Lo mntwana uginye ithambo aba. Ukuba ndibe sikhathazeke?

Nokuba abazali bekhathalela kwaye olucingisiswe azisoloko ukuba umntwana wabo enkathazweni. Kwaye amaninzi kudala inkxalabo - izinto kid wabaginya ngabom okanye ngempazamo. Ngokukodwa, kunokuba thambo aba. Abantwana kufuneka banikwe kuphela Ipete iziqhamo. Kodwa ke kukho iimeko apho esi siganeko Lilishwa nangoku yenzekile. Ukuba umntwana uginye ilitye Plum ngento ekufanele abazali kwityala enjalo?

Into eyingozi ukuba umntwana uginye ithambo neplam?

Phakathi kwezinye iziqhamo Plum eyenza unalo ubukhulu inkulu. Iikona yayo elibukhali nga kunokwenzakalisa yangaphakathi noxhamla ubuncwane. Ngoko ke, ukuba, umzekelo, umntwana unyaka omnye ubudala kufincelwe ukusuka Plum ithambo, kufuneka uqaphele.

Le yesibini yingozi mzuzu - amygdalin equlethwe Plum ithambo. Emva kokungena nesisu esiqinileyo ithambisa iqokobhe ezingundoqo, into ityhefu ubola ngcembe, apho kukho ulwabiwo lwe hydrocyanic acid. It banokubenzakalisa umzimba lo mntwana, ingakumbi xa umntwana omncinane (2) waginya ilitye ukusuka Plum. Le ngozi uhlala bonke abantwana, ogama yobudala sele ayifikelelekanga iminyaka esixhenxe.

I yesithathu imeko engundoqo yingozi - oku apho undoqo esiqhameni yeyela kwingqula kunye noqhoqhoqho. Kwimeko enjalo mhlawumbi zinonxibelelwano olupheleleyo okanye olungaphelelanga yomoya. Umoya ekuhambeni kwimizuzu embalwa kukhokelela ekufeni.

Ngoko ke, xa kuvela imeko xa usana uginye into langaphandle, musa ukuba madolw 'anzima ukuya kufuna uncedo koogqirha. Amatyala apho ngoncedo eziyimfuneko likaxakeka ziza kuchazwa ngezantsi.

Gns ukuba usana uginye ilitye Plum

Ukuba umntwana wakho akazange ijikwa kwiminyaka emibini ubudala, yena usoloko endle uluvo lwabazali. Ngokuba abantwana abadala wakhangela emva ayikho ngqongqo kakhulu. Yiyo loo nto ngamanye amaxesha kuyenzeka ukuba abazali musa nokuba uqaphele umntwana wabo uginye ithambo aba. Ngamanye amaxesha, unyana okanye intombi nabo bayavuma kwakukho ukuba ibe loo nto. Kodwa ke uninzi abantwana mhlawumbi musa phawula ukuba uginye into langaphandle, okanye usoyika nje ukuba ayamnkele.

Isibakala sokuba nesiganeko esibi ezifana kwenzeka, ukuze abonise iimpawu zilandelayo. Ukuba into ezibanjiswe uqhoqhoqho, uvimba ngokuma, umntwana lowo uya kuba ekhohlela kakhulu, ukuphefumla ke yiyo, okanye itakane akayi kuba nako ukuze aphefumle.

Ukuba umntwana uginye ithambo evela nabantwana, waza wakhwela ukuya emathunjini, akukho mpawu kungenzeka. Kwimeko neembono ezikhoyo ukuba i kernel kwisiqhamo sele kudliwe, kufuneka uhlole esitulweni. Oku kufuneka kwenziwe ukuqinisekisa ukuba kukho into angaphandle ngasekhohlo.

Kwimeko apho ithambo exabileyo kuvuleke iminxunya, okanye umntwana lingenako ndiginye nokuba eli nyathelo liya kumnika ubuhlungu. Kid uya kuziva ixhala kunye neentlungu kwentamo kunye nesisu, ubuqhophololo. Ithe liya kuba khona egazi zapokshiesya.

Nosana uginye ilitye Plum - into omele uyenze?

Okokuqala, kufuneka abazali xa umntwana wabo uginye ithambo evela nabantwana, waza kwangoko wakhwela ukuya emathunjini, kukuba ungakhathazeki ukuba uphaphazele. Kufuneka kube lula ukuba ukuhlola endleni baby iintsuku eziliqela ukubona ukuba umzimba angaphandle baphuma ndizole.

