Ndingalufumana ukucheba ngexa lokukhulelwa? Qwalasela ukuba ingaba kolawulo nokuxubana yamandulo?

Kwaye uyazi yintoni, siza kuthetha nawe namhlanje? Ngomhla enye yamandulo edumileyo ukwamkela oko puzzles ukuba lo mbuzo: ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba bachebe iinwele kabani ngexa lokukhulelwa? Makhe ukuhlangabezana nale ngxaki.

Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo abantu kumazwe ahlukeneyo aye ekho yaye zisekhona ebomini bethu ezahlukeneyo iimpawu, izithethe, izithethe, iinkolelo, izithethe, ngexesha apho iinwele iyasetyenziswa. abantu baseMpumalanga ne ingqalelo ekhethekileyo sibaphathe ngayo. Kukholelwa ukuba iinwele zabantu - lingumlondolozi iinkcukacha ezibalulekileyo. Kungenxa yale kwiimeko ezithile yokuba balelwa banciphise. Umzekelo, umsebenzi osebenza ngokunxulumene abantwana abaselula: abakwazi kunqunyulwa, ukuze bazisunduze ingqondo kunye nezakhono abanazo. Eneneni olu luxanduva abafazi abadala liye nokukhula qhina elide, lowo osontiweyo ukuba ngandlel 'ngendlela ekhethekileyo, oko kwakuxhomekeke yobudala. Hlamba ze sifuba sawo savunyelwa kwi ezikhethiweyo ngokuthe ngqo loo mhla. Le nkqubo kuthathwa ukuba sibe olusenyongweni nothembekileyo nezalamane kuphela, abantu bomthonyama.

Ngokutsho Amakholwa Old, Isihlwitha (iinwele) yi-eriyali ulwalamano lwethu kunye nezinye ihlabathi. Obstriganie okanye care iinwele ezineziphene esengozini olwaphula le unxibelelwano endimangazayo efuziselwa yokugula kakhulu nokufa kamva.

Umdla kule mihla kukholelwa ukuba ngexesha umfazi nabantwana Akuvunyelwe ukuba bachebe iinwele zabo. Umntu ibambelela kwalomgaqo lwamandulo, yaye musa ingqalelo kuyimfuneko ukuba athobele nayo. Ngoko ke, masikhe ukufumanisa ukuba uyakwazi ukufumana ukucheba ngexesha lokukhulelwa.

Abaninzi oomama abanolwazi onenkathalo oomakhulu, owayeyintombi tsakela ukuba babelane ngolwazi lwabo olunzulu malunga yintoni eyabangela ukungaphumeleli ukuthobela Lo mqathango. Kukho iinketho ezininzi: ukuba umntwana wakho akayi donoshen, kwaye ayikwazi ukuba onelungelo lokugqiba ngesondo, kunye nento yokuba ngumkhaya kunye imfesane yosana iya kuba kunguhata, ngokungathi cut. Emva kokuva amabali amaninzi kangaka kukududuzela, uya uyazibuza ukuba ungafumana ukucheba ngexesha lokukhulelwa, okanye mhlawumbi kubhaliwe esalelweyo ngokungqongqo? Oku kuya kwenzeka nayiphi na imeko; ukuba nincamisile ukuhlonela kakhulu, kwaye naxa le ndiyigqala kuwe - ibinzana engenanto. Kodwa ukuba umntwana ityala okhethekileyo, ezele imfihlelo, mfihlelo. Okanye, unamathele yonke imithetho, ngoko nje xa kunokwenzeka, ukunqanda ingxaki?

Ukuze akukuqinisekisi, masithi ukuba zonke ezi amabali zamva nje ngokwenzululwazi ugwetyelwe. Konke oku ziinkolelo nje. It, wawancamisa ekuhleni izimvo inani elikhulu abatsha oomama, abonwabileyo, owathi ngenxa omnye, mhlawumbi ukukhulelwa eziliqela wazenza kakuhle, intle yaye ngaphandle kwengcinga kangakanani na wena a iinwele kunye iinwele ezahlukeneyo. Hair kweli likarhulumente njengesiqhelo, yaye ngaloo ndlela abantwana, abo ngoku ukukhuthaza abazali babo esikhenkcezayo ukuhleka, esempilweni yaye bonwabile. Siyabonga ngaloko nxi. Iingcali zempilo sinye.

Ukuba yonke ngequbuliso, umntu xa uqala ukuba ukholwe ukuba ukucheba ngexesha lokukhulelwa, Makube lee kum, kuyo nayiphi na imeko ayikwazi, unako ngokukhuselekileyo nithi ezi izinto musani ukukholwa kum, wena konke okusemandleni akho lwakukhula ehlabathini ngokuyimfuneko konke kuzolunga.

Ngokubanzi, ilungelo kunye impendulo isinga umbuzo wokuba ingaba kungenzeka ukufumana ukucheba ngexesha lokukhulelwa, impendulo ngu-ewe, unako. Kodwa ke ukuba asikwazi uqiniseke ukuba, ngenxa iinkolelo, kukho izizathu ezininzi kakhulu, omnye - uloyiko iziphumo ezingalunganga esakhulelwe. Ukuba uyakholelwa amashwa, kungcono ukuba ukulandela iimfuno zawo, kuba iingcinga basoloko aguqulelwe zifezeke.

uluvo lwabantu Modern isixelela ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo, njengaye nabani na, kufuneka onwabe, khangela mkhulu, ukuthatha unonophelo makeup, idayi iinwele zabo, wenze iindidi iinwele kunye iinwele, ukuba va Ma ezininzi ezintle ehlabathini. Ke abambalwa iingcebiso ze hayi ceba iingxaki ezingeyomfuneko engqondweni shiya ubuhle nkongomiso de ukuzalwa intanda yakho kakhulu eqolo ummangaliso ehlabathini - umntwana. Kwaye ke umbuzo, "ngaba unako ukufumana ukucheba ngexa lokukhulelwa," mncinanana kubo bonke ukhathazekile.