Xa abantwana baqala ukuthetha? Indlela yokunceda bafunde ukuthetha?

baby Wena uyakhula. Athanda ukudlala ngazo zokudlala, yena uthanda ukubukela iikhathuni, kungaba ukukhasa, kunye nokuzama ukuhamba. Ke wena, Kakade ke, banomdla kakhulu kulo mbuzo, yaye xa ethetha. Kwaye, eneneni, xa beqala ukuthetha nabantwana? Ngaba siyakuthi yobudala ngqo? Kwaye nokuba oko kunto-nye bonke abantwana? Le mibuzo zibaluleke bonke abazali umntwana, ingakumbi ukuba yabo yokuqala.

Xa abantwana baqala ukuthetha?

Uninzi lwabantwana ukucengceleza izandi zokuqala eziye ubuncinane ingqiqo ethile, kuba malunga nonyaka. Kuthathwa lo mmiselo, ukuba kulo nyaka, uthi, ukususela amagama amabini ukuya kwishumi. Bonke abantwana ezahlukeneyo nomlinganiswa kunye nobuchule. umntwana udlelwano ungane lidla ukuba ukuthetha, ngoko yena uthetha ngaphambili. azithandayo ezolile nenengqondo ukuba uyigcine yonke alithandayo, yaye akafuni ukunxibelