Ndingayinikela umhlobo wam wokuzalwa?

Yintoni ongayinika umhlobo usuku lokuzalwa? Lo mbandela uqhubeka ngokubonakala entloko yam phezu kweminyaka. Kubonakala ngathi kwiminyaka yokuqala yobudlelwane ongazicinganga ngayo - uvele unike into oyibonile xa uthengisa kunye, okanye enye enye into enobungakanani boshishino lokuzilungisa. Ewe, awukwazi ukuba ungathini ukunika umfazi usuku lokuzalwa! Lo mbandela kulula ukuyicombulula kunokuba, yitsho, uthathe isigqibo malunga nombonisi kumfana oselula.

Kodwa kudlula iminyaka, ubuhlobo bakho bubekelwe iminyaka emininzi, kwaye lixesha elinokuthi umbuzo wento enikelwa ngayo intombi intombi yakhe yokuzalwa kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, imfashini iyatshintsha, kwaye kukho ulwandle lwezinto ezintsha zokuzicoca kunye neengqungquthela, kodwa "ukuya kwinqanaba lesibini" ngandlela-thile yinto engcolileyo ... kwaye iminyaka yobudala yimiba enempembelelo enkulu ekukhethweni. Musa ukuphelelwa yithemba, zama kunye kunye nokufumanisa into onokuyenza umhlobo wakhe wokuzalwa, ngoko ukuba uyithande ngempela isipho!

Iingcamango zengqungquthela engazange iphume kwimoya emininzi iminyaka, kodwa iyaqhubeka nokunika ingqalelo. Yintoni na? Ezi zizatifikethi ezahlukeneyo kwimisebenzi ethile, umzekelo, kwi-parachute. Ukuba umhlobo wakho othandekayo ukwesaba iindawo eziphakamileyo, ke uqaphele ezinye iingcebiso ezifanayo: uchungechunge lwe-massages kwi-spa, ithikithi yeseshoni yokudiba kunye nokuzonwabisa okunjalo okufanayo. Enyanisweni, ukhetho luxhomekeke kwizinto ezikhethiweyo ze ntombazana, nangona kungenakwenzeka ukuba nabani na abameleli bebhinqa baya kunqanda ingubo ye-chocolate, u-massage waseTshayina okanye ezinye iinkqubo kwi-salite elite.

Isipho esibi kakhulu intombazana ayikwazi ukunika umhlobo ngamnye, imeko efanayo yemali yonke eyahlukileyo. Nangona kunjalo, namhlanje kukho izipho ezininzi ezithengiweyo, kwaye zivela kummandla ohlukeneyo. Intombi yakho ithanda ukuchitha ixesha lakhe elikhululekile ekhitshini, lizama izinto ezikhoyo? Mnike into yeekhiqiza zamakhishi zanamhlanje : i- multivark, umenzi weerusi, izixhobo zokubhaka kunye nokunye okuninzi. Ngeli xesha, izinto ezintsha zivela ngokukhawuleza kangangokuthi akukho mvuzo okwaneleyo ukuqhubeka nenkqubela yezenzo zabo, ngoko isipho esinjalo siya kuba luncedo kakhulu.

Yintoni ongayinika umhlobo usuku lokuzalwa, ukuze isipho sasiyilungile kwaye sikhumbule? Fumana kwi-albhamu yakho yesithombe isithombe esithakazelisayo, apho kunokubakho inkampani yakho kunye nomntu oyedwa wokubhiyozela. Unokwenza umyalelo wokushicilela isithombe kwi-T-shirt, kwiilinen zokulala, umlotha, kumgudu okanye wenze iipuzzle. Isipho esinjalo ixesha elide liza kuhlala liphakathi kwenkcazo kwaye ngasinye siyakhumbuza ixesha lokuzonwabisa.

Kukho ukhetho lokunika ibhasikidi ezele iintlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo ezimnandi kunye neenkcazo ezincinci kubo ezifuzisela eli langoku. Umzekelo, iibhaluni - ubomi obulula, i-tshokoleta-into yokuba yonke into yayinokothokolethi, iivithamini - kwimpilo njalo njalo. Imizuzu emininzi emnandi kunye nemihlali iya kuzisa umntu wokuzalwa uhlalutyo lwalo bhasikidi. Endaweni yebhaksi, unokusebenzisa i-vase enkulu okanye esinye isitsha, esiza kuba luncedo kwikamva.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, isipho esifanelekileyo sisenziwa entliziyweni. Ungayithengi ngokukhawuleza, kungcono ukuchitha ixesha lokukhetha nokuthenga oko ucinga ukuba uya kukukholisa umhlobo wakho!