Indlela yokulungiselela uvumo

Igama "isakramente izono," utsho ukuba oku kwenziwa into olusondeleyo, into evula imizuzu imfihlo yobomi apho abantu bakhetha ukuba abuye. Ngenxa yokuba abaninzi bayoyika ukuya uvumo kwaye bazame ukuphepha kuyo. Kodwa abantu abaninzi, kungekudala kukho imfuneko yokulungisa isazela sam, uxolo kunye noThixo kunye nabanye. Kwaye ngoko ke nanku umbuzo: ukulungiselela njani uvumo ngokuchanekileyo. Izono ngaphezulu, apho umntu akafane bayaguquka ziyatyeba iba ludonga phakathi kwakhe kunye noMdali. ngcembe Deed siyitshabalalise umphefumlo. Umntu uyayeka ukuba umthande abantu, kukho uloyiko, ukuba nochuku, uvalo, umsindo, ingqumbo. Kukudakumba, usizi, umnqweno enze apho ukuzibulala, likhoboka embi. Ekugqibeleni, abagulayo kunye nomzimba. Le ndoda iza kuba tsakela ku ku pfuna umphefumlo wakhe, kodwa akazi njani?

Lungiselela uvumo ungaphinde ekhaya, eqaphela izono zabo, buhlungu intliziyo kubo. Kodwa ke oku akuthethi ukusebenzisa ukusulungekiswa. Ngokwenene kwenziwa kuphela ngenxa yolamlo wombingeleli.

Ngokuzimeleyo kuqinisekiswe yayo yokomoya lwangaphakathi ukubhaqa isono umntu ongenamava kunokuba nzima kakhulu. Njengoko umzekelo ukuba indlela ukuya ukulungiselela uvumo, uluhlu lwezono, ungasebenzisa umsebenzi of St. Ignatius Brianchaninov, isicelo ukuba iimeko zale mihla.

Asingabo bonke ababingeleli kubulisa kufundwa "intwana yephepha." Noko ke, oko kuyabuleleka, njengoko zilungiselwe uvumo Fikizolo ngenye akunakwenzeka. Liyinyaniso elokuba, kuya kubakho imeko mnye: i izono lisisiqalo ngokupheleleyo nangokugqibeleleyo, ngokusesikweni, okanye nje senqaku wathumela kumbingeleli cwaka. Oku ayamkelekanga. Ukuba ngowokuqala ibona oko kuyimfuneko, aze kusekho into ukubuza. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu ingakumbi umntu oweza okokuqala kwaye abafumana ubunzima obuthile. Emva uvumo phetshana izono ezibhaliweyo ngaphandle ngokuyimfuneko kufuneka ukutshabalalisa.

Abanamava, umbingeleli imboni, soloko ingqalelo into ibithambile kufuna ulwazi olunzulu umthombo izono zabo kwaye baguquke. Ke uyibeka ukuze ukuhlakulela yokuvuma - isohlwayo yabefundisi izaphetha ezenzweni, imithandazo ukufunda, kugcinwe ngokuzila engqongqo. Kulo mzekelo, izono zikhutshwa kuphela emva kokuba ikholwa enze izono. Ukukhululwa kungaba kuphela nguyise zokomoya wayifaka.

Indlela yokulungiselela uvumo eqhelekileyo ebandleni, xa umbingeleli ke izono bonke abaguqukayo, ongaliphulaphuliyo kwangaxeshanye yodwa nganye? Kubonakala ngathi unako ingakumbi ungakhathazeki kwaye musa ukoyika. Ngoko kubonakala kulinga kubantu abathe akazange abhenele uvumo ngamnye kwaye ufumane eqhelekileyo ngokwaneleyo. Kodwa, nje ngokuba ngabo inguquko ayikwazi kuthathwa njengezisemthethweni. Ukuze ukwazi ukuqala kuphela abo athembekileyo bawufumane rhoqo yaye akukho izono ofayo.

Ukuvuma mayikhokele yobudlelane, ngoko ke kunye nokuzila ukudla, ixesha nobukhali obugqitywa umxholo izono kunye ikhalenda ibandla.

Lingakanani kufuneka ukuvuma wamkele uMthendeleko? Engumshumayeli kakhulu kane ngonyaka - ngexesha yesithuba ngasinye. Ezi zikhundla koSuku lweKresmesi Ista, kwaye liphindwe. Kodwa oku ngentla apha akumkhululi loo ikholwa ukusuka eququzelelayo rhoqo lwangaphakathi wayezizuzisa ekupheleleni umphefumlo wakho kunye nomoya.

ukulungiselela kusengaphambili ukuba isivumo kunye uMthendeleko abantwana kufuneka uqale kweminyaka esixhenxe. Ngokwesiko le iintsana Church emva kokuba ebhaptiziwe yabo iminyaka ukuya esixhenxe ubudala zithathwa ndimsulwa. Ngeli xesha, banakho ukufumana umthendeleko ngokufuthi, ngokoqobo yonke imihla. Kodwa sele ukusuka kwiminyaka esixhenxe, abantwana bafanele balungiselele ngenxa uvumo kwaye yobudlelane nangokuzila lula.