Iminyaka eli-16, lomtshato, isikhumbuzo

kweminyaka eli-16 - netopazi yomtshato. Le mfuneko ukwazi yonke into. Wedding - itheko emangalisayo kunye umdla, ngokucinga ukuba umbhiyozo enjalo uphila konwaba iqabane kanye kuphela, kwaye ke ngoko kufuneka kwenzekile ukuze ukukhunjulwa kwayo wahlala iminyaka emininzi. Naye zonke izizwe ibisoloko ezinxulumene iinkolelo ezininzi nezithethe. Thina makholwa wedding lukhatshwa imisitho yonqulo emangalisayo: kumtshato ubuKristu, e-Islam Nikah, njl

Ngasinye isibini na iholide yayo, yaye oku - namhla lomtshato, umhla wokuzalwa lentsapho entsha. Le holide, iintsapho ezininzi ukunika intsingiselo ekhethekileyo njengabo ukuba kubonisa uzinzo manyano odibeneyo ukhetho othembekileyo efanayo, nangona zonke izenzakalo yobomi. engama ngalinye lomtshato ukubaluleka eyahlukileyo lokomfuziselo kule nombolo fanele Lusuku lomtshato iminyaka eli-16, yaye ngamnye kubo lubhiyozelwa ngendlela ekhethekileyo.

kwiminyaka edlulileyo emtshatweni inokuba ezahlukeneyo, kodwa ulonwabo yomtshato ubunjwe kweWCED ezidibeneyo. Kwaye ke inyathelo elilandelayo ebudeni beminyaka bonwabile ukuba babehlala kunye, uneminyaka eli-16 sitshatile. Esi sisiganeko, nangona umhla, njengoko besithi, "ngeenxa", ngokhethekileyo. Yabelana kunye nosapho lwakho, izalamane kunye nabahlobo zovuyo zobuqu ezifana Lusuku lomtshato iminyaka eli-16, kuya kuba yinto entle kakhulu, kwaye oku kungenza ukuba abaseleyo elizayo, "imigubho" kunye nokucwangciswa mbhiyozo. Kuba ndithi huntshu kuya kufaneleka ukuba niyinikele izipho ezenziwe ngezandla zabo - njengomfuziselo yokuba ulonwabo lwabo luqine thina. Nika isibini esitshatileyo, lo mbhiyozo ngumtyholwa, ipasipoti okanye isatifikethi, leyo ephawulwe iminyaka eli-16 sitshatile, zathi tshe ukugqitha. Bamangaliswa eyodwa iza kuba isipho, evela ezandleni zabantwana.

Zimbalwa zibini uyazi yintoni umtshato iminyaka eli-16, yintoni igama kukuba, kakhulu, isigqibo sokubhiyozela, kuba kangangethuba ixesha elininzi ubomi emtshatweni ngasemva waza waphila kunye elide ngokwaneleyo, esi sibini ndikuqhelile omnye komnye, nezona nkcukacha zincinane wayefunda imikhwa, elungileyo embi. Kwakhona bafunda sinokunikezela kuvela imbambano kunye neemeko ezinzima ngenxa nokuqondana, inkxaso efanayo entsatsheni. Ngoko ke, 16 iminyaka, imitshato , kakhulu, isikhumbuzo kwaye isithethe yayo kunye negama: le womtshato - nesafire okanye ngenye netopazi. Itopazi kuphiliswa khubalo ekhusela intsapho libonakala ububi iintlobo zezifo. Kwakhona ayekholelwa ukuba eli litye ine impahla yokukhanyisa ngaphakathi kuba phawu wayo - an umdlalo emangalisayo yokukhanya kunye elubala, oko owuthanda abantu. A isipho gqitha sibini iya kuba izacholo kunye nezincedisi stylish.

Izibini kufike abantu abahlala bonwabile ngokuvumelanayo, ungathanda ukuba amalungiselelo imibhiyozo emikhulu elinentabalala ngabamenyiweyo. Xa ucelwa ngabahlobo bakho ukuba kubalo efanayo engama-16 sitshatile, Kakade ke, kufuneka ube isipho yokuqala. Wavula ayise sibini luncedo amanqaku kuqoqosho. izipho yesintu iti, ikofu kunye iiseti lokutyela, iitafile TV, iingubo esofeni, abenzi ikofu, nangongxawu, ngabenzi, uluhlu kunokuba elide, konke oko kuxhomekeke kwingcinga yakho. Kuyimfuneko ukuba luthathele ingqalelo ukuba ixabiso isipho kufuneka ibe phakathi kwaleyo ufanele. izinto zexabiso kunye zexabiso zidla thaca kunye nezizalwane.

Ukuba sibhiyozela isikhumbuzo sabo 16 sitshatile, ngendlela enye okanye omnye, kufuneka wenze isipho nekulula neqabane intanda yakhe. Lo mhla awulunganga setyhula, yaye bawulandele ngqo kukho izithethe ezithile akukho mfuneko kwi umnikelo. Kuye ithuba elikhethekileyo niyinikele isithandwa sakho nto okanye into, kudala ndiphupha ngayo.

Phawula kwalo mhla azinako ukuba kunye chu ngokusebenzisa indawo wabo abawuthandayo, siwazise, kunye isidlo emangalisayo kwindawo yokutyela ezimnandi, kunye uhambo ababunjwe ngayo, kunye nokuhamba. Unako ukuqesha indlu kwiziko lokuzonwabisa, apho kuba kwiindawo ngokuhlwa ukhululekile kakhulu ukuchitha ixesha nabahlobo, lo clink ngezibuko uya kunkqangaza 'uKiss! "

Nayiphi ekubhiyozeleni ukhetho ukukhetha kuwe, kwakhona ukomeleza uthando lwakho, isisa nothando omnye komnye.