Indlela ukufumanisa inani labantwana isandla mfazi aze umntu?

Siphila kwihlabathi apho uphuhliso amayeza kunye nobugcisa. Noko ke, abaninzi isahleli benyanisekile izithethe zamandulo, landela imiqondiso kunye neenkolelo, kwakunye nokusetyenziswa ukubhula ukuze ukuqikelela nakwizibetho zabo. Ukuba ukholwa ukubhula kunye nomdla iziphumo zokuvumisa ngesandla, mhlawumbi ufuna ukwazi oko uya kuthi ngayo abantwana. Ingakumbi le ndlela unomdla zintokazi besebancinane uqala ukubona i ithuku koomama kwaye ubuze imibuzo enjalo. Ingaba ufuna ukufunda ukujonga indlela inani labantwana kwi ingalo? Funda inqaku uze ukhangele indlela ngasentla kumava abo.

Gca uyazi iimpendulo kwimibuzo zobomi

Xa gca, umgca ngamnye okanye esigingqini zinentsingiselo kwaye banoxanduva kwiinkalo ezahlukileyo zobomi bethu. Kunokuba ibe impilo kunye nomtshato, ulonwabo kunye ixesha elide, indalo kunye nabantwana. Kwi yokugqibela, yaye sifuna ukufumana phandle. Ngaba kuyinyaniso ukuba ukusebenzisa imigaqo kwale nzululwazi, kunokwenzeka ukuba bafunde ukujonga indlela inani labantwana kwi ingalo? Oku kuyinyaniso, kodwa inkqubo kufuna ephulaphule kunye nengqwalaselo, ngokunjalo umnqweno wokwenene kunye nokholo. Kufuneka kwakhona wathi iziphumo ziya kuba ngokuthe ngqo. Kuthetha ukuthini? Inyaniso kukuba ngalo mzuzu kukho zininzi iindlela ukutshintsha ngokwemvelo lobomi, kuquka nabantwana. Isandla ufunde kuphela oko ababemelwe yi isiphelo, kodwa enyanisweni wena kuphela enokuba nempembelelo ubunyani (sithetha nzala, isisu, ekube ngokupheleleyo izinto ezintle, kodwa kufuneka indawo ehlabathini namhlanje).

Siza kufunda abantwana esandleni sabo

Ukuba ngaba ukulungele ukufumana ukuba yintoni isiphelo sele zilungiselelwe nina, unako uqale ukuvumisa. Okokuqala kufuneka uqonde apho umgca labantwana ngesandla. Le ndawo ibekwe phantsi esisekweni Ucikicane endulini phephandaba. Imigca ukuze ezininzi: linani kwaye ibonisa ukuba inani labantwana. Ba nkqo kwaye shiyana sandla: abathile ababuthathaka olomileyo, kunye nezinye ecacileyo kunye enzonzobila. I ecace ngokungaphaya kunye enzulu umgca, usana enempilo kunye nempumelelo. Kodwa imigca ngakanye kwaye ebuthathaka - hayi uphawu elungileyo kakhulu, isifo presaging kunye nezinye ingxaki enokwenzeka kunye nosana elizayo. Hi ndlela leyi, kwelinye icala, unako ukufunda kunye nesini womntwana okanye abantwana. line mfutshane - amantombazana, nokuzeka - amakhwenkwe. Kwaye musa ukulibala ukuba kufuneka ujonge esandleni ngasekhohlo.

Child esandleni somntu

Ndawonye nabafazi yonke into icacile, yaye ukuba umntu angasifumani yena bangaphi abantwana babe? Eneneni, abanye babo nomdla kulo mbuzo. Kukho umahluko eliqela ebalulekileyo ekufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo. Ngoko ke, ukuba bahlole inani labantwana ummeli ngesandla wesini oyindoda? Bona kwakhona kufuneka, kodwa baxabane eyahlukileyo. Inyaniso yokuba, isesandleni somntu lowo ubonisa abantwana nabo na n'wina. Umzekelo, bahlala endlwini enye, akholisa ukuchitha ixesha kunye, ukuba yimvakalelo efudumeleyo, nikunyamekele ukukhusela. Ukuba umntwana uhlala ngaphandle (ezifana ekuqhawulweni komtshato mina, umama wayo), kunqabile enxibelelana noyise, kwaye phakathi kwabo akukho uxhulumaniso ngokomoya, ngoko ukuba umntwana uza kubona umntu, emangalisiwe ngesandla. Kodwa uyakwazi ukubona umntu omthandayo, kodwa hayi lomthonyama (receiver). Ngoko ke musa ukumangaliswa xa nawe unayo umyeni, ukufumana iziphumo ezahlukeneyo inani labantwana.

Believe, kodwa musa ukuthembela ungaveli

Ulwazi malunga ukujonga indlela inani labantwana kwi ingalo, akwanelanga ukuba ufumane impendulo echanekileyo. Oku kungenxa yezizathu ezininzi, bokuqonda kunye neemeko, ingakumbi kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje. Ngoko nje sikhokelwe intuition yakho, umnqweno amathuba kunye nobomi ngokuyimfuneko akunike abantwana abaninzi kangangoko ufuna.