Black Wedding: iziphumo ncomo. njani a kumtshato omnyama?

Privorot wedding black - kakuhle kakhulu, olusebenzayo, kodwa kananjalo iyelenqe yingozi. Bathi ke ngonaphakade "ivele" umntu, zimshiya ithuba lokwakha ikamva labo. Phambi kokuba isigqibo linyathelo kakhulu kwaye uxanduva ezinjalo, khumbula ukuba nayiphi umlingo ukupela kunye Isichazi 'abamnyama' kukodwa inika uqhagamshelwano lwakho iidemon kunye nemikhosi lobumnyama. izithethe ezinjalo kakuhle-ntle kunye neengxoxo elungileyo, kodwa ngokupheleleyo kuphela ukutshintsha bayahlelwa abantu - hayi ngenxa ngcono.

Kakuhle eli isiko

Njengoko sele kukhankanyiwe, eqhuba kwisiko, benza umlingo, i onamava okanye labaqalayo, uzama ukuveza amandla nomphetho phakathi kwabantu ababini. Le yeyona njongo iphambili isiko ekuthiwa yomtshato emnyama. Iziphumo nga kokugubungela; ngoko ke akukho prisushka lula okanye ukupela, kodwa umsitho womtshato yonke. Kule meko igama inkqubo ibonisa ngokupheleleyo umongo walo. Kulo mzekelo, ikhondo yesithethe imilingo ifana kakhulu umsitho emsithweni eBandleni Orthodox, loo nto nje lunembono encinci mutated usukelo lwayo. Pela bobabo kudidi emangcwabeni, ngoko kubhaliwe ngokuqhelekileyo eziqhutyelwa ingcwaba lomntu obhubhileyo.

Ngokwaso sisithethe black emtshatweni? Izimvo zabantu zibonisa ukuba umphumo ebikunqwenela kufikelelwe ngokukhawuleza. Loo ndoda, owayesebenza ngokuthobeka balamkela Isiphelo sakhe: Yiza uhlale sisondele. Kodwa kukho enye into. Ezinye i "lokuhlola" nje "ikhefu" phantsi kweempembelelo ngamakhubalo enamandla: nenkolo, ongenamqolo kunye depressive. Abanye babo basele ubomi kakhulu okanye ekupheleni ukuzibulala. Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokuqhubeka kwitheko, cinga into ilungile: zombie, ukuhlala uhlala khona okanye omthandayo, ngubani na mhlawumbi nawe, kodwa bencumile eholweni yaye ndonwabile?

iimpawu

Ukuba kwiimpikiswano ochazwe ngasentla -kude khange asebenze kwaye ucinga ukuba enze umsitho, siyazi ukuba inkqubo idla kufuna ulandelelwano kunye nokuthobela ngqo iinkcukacha. Ukungabi bili, unako ukuphendula ngokufanelekileyo kwiimeko zongxamiseko okanye iziganeko esingenakubonwa kwangaphambili ngexesha msitho. Ngokomthetho, isiphumo esithi ayikho kuthatha ixesha elide, Isandla ungawa nakweyiphi na i ariya ubomi bakho okanye usapho lwakho. Ngokutsho manani ongekho mthethweni, malunga nama-20% ye-amasiko ziphelela besengxakini, nokuba 30% ibonisa yoko, kodwa kungekhona umntu angathanda. Ngoko ke, ukuzama isandla sabo, uziva ikamva kunye namathuba ka-50 ukuya ku-50.

Ecetywayo kweli nqaku, omnyama rite lomtshato - uguqulelo okulula. Nokuba ukusetyenziswa kwayo kuya kuba ngcono kwi-100%, isiphumo ukuze kube enamandla ixesha ukudlala, emva "umsebenzi" ezi iimboni nabakhafuli. Ukongeza, bazi kuphela ithemba, kodwa ke ingozi kunye ozithandayo ikamva lakho. Eneneni, ukusetyenziswa komlingo abamnyama anokwenza kakhulu ubomi bakho, ekwenzeni kwakho ngonaphakade ebotshelelwe omnye komnye, ngaphandle ukukwazi ukwakha ubuhlobo kunye nabanye abantu.

