuba uqeqesho umntwana ithuba zobundlobongela esikolweni. Yintoni na, nokuba yintoni na unobangela ingcambu zibe emva koku? Makhe uzame ukuqonda. Ugonyamelo esikolweni kukho yeentlobo ezimbini - ngokweemvakalelo emzimbeni. Ngu kungaluxhatshazo ngokomphefumlo kwixhoba kukho ukungakhululeki, oko uthoba yena bakhe nokuzixabisa. Ngokuba lo hlobo lobundlobongela ekunokuthiwa intlekisa, ukugculelwa, ukuthotywa xa abanye abantwana, wabele amagama, amagama ekhubekisayo, amazwi bakrwada, ukusilela ukunxibelelana ixhoba (nomntwana ingadlali, musa ukuhlala kufutshane edesikeni). ubundlobongela Physical esikolweni - eli ubundlobongela ngamandla. Ngenxa yokuba ubundlobongela olunjalo umntwana kunokubangela ukwenzakala. Le ukukhala, cuffs, ekuthatheni iziphumo zobuqu kunye nomonakalo. "Esandleni esandleni" Ngokuqhelekileyo, zombini ezi ntlobo na.
Ngubani na lo lixhoba?
Ixhoba nesi simo kunokuba umntu. Kodwa ke amaxesha amaninzi ukuba abantwana abo eyahlukileyo kwabanye. Basenokuba abakhubazeke ngokomzimba; ukuziphatha ethile (avoidant, phlegm, okanye icala, impulsivity); imbonakalo engaqhelekanga (umz iinwele ezibomvu okanye umzimba umzimba); kuba kwezentlalo bengafanelekanga (akukho ukukhuselwa kubundlobongela ngenxa yokungabikho ngamava ukuzichaza kunye nonxibelelwano); lumo School (ngamanye amaxesha ngenxa yokoyika amabali ngokwaneleyo malunga ezimbi yaye ububi utitshala okanye amanqaku negative); yokungabi namava yokuba kwiqela (oko eziziimpawu khaya abantwana abangayanga enkulisa); izifo (abantwana abanale, enuresis kunye nezinye), ubukrelekrele eliphantsi trudnoobuchaemost (babenobuchule ephantsi kuchaphazela ukukwazi kwakhe ukufunda, nto ke leyo ebangele uba yokusebenza kakubi umntwana, yaye ngaloo ndlela bakha phantsi nokuzixabisa ).
Ngubani na lo wobubi?
izifundo ezininzi bengqondo ehlabathini lonke zibonisa ukuba abantwana abo wakhulela ukunqongophala ingqalelo, ongenandoda abazali abanabantwana "nedolyublennosti" mhlawumbi esuka ezintandane. Bona sasikhula, kusenokwenzeka ukuba kakubi kwe abantwana bakhulele kwiintsapho eqhelekileyo.
Baphi na abadlwenguli abantwana?
Ngaba izinto ezibalulekileyo kobudlelwane. Bona iziseko ukuyilwa notyekelo umntwana ubundlobongela. iintsapho ezinomzali omnye zidla omnye wemiba ezichaphazela umntwana. Amantombazana bakhuliswe ngabazali olunye, banotyekelo nobundlobongela kaninzi ngaphezu amakhwenkwe. Family nayo apho unina sengqondo esinjalo nezimbi lihlabathi, nokuba esikolweni esithile. Ugonyamelo umntwana akulahlwa, loo nto ithathwa eqhelekileyo xa ufunyansiwe ukuba uqhagamshelane ne "iintshaba". Ukongezelela, iintsapho apho abazali basoloko ingxabano nempixano phambi yomntwana. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, ipatheni komntwana yokuziphatha kubangelwa. Abantwana khumbula indlela abazali baphathane kunye nezivelayo ngayo kulwalamano peer. Ukongeza, abantwana yofuzo ukuba ndlongo, ubundlobongela isoloko isetyenziswa esikolweni. Ezi izizathu eziphambili. Kuyinto naye ixhomekeke eyadini inkampani embi. Ngoko ke, siye saxubusha oko ubundlobongela esikolweni. Ngubani na ke umphambanisi, yaye ngubani na ixhoba, yaye kutheni oko kwenzeka. Okwangoku, izinto ezintsha kwimfundo avumele abazali ukuba esweni ngenyameko ubomi bomntwana esikolweni. Kodwa musa ukulibala malunga izinto ezilula: ukubonisa uthando ngakumbi ingqalelo daze yakho. Imiba efana nobundlobongela esikolweni, kulula ukunqanda kunokuba ukulungisa.