Indlela efana yintombazana kwimizuzu yokuqala encokweni

Mhlawumbi, wonke umntu oselula uthi: "Ngaba ungathanda njani namantombazana?". Kwaye impendulo okumangalisayo ilula: nawuphi umfana na ukumkholisa nayiphi na intombi nomdla kuye. Umntu eyenza kube lula, umntu uyaphumelela nzima ngakumbi, kodwa kuyinyaniso. Nabani na ukuphumelela, kufuneka nje ukwazi ukuba baziphathe njani.

Wena ntombazana, kwaye andazi ukuba mandenze ntoni? Musa ukuphaphazela okanye ithemba! Sizimisele ukuba ndithi kuni ngendlela yokukholisa amantombazana.

Ngelishwa, asiyiyo yonke indalo Usiphe imbonakalo ebukekayo. Kodwa akukho kukhula phezulu okanye ezantsi, okanye "ibhiya" isisu nokuba kusempandleni okanye intloko obukhulu kakhulu uboya akanayo into enkulu ngokwenene ezinjalo. Ngapha koko, kukho nenye into oqinisekisa impumelelo. Ngayo kunye nentetho.

Ngoko ke, indlela yokuziphatha, yaye oko kuyimfuneko ukuze siqonde njani kwaye yintoni namantombazana ezifana?

Kakade ke, intombazana entle ukuba baxoxe nomfana lowo nomdla kwihlabathi yakhe ngaphakathi, hayi nje iingcombolo zangaphandle. Kufuneka ube nomdla kuzo umphefumlo intombazana ukuba iingcinga zakhe kunye namaphupha, kungekhona ekukruqulayo iqabane lakhe kunye nohlobo olufanayo lwemibuzo banal. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ubukrwada, amathuba nzima. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ukunxibelelana ngokunyanisekileyo yaye unobtrusively, amaxesha ngamaxesha ukuba uncome, hayi kuphela iingcombolo zangaphandle amantombazana.

Indlela efana yintombazana ngomzuzu yokuqala xa unxibelelana naye?

Masiqonde ukususela ekuqaleni. Kufuneka kuqala ukuhlangana intombazana ukuze ndiqalise incoko. Kodwa kuthekani isibheno xa sidibana? Yiloo nto kanye enye amanqaku abalulekileyo, kuba ndazana iqalile okubi ukuthintela nangoko ithuba unxibelelwano. Ukuba a guy izakuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo, impahla eyinzwana kunye nendlela akuyi kumsindisa.

Simele siziphathe ukuba uthanda nangoku? Kufuneka ube Ngokungathandabuzekiyo impumelelo yakho. Uluvo kufuneka bazithembe yaye sizimisele, thina - ukuphumla ngaphandle nemincili tsakisi. Ngelo xesha, kuya kuba nje indawo uncoma ubuhle intombazana. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba amantombazana musa tai nje, guys izenzo ukucinga esingangqinelaniyo kakhulu kwaye andifuni ukunxibelelana nabo. Ngoku, sele uyazi into ngendlela yokukholisa amantombazana.

Ngoko nangoko emva kokuba intlanganiso kufuneka ukuba babonise umdla yayo wokwenene kwaye womelele. Kufuneka sibe qotho ngokwenene. Musa ingqalelo abahlobo wentombazana, ukuba zikhona. Kubalulekile ukuba iqabane wavakalelwa wazibekela embindini ingqalelo, kwaye uya kongeza ithuba lokuba aqhubeke nabazana.

Ukuba sele usaziwa noko intombazana kwaye ufuna ukukholisa yakhe

Yintoni ukwenza ntoni? Indlela ku tsakisa intombazana? Thumela kuye umyalezo wombhalo emva bembona. Kodwa yintoni ukubhala? Bhala ukuba Bavuya kunene ukuba, ukongeza amagama ambalwa malunga ubuhle bakhe kunye neempawu zokomoya. Phulaphula kuwe, uze umxelele yonke intliziyo yakho.

Ukuze ukuba ukuphazamisa nesimilo esihle uthando, kuyimfuneko ukurhoxisa ngexesha. Ukuba ngesiquphe kuyenzeka ukuba wenze isigqibo ukulandela ikhaya lakhe, musa ukubuza ukuba tyelelo. Ngelinye akumeme, mhlawumbi kanye, kodwa ungakhathazeki ukuba akwenzeki. Musa ukufuna njalo ekhawulezileyo, okanye ukusunduza ntombazana.

Ukuba umema kuye, khangela indlu. Kufuneka ube ubuncinane kucocekile. Akunakwenzeka ukumkholisa kakuhle intombazana, ukuba indlu bedlam. Solungiselela umnikelo ngenxa yayo. Onke amantombazana abathanda ukuhamba, musa ukulibala ngayo. Apha, ngokubanzi, yaye zonke iimpendulo kumbuzo of yokukholisa amantombazana.