Ukulungiselela lo mkhosi

Yesiko ifuna ukuba izenzo ezithile. Kwi eve kufuneka Stock up on:

1. Fianitovymi amakhandlela (iziqwenga ezintathu abamnyama obomvu). Ukuba azifumaneki ezivenkileni ezikhethekileyo esoteric, kuya kufuneka ukuba balisebenzise. Le amakhandlela ezizodwa eyenziwe kongezwe kwiimvuthuluka zirconia cc - acacisa izinto zedolophu.
2. Chilibuha amagqabi. Izityalo, yande emahlathini yoMzantsi Asia, ithengiswa ezivenkileni ezikhethekileyo okanye umlingo ezikhemisti. Kuya kuthatha amagqabi malunga-30.
3. oyile yesibane (lathi mayiyo kundithengela). Kufuneka kusoloko ecaweni. Uyakwazi ukuyithenga kwisitora etempileni.

wedding Privorot abamnyama lubandakanya ukusetyenziswa iifoto ezimbini: eyakho umntu oza oninyangileyo. Kwifoto kufuneka ube ngumntu omnye kuphela kufunekayo manyala ukukhula ngokupheleleyo. Musa ukusebenzisa iifoto kwimeko entle kakhulu kwaye ubudala. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, kufuneka ibe nentlahla (ukuya kuma kwiveki edlulileyo) kwaye zicacile. ubukhulu Umfanekiso Akukhathaliseki.

yesiko

rite wedding Black kwenziwa imini nobusuku phambi kokuba inyanga le igcwele. usuku lonke phambi kwesiganeko awukwazi ukuthatha ukutya okanye usele iziselo ezinxilisayo. Ngokuhlwa ngaphambi ukuya emangcwabeni, thatha nkxu kwisitya ashushu, bamba iimpawu eziyimfuneko wayihlaba indlela. Ukufika kwingcwaba a pre-ekhethiweyo (kufuneka kungcwatywa okanye nobizo nobizo bewitches babantu); engqondweni cela imvume ukuba babambe inkonzo emva kwexesha. Ukuba ngoko ke umphefumlo uya kuziva uzolile, ukuze uqhubeke.

Babeke kwamakhandlela ababebandakanyekile engcwabeni. Xa iziko kubeka photo: umfanekiso ozithandayo ekhohlo kaThixo - ngasekunene. Ulifefe phezu yomfanekiso amagqabi chilibuha (ezinye ukusetyenziswa kwezi iinjongo lavender yesiqhelo). Thatha imela kwenzakale ngomnwe. Ivuza igazi umfanekiso lakho, uthi, "ndiya kubuvelela ngegazi babo imikhosi ezimnyama kunye umphefumlo uswelekileyo ukuba andincede. Ndinike into endikubuzayo. Endaweni kuthatha iminyaka emithathu yobomi bam "Emva koko afefe ozithandayo umfanekiso negazi, wathi:" Ngamana ubomi bethu iyahlangana, isiphelo zakho ziya kuba zezam, ubomi bam - yakho !. Ngoko ke oko! "Emva koko ugalele ioli isibane zonke izinto wayibeka phezu engcwabeni, yaye umlilo imidlalo zabo. Ujonge amadangatye, ngathi zonke ngeenxa zonke kum. Emva bebulela umfi kunye nemikhosi amnyama ushiye ekwahlukaneni kweendlela, inceba: ubugcwabalalana ezimbalwa, intwana inyama ekrwada kunye ezithile yevodka.

enye lwalo

Kukho abantu kuphakuzela ndoyika lwamangcwaba, ingakumbi ngexesha ezimnyama lemini. Ngoko ke, ngokuba ezinjalo kukho umtshato black rite ikhaya unazo. Sisiqhube kunokuba kwigumbi lakho. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo ukuba apho wedwa, okanye, ubuncinane, yayingase ivalwe kwigumbi kude ngaphandle naziphi na iingxaki. Linda de kube sezinzulwini zobusuku, uhlale phantsi kwetafile, wabeka ilaphu omnyama, babeke phambi amagqabi chilibuha. Yongeza kubo izinto eziphilayo bewitches umntu: iinwele okanye isikhonkwane ezisikwe. Zivuse afefe nge ubunzima iifoto: nesithandwa wakhe.

Hi ndlela leyi, wadubula yakho kufuneka ibekwe nakwabangasekhohlo, amadoda - ngasekunene. Kufuphi imifanekiso ebekwe amakhandlela ezimbini, uwafake ezizibeni amakhonkco abe mabini ezintsha yomtshato kunye nokukhanya. Ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuba ndiwathethe la mazwi: "Wena ke akanako, ezifana amavukuthu, athembekileyo njengoko weentaka. Abakwazi lisasazwe, lisasazwe. Siza uthando ukudada, ulonwabo ngenxa ezimbini ukwabelana. " Engqondweni ukucinga ukuba izinto abazithethayo. Emva koko uyisongele amagqabi, wazifefa ngokunjalo imifanekiso a ezineeribhoni iphepha tie abamnyama tight. Zingakotshwa wangcwatywa kwindawo enye. Amakhonkco kufuneka-aphathe, okanye rite amandla kunciphisa kakhulu.

Zisebenza njani?

