Crisis ngonyaka 1: ngehambo eyiyo lwabazali

Ukukhathala, kumda kwi impambano - ngoko esizibonakalisa eli thuba ngengqondo Eda Le Shan. Enyanisweni, onke ngakumbi engalunganga. Ukumelana kunyaka wokuqala wobomi, ingxaki enokwenzeka xa pre-ukusebenza ngaphandle icebo lasekunene yokuziphatha.

Izinto ezibangela le ntlekele

Ngakumbi ngosuku lokuqala lokuzalwa komntwana nabazali kuqala isaziso akumangalisi ukuba baqonde ukuba nje akunakwenzeka umntwana kukho amathuba abathobelayo kwaye emnandi isidalwa okungalawulekilyo ngokupheleleyo,. Umntwana usoloko ithi "hayi", saliwe ixesha elide ukuba silale, olitshijolo, musa ungazidubi njengenyathelo enye, "vrednichaet" ngexesha nokutya, yokulwa kwakhe, ibala lokudlala. Kwenzeka ntoni kuye? Impendulo ilula: intlekele ekuyo i-kunyaka wabo wokuqala bezelwe.

Esona sizathu siphambili sokuba ukuziphatha esothusayo usana ulwazi lwakhe yena umntu ozimeleyo. Ezo ukuzimela esibonakaliswa ubuchule yomntwana ukuba ngokuzimeleyo evela kubazali babo, iqala ukuyilwa intetho ecacileyo, ukukopa zokuziphatha oomama nootata okanye abazalwana noodade. Zonke ezi zigaba ekukhuleni kosana kwaye kungakhokelela akwamkelekanga, ngokwembono abadala yokuziphatha.

Ixesha elibekiweyo le isigaba sobomi bulukwe kakhulu kwaye kuthatha ixesha ubudala ukusuka kwiinyanga ezili-10 ukuya kwiminyaka emi-2. Lo mzuzu kubomi bomntwana Kubalulekile ukuqaphela, ngokuba Unyaka 1 crisis is a uhlobo yokuqeqesha wosana endleleni kwintlekele seminyaka emithathu. Kwaye ziziphathe njani abazali ixhomekeke kwindlela kakuhle baya kuba isigaba esilandelayo uphuhliso wosana.

zesicwangciso sokuziphatha abadala

Ukuba abazali uphawula ukuba iingxaki kunyaka wabo wokuqala bezelwe kuza, beze ndawonye baxoxe ukuze lwabelane ngezithethe kwaye uphendule le okanye elo nyathelo baby ngayo.

Ingxaki: I sivumelane kunye ungovernability. Isisombululo: uhlale uzolile kwaye baziqonde ngokucacileyo umahluko phakathi fane kunye nemeko embi yempilo umntwana. Kule minyaka, nangona ezinye impumelelo intetho, umntwana ayide Sasiqinisekile uyakwazi ukuchaza iimvakalelo zabo. Ngoko ke, le ndlela ilula yokwenza kufanelekile kuye kunokuba achaze oko kusenjalo kuyimfuneko. Kulo mzekelo, kufuneka kunkqangaza okanye ukuvakalisa ingqumbo yakho nangayiphi na indlela. Itakane wayesaba. Endaweni yoko, nilishiye libe imizuzu embalwa. Ukuba oku akuloncedo, kufuneka tshintshela ingqalelo yakhe kwenye into, ezifana yokudlala ayithandayo okanye intaka ngaphandle window. Crisis ngonyaka 1 wobomi idla kakhulu kunye nje wayevele nangenxa kuyo nayiphi na imeko alinako ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba kufikelelwe ezinqwenelekayo ngokusebenzisa nomsindo.

Ingxaki: i rhoqo "hayi". Isisombululo: Phepha amathuba ezingentle kwintetho yakhe.   Crisis ngonyaka 1 kudla kakhulu kunye izithintelo ezininzi, nangenxa "hayi" ilizwi rhoqo kwaye ngokukhawuleza ungena isigama lo mntwana, abe ekuthanda. Umntwana ngokwenene imfunxa, kunye nokuziphatha yakhe ngelo ubudala kwindawo yokuqala, kubonisa indlela yokuziphatha yabazali. Ke umama kunye noTata kufuneka endaweni "musa ukuhamba", "musa", "ayikwazi" sebenzisa "yiya ngomso", "manenekazi, kodwa kamva", "oko inenzakalise."

Ingxaki: eli ligatya emva kwemini. Isisombululo: ukuthotyelwa ingqokelela "isiko". Le ntlekele kwabangelwa ngonyaka 1 eyayinethombo esikhulu solwazi, nto leyo sifunyenwe liGosa sana, kwaye loo usana uyakwazi ukuzithwalisa imithwalo emikhulu luvo. Ngoko ke seyure phambi kokuba emva kwemini kufuneka kunikezelwe usana kwimo cwaka - funda incwadi okanye sasemini.

Ingxaki: Ndisuke njengesithunzi ngabazali babo. Isisombululo: Qiniseka ukuba uya kuhlala naye. ingxaki unyaka 1 Idla yi kukuba umntwana Ndiyoyika ukumka abazali babo. Ngoko ke musa ukuzinyanzela ukwahlula enye kwenye. Kufuneka ube rhoqo ukuthetha kuye, nokuba umzali kwigumbi elandelayo, udlala fihla komntwana bafune, ngokuthe ngcembe baqhele yokuba unina engekho, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo liya kuba umva.

Ingxaki: andiyi kudla. Isisombululo: musa amnyanzele ukuba adle. ingxaki unyaka 1 kakhulu enxibelelene ukuyilwa otya ngayo umntwana. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntwana waqalisa lokwala wanikela ukutya, asifanele kunyanzeleka ukuba enze ubundlobongela. Inikeza ezahlukeneyo onokukhetha kuzo ukutya, phambi kokuba ityiwe ukuba nithathe elide, bacele ngokwakho ukuba badle.

Ingxaki: ukunxibelelana kunye noontanga babo. Isisombululo: uthumele umzekelo yakho. Okokuqala, abazali kufuneka ubonise ekhaya, ukwabelana ngayo nabanye, njengoko imfuno ukunxibelelana nabanye abantu. Kulapho kwezo zihlandlo, usana kufuneka iqhagamshele. Ngokuthe ngcembe, okunye ukuziphatha ziya kufakwa umkhwa wakhe yaye siya kufudumeza ukusuka usapho ukunxibelelana noontanga.

unyaka 1 nengxaki babo, iindleko kwenza kuphela iinzame ezibambeneyo ukuze uphumze indima yakhe.