Nangona kunjalo, kukho ezinye iimpawu ezibonisa ukuba umntwana ufuna ugqirha:

• ubuhlungu kunye nokwandisa ngokuhamba kwexesha, iintlungu esiswini;
• nezisu okanye ukugabha, phindwa amaxesha amaninzi;
• igazi kule esitulweni.

Yintoni ukuba ntoni kule meko?

Musa ukuzama artificially aqhubela umntwana ugabhe okanye laxatives ukusebenzisa amayeza akhe kernel isiqhamo ekhohlo ngokukhawuleza. Kwakhona, awufuni soma umntwana zakarmlivat isonka (abazali, ngokusekelwe iindlela i "uninakhulu kaThixo", ngokufuthi abasebenzisa le ndlela ukuzityhala ilitye). Xa umntwana akakho naziphi na iimpawu ezinikwe apha ngentla ungenelelo lonyango imfuneko, abadala kuphela ukuba ibe nomonde uze ulindele ukuba ithambo ukuba uphume kuso.

Ukuba iimpawu umntwana baye babonisa ukuba imfuneko ukubiza "yezigulane", abazali kufuneka ukuba azame ukuzama ukususa ithambo. Le ngozi manyundululu enokusetyenziswa. Akukho mfuneko ukondla ukunkcenkceshela usana phambi kokufika oogqirha.

Nosana belivile phezu neplam ithambo: ntoni ukwenza ntoni?

Ukuba unyana okanye intombi yakho baminxwe ithambo Plum, kodwa ukuphefumla, kufuneka wenze naluphi na uhanahaniso. Imizamo yokuziphakamisa nga kuphela sibe sibi. Kufuneka ubize "yezigulane" yaye ngokukhawuleza kumhlangula usana kwigumbi yonxunguphalo, apho ixhoba wafumana uncedo ingcali ziya kunikwa.

Kwimeko apho umntwana uxakwe kwi kernel leziqhamo nokuphefumla zawo kunzima, ozeka kade kwaye uthabathe salinda ubone sengqondo kuyathintelwa, ngokuba esibondeni umphefumlo wosana. Kufuneka ngoko nangoko ukubiza "yezigulane", uze uqhubeke uye uncedo lokuqala. Oku kufuneka kwenziwe xa umntwana ibamba izandla zakhe wamkrwitsha, waba ulusu blue, iibhulukhwe baby, aphuma emlonyeni amathe akhe okanye Nyanzela wawa andabikho zingqondweni. Nanga amanyathelo uncedo olungxamisekileyo.

Kid bone baminxwe: zoncedo olungxamisekileyo

Ukuba usana alikafiki konyaka omnye ubudala, lo abadala kufuneka kumbethelela zengalo wesandla mnye, ajike ubuso bakhe phantsi ebambe nasesilevini sakhe. Edge kwezinye isandla luzakufakwa izithonga ezininzi phakathi yabe zamagxa kid ecocekileyo.

Ukuba emva ithambo futhe akazange aphume, kuyimfuneko ukujika umntwana emqolo, ubeke phezu amadolo abadala ikhanda kwindawo ephantsi, uze wenze nezothuso ezimbalwa, esebenzisa uxinzelelo kwindawo kancinane ngezantsi kwingono.

Baby, eye ngaphezu konyaka omnye, lezoncedo wenziwa njalo. Kufuneka bemi ngasemva, yisongele izandla zakhe umzimba, uyibambe enqabeni kwindawo phakathi inkaba kunye ezimbanjeni. Emva kokuba kuyimfuneko ukwenza uphakamisa ezine okanye ezintlanu phezulu ngokungathi extrude ithambo oko kuba ngci.

isiphelo

Ukuba umntwana uginye ithambo nabantwana, kufuneka amisele kwimfuneko yokungenelela ngoncedo lonyango ngoko nangoko. Xa umntwana akuthethi namava ixhala kuhlolwe, abazali bacetyiswa kuphela esweni ngokusondeleyo, unyana okanye intombi ngendle ukuqinisekisa ukuba into angaphandle kukhululwa. Ukuba umntwana lifumana intlungu kunye nezinye iimpawu zinikwe kweli nqaku, okanye xa ithambo exabileyo emqaleni kwaye ayiniki usana ukuphefumla, kufuneka ngoko nangoko ukubiza i "fast" okanye ngokuzimela ukuhambisa umntwana kwigumbi zonxunguphalo ukuba ukunika uncedo lobungcali.