Imigaqo isakramente ubhaptizo: indlela zizihlandlo ezingaphi na ukuba Ummeli okanye owayemele umntwana?

"Lingakanani ixesha kunokuba Ummeli?" - ndisoloko ukuva lo mbuzo abanye abahlobo, xa kuziwa kumba christening umntwana omnye umntu. Ndiyamangaliswa yokuswela kwabo olupheleleyo ulwazi ngalo mba! Bathi emva kokubhaptizwa yi ngumntu omnye umntwana wesibini ayisekho owokuqala godson yakhe. Umbuzo wam: "Kutheni ucinga njalo nje?" - ukuphendula: "Andazi, ndicinga njalo." Kaloku, abemi, ukuba yeso sizathu, ukuba afele isono - waza ngesiquphe akulunganga ... Kulungile, lixesha lokuba yokususa zonke namarhe namathandabuzo ngawe zingaphi izihlandlo kunokuba Ummeli! Eli nqaku ke ndiyazingcwalisa kuqala bonke abahlobo bakhe, yaye, ke, ukuba nina, abafundi bam abathandekayo! Makhe ukuqala bemgama, nokwazisa ukuba ezinye iziseko abakhetha lezikhokelo zokomoya umntwana wabo. Kubalulekile ukuba wenze iimpazamo! Khumbula, le owayemele (okanye unina) - a isikhokelo yokomoya umntwana wakho. Opt kuphela kwabo abaviwa Ucinga ukuba uya kuba nako ukunika umntwana amaxabiso yokomoya ... Ukongeza, ulawulo engundoqo yaye nangoku oku kulandelayo: Le mentor yokomoya umntwana wakho kufuneka ube zofuzo ezifanayo ngesondo umntwana ngokwakhe. Ngoku, ke, le mfuneko kancinane lula, yaye olo kukhethwa kwendoda nomfazi. Eyona nto iphambili ukuba ke indoda nomfazi, zange bahambisane enye kwenye kwi- uxhulumaniso olusondeleyo, bobabini amakholwa Orthodox.

On the Cross inoxanduva phambi koThixo ngenxa ezihlangwini zabo. Ngoko ke, ndikucebisa ukuba siqwalasele amalungu osapho okanye abahlobo abasenyongweni, izihlobo kunye nabhinqileyo. Nangona ngamanye amaxesha kuyenzeka ukuba abahlobo ngabahlobo abakhulu ngaphezu izalamane zabo. Kulungile, sifika into eziphambili - indlela zizihlandlo ezingaphi na ukuba owayemele okanye unina? Ukuba ndiza kubatshabalalisa isahluko eyahlukileyo isihloko sakhe. Ngoko ke, hamba phambili! njani zizihlandlo ezingaphi na Ummeli okanye owayemele umntwana?

Wam endimthandayo abahlobo abafuna ukuba abazali zokomoya! Unako abe mnye nabo naliphi na inani amaxesha! Ewe, kanye! Apha, akukho sizathu sokuthelekisa, "imida"! Eyona nto ibalulekileyo - ukuba ukukhumbula iimbopheleleko zabo ngqo godson yakhe. Yazi into onayo phambi koYehova yomthendeleko yokuthatha uxanduva ngakumbi godson yakhe. Ngoko ke khumbula, ukuba uba abazali zokomoya abantwana eziliqela, nceda, musa ukulibala ukuba bathathe inxaxheba kubomi ngamnye kubo ukuba bathandaze ngenxa yabo, yaye nayiphi na imeko awanqandi ukuncokola nabo!

Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, kwiCawa Orthodox kunye nabefundisi ngakumbi, hayi ukuphikisa ezahlukeneyo "olunyulu" intelekelelo ngawe zingaphi izihlandlo kunokuba Ummeli umntwana. Ubanga ukuba godson lokuqala umntu oye ube ngumzali yokomoya okwesihlandlo sesibini, ayisa ingqalelo ngolo hlobo - ke ecotha kakhulu.

1. Okokuqala, yonke ubhaptizo, benziwa yonke imithetho namasiko, isemthethweni kwaye awunakungenziwa. Baby Musa ukuwela!
2. Okwesibini, xa kuthelekiswa kunye nabazali behlabathi, icace phandle ngexesha kokuzalwa kosana lwakhe lwesibini kufuneka ukuzincama kuqala! Kodwa ayikho ngqiqweni!

Ngoko ke, kuhle yam! Zingaphi amaxesha kuba Ummeli (okanye utata)? Injalo loo nto - inani ongapheliyo! Ndiyathemba olu lwazi luluncedo kuwe, wena, yena, ndithembise kuphinda zivuthelana iingxabano ezifihla amadabi ngeenxa kakhulu mhaka ezicacileyo. UThixo akusikelele!