Oku kukwasebenza enxibe Christian Church. Yiloo kuphela etempileni ufumana intsikelelo kuThixo, yaye emangcwabeni - kuSathana. Njengoko usazi, imikhosi amnyama abangazange baye kangaka nje musa ukumnika. Ngoko ke, ukuze endaweni ungalibekeli sixabisekileyo une - umphefumlo. Ukuba utshata ecaweni, wena ufumane isiqinisekiso sokuba intsapho yakho iza kulindwa ziingelosi kunye namandla kaThixo, sikunika ukhuselo kunye iivoti. Kulo mzekelo, endaweni yokhathalelo wasezulwini iwela amandla oselula yokufa, enabizwa apho - ukukhusela isibini kwaye ngaxeshanye ukohlwaya ukuzama ukuphazamisa udibaniso. Oko kukuthi, kuvela ukuba wena nabantu bakho abatsha abayi kukwazi ukwenza ubudlelwane entsha, ukuba uthando lwakho lupholile nezipasiweyo.

njani umtshato abamnyama ngabantu? Ukupela yinto ebizwa ngokuba yi-lucinga yokubini, ngoko ke "ukubuyisela ngemva" nga ukubamba wena wedwa, kodwa ke into yothando lwenu. Man ziya kuthanda ukuba atshate aze aqalise intsapho, kodwa ndicinga ukuba aziyi kwahluka isisa nothando. Kungenzeka, ukuba uya ukutsala umnqweno ngokukhawuleza ngokwesondo kunye tinyiketela kwengqondo.

Zisebenza njani?

Lo mbuzo umdla nezazi ezininzi abo basandula kuqalisa. Iingcali zithi, umgaqo, isiko yenzelwe nobuhlala ixesha elide. Kodwa ke ngelishwa, akukho nto obungunaphakade, yaye ngoko ke inyathelo mkhosi ekuqaleni kwayo kunye nesiphelo. Nangona, ukuba akuthanga ngumnini izithethe, kunye ngoncedo oyingcali, iminyaka eli-10 iwaranti aqinisekisiwe. Ngokutsho kubo emva kokuba amandla umsitho uqala ukuncipha kancinci. Ngoko ke, ukubona oku, kufuneka kwakhona ukuze le nkonzo kule iwizard.

Ukuba wenza tirhisa sisithethe, ubude ukunyaniseka kwayo yehliswe ngokuzenzekelayo. Okokuqala, uqeqesho ufuna umtshato black: iziphumo mkhosi zixhomekeke ubunzulu izakhono zakho ulwazi lokufunda nokubhala omlingo. Okwesibini, ngosuku phambi kufuneka uye ngokusebenzisa uhlobo loqeqesho ngokwasengqondweni: umntu umele akholwe into ethetha, zama ukuqonda amazwi ehlaselwe uthando, edlula nge intliziyo nengqondo. Okwesithathu, ngexesha isiko uchitha isixa esikhulu amandla, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuze yande imini ngaphambili. Ukuba imeko ubuncinane omnye ayanelanga, kwisiko buthathaka ngokuzenzekelayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kulo mzekelo, isiphumo sayo ithatha iminyaka 3.

Indlela ukuba balahle njengokhangelo?

Yenza kube nzima ngokwaneleyo. Ingakumbi xa eyenziwa bili lokuhlambulula. Kukho iimeko xa intombazana, inkonzo odola, kwiminyaka embalwa kamva ihlangana nenye kwaye ufuna ukudibanisa ubomi naye. Kodwa ayikasebenzi: ex-boyfriend ayisiniki yakhe pass, yaye yena akakwazi kubuqhawula nobudlelwane. Kubonakala ukuba amandla angabonakaliyo uwugcina ecaleni amadoda. Ngoko ke, umfazi kunyanzeleka ukuba babuyele ezinobuchule, ngoko wasusa isiqalekiso, emnika ithuba lokuba uqalise ukuthandana entsha. Best zonke, ukuba lo wizard efanayo lowo wenza isiko lomtshato emnyama. nezazi Ukubuyekezwa bathi elowo kubo lusebenzisa into isiko eyeyabo. Ngoko ke, kuphela owenza isiko unako ukufumana isitshixo ekupheliseni impembelelo yayo.

Ukuba ufuna ukwenza yonke into ngokwakho, ufanele wazi: kumtshato black - a ayikokubambana ngendlela enamandla kakhulu. Mhlawumbi asethi umzimba nengqondo yakho akusayi kuba ngokwaneleyo ukuze makayiqhawule. Jonga i ingcali, ukuze ube amathuba kakhulu ukuphumeza yoko. Khumbula: yesiko womtshato black akuyona umdlalo, kungekhona buthathaka okwexeshana okanye yiyo. Oku kuyingozi kakhulu kwaye ukuphazamiseka kakhulu ebomini bakho, ziyahlelwa umntu omthandayo.