Eya phambili kumtshato

Phambili

Ngaba unokungabaza ukuba ufuna izikhokelo zomtshato? Emva koko le nqaku inokukunceda wenze isigqibo esifanelekileyo kwimiba ebalulekileyo njengoko ulungiselela umtshato.

Izibini ezininzi zithandabuza ngokungathandabuzekiyo kwaye zicinga ukuba zanele ukulungiselela ibhaltshi yokubonisa, isilwanyana esentlabathi, umlingo okanye nayiphina inkqubo yokubonisa, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha zonke izihlobo zakho kunye nezihlobo zakho ziya kufumana ishishini lakho, kwaye ngelo xesha uzonandipha. Apha ufanele uqikelele ngokungacingi malunga nokungabhubhisi iholide yakho.

Okokuqala: abaninzi abahlobo bakho abanakuzazi okanye bazana. Ngubani oya kunceda wonk Impendulo echanekileyo ibangela umtshato, ngenxa yokuba Abantu abasandul 'ukutshata abanakho ixesha elaneleyo loku.

Okwesibini: ukuzonwabisa onokuyidinga inkqubo ethile yokuzonwabisa ngendlela yokuguga, ukhuphiswano, njl njl. Kwaye okunjalo. Ngubani na onako ukwenza konke oku? Ngokuchanekileyo, ekhokelela kumtshato! Kutheni! Ewe, kuba akunakwenzeka ukuba iindwendwe, ukuya kwiholide, ziya kuphuhlisa inkqubo yeziganeko zokuhlwa.

Kwinqanaba lesithathu "kwiprogram" yam enkundleni yokuziphatha kweeholide, nokuba ingaba umphathi we-toastmaster okanye umbonisi, ndingabandakanya zonke izinto ezibalulekileyo ezingabonakaliyo kwiindwendwe, kodwa ziyimfuneko kakhulu kumtshato odibeneyo, ohambelanayo kwaye ongenakulibaleka.

Ungabonakalisa nesihloko esithandekayo kakhulu: "Yintoni enokuyenza ngayo umphathi wesonto, ndingathini na?" Uze ucinge! Ngokuqinisekileyo uye waya kwiimeko ezithile, kungekhona imitshato, eyayikhokelela ekukholeni kwaye iyakwazi ukuvavanya iimeko zabo kwimeko efanayo. Sonke sinobudlelwane, sinovuyo, sisilumko, si-erudite, abantu abanomdla kunye nomphefumlo wenkampani. Kodwa yiphi inkampani? Abahlobo bethu abasondeleyo, abaqondiselana nabo ngokubambisana kunye okanye, ubuncinci, abaqhelana nabo, abasifunde kakuhle kwaye bazi ukuba ngubani na ongasabela njani kule nto okanye ukuba uhlekisayo okanye isitatimende sakho. Kuthiwani ngeqela elikhulu labantu abangaqhelekanga ngokupheleleyo? Ungayifumana njani ulwimi oluqhelekileyo ngokukhawuleza kunye nabo bonke abantu? Indlela yokuseka uqhagamshelwano kunye nokunxibelelana kweendwendwe kunye? Indlela yokuphendula kwi-nonstandard, imeko ephazamiseka ngokukhawuleza? Indlela yokuvuyisa wonke umntu kwaye ingabonakali kakhulu? Indlela yokulandela iskripthi uze ungalibali into ebhaliweyo oyifunayo kwangoku? Indlela yokwenza imeko efanelwe wonke umntu? Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, njani ukwenza ieholide ibe yimpumelelo kwaye wonk 'ubani wayenwabile? Ngaba uyazi iimpendulo kuyo yonke le mibuzo? Ukuba kunjalo, nokuba ungumphathi wesigqeba okanye ukhethe lo msebenzi ngokungalungile.

Enye into ebalulekileyo ukuba umbonisi unamava. Amava ekwenzeni imisebenzi yamanqanaba neentlobo ezahlukeneyo. Vumelana ukuba amava nakweyiphi na ishishini ayinakuxhomekeka, ngokubhekiselele kwieholide. Emva kweziganeko ezininzi, umququzeleli uqala ukuqonda ezinye zeengxaki zokunxibelelana kunye noqhagamshelwano. Emva kokubamba iintlobo ezininzi zeemeko, ababukeli baba iingcali ezilungileyo kwaye baya kwenza iholide yakho ibe yimpumelelo. Ngomnye umbuzo umbuzo othi: "Kwenzeka ntoni emva kweemeko ezilikhulu?". Kwaye emva kwekhulu ehamba phambili iba ngumqeqeshi kwaye uyayazi indlela yokwenza iholide ayilona ihle kakhulu, kodwa ayilibaleki.

Masibhale: ukuba wena okanye umhlobo wakho unamava okubamba ubuncinane iimbambano ezili-12, unesibalo sakhe seentlobo ezahlukeneyo, iimincintiswano kunye nezinye izinto zokuzonwabisa, ukuseka lula ukunxibelelana phakathi kwabantu abangaziwa, uyazi indlela yokwenza iincwadi zeempendulo kunye nomntu obalaseleyo, ngoko unokukhusela Mthembele kwaye unike iholide yakho ngokupheleleyo ezandleni zakhe. Kodwa, ukuba uphendule ubuncinane ingongoma enye, ngoko mna ndiza kukucebisa ukuba ukhethe ukungena kwindawo yomcimbi, kunye nempendulo yombuzo othi "Ngaba umema umququzeleli?" Kubonakala kubonakala kum. Nawe!