Kutheni baphupha Mama?

Amaphupha kamama ezinokuchazwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, ngokuxhomekeke ubudlelwane ekhoyo phakathi kwenu ubomi ngoku. Umama - inkazana elumkileyo ohlala ngaphakathi kuwe, nokuba wena uyindoda. Ixabiso uqhoboshela kule phawu, kukho umfanekiso ocacileyo kwakho "I". Ukucaciswa zokulala kakhulu ixhomekeke kubudlelwane bakho kunina, kodwa kunjalo, iphupha apho umama wakho kuwe, nto ibaluleke kakhulu ubomi ikamva lakho. Ukuba ubona kanyoko ephupheni, yaye ukunika iingcebiso, koko uzisebenzise ebomini bakho onokukunceda nemeko enzima.

Nasiphi iphupha apho uphupha umama isithembiso kuwe nenkqubela- elizayo nentsikelelo. Oku kuthetha ukuba luphawula ukuchaneka imicimbi yakho ukukhathalele. Ukuba umama oziphatha ngayo ebuthongweni bakho ziyagungqa ze yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ubomi bakhe, ngoko umele ulindele kwi kumanyundululu entsapho. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba amalungu entsapho uya ityala umama wakho ukuba le ntsapho yaqalisa ixesha zabangento. Iphupha ulumkisa ukuba uya kuba noxanduva yonke into eyenzeka ngokwenene. Ukuze uqonde ukuba yintoni amaphupha Mama, unako, ukuba ukhumbule into wayenjani, into abayenzayo, into uhlobo iimvakalelo yena kuni.

Ukuba umama wakho ngathi ephupheni uthanda nje inyaniso, oko kuthetha ukuba kulindeleke ukuba nani kweli thuba utshintsho ezinzulu, ubomi bakho buya kuqhubeka ngaphandle utshintsho olukhulu. Xa ubona umama ekhala, ingumqondiso embi enokuba presage enyundululu, iingxwabangxwaba ezinkulu okanye sokonakalisa yentsapho. Unikwe isilumkiso, yaye ngoku kuxhomekeke kuwe, ngawaphi amanyathelo aza uthatha bangathembeli wahlala entsatsheni.

Yenza inkathazo okanye exambulisana elele kunye nomama wakhe ithuba imeko ihlazo kwindawo yakho. Zavakala lullaby ephupheni kuthetha ukuba uchitha ixesha elininzi emsebenzini kwaye ukuthatha ixesha nosapho lwakhe. Umama wakho ephupheni libonisa ukuba ungakwazi ukugcina usapho lwakho ukuthembana kwaye ubudlelwane obuhle, awufuni dingi ukuphoswa ithuba lokugqibela.

Kutheni iphupha kamama wam, owayebonakele endlwini yakho? Eli phupha kuthetha ukuba yonke into akazange athathe apho kwixa elizayo, nonke nina ufumana, kwaye zonke izicwangciso svershatsya. Le ngxoxo nonina ephupheni isixelela ngeendaba kunokuba ezilungileyo. Ukuba nje ukuva ilizwi sikanina, okanye yena uthi kuwe, kufuneka ucinge ngayo ezi zibophelelo, kufuneka ukuba enze. Eli phupha usenokukuxelela ukuba uwedwa, yaye kufuneka banxibelelane ngakumbi nabantu ababathandayo. Kufuneka uqonde into iphupha umama kwaye zama ukulungisa iimpazamo kobudlelwane.

Woman iphupha apho unina ukho, uthembisa uxanduva bemnandi kobudlelwane kunye intsapho yonwabe kakuhle yayibafanele.

UMama ufuzisela ubulumko nemfesane. Ukuba umama, enempilo okuchwayitha, lo mfanekiso ukuthembisa ukhuselo noncedo. Ukuba umama wakho ephupheni kwimeko enzima, ngoko nibe nzima zangoku kwi qela, emsebenzini, okanye ukugula. Ukuba waba nephupha apho umama umfi baphuma endlwini, oko kubonisa ukuba liqaqambile, ubomi obude.

Yintoni enye ntoni iphupha? Amaninzi umama ephupheni ulumkisa abantu malunga ekuqaleni kwethuba uxanduva lobomi, nabafazi salatha yemfanelo yasekhaya. Kwakhona, lo mntu kufutshane yaye dear nga bangumzekelo ubufazi kunye nothando. Njengayo nayiphi iphupha, kubalulekile ukuba ukuhlalutya hayi umfanekiso ngokwawo, yaye ucinga ukuba abaseleyo emva yokuvusa. Kushushu ezikhanya imvakalelo, uvuyo noxolo, ixhala okanye imvakalelo embi - into abayicingayo yakho emva eli phupha? Mamela wena kunye namava akho aya kuba impendulo echanekileyo lo mbuzo, yintoni iphupha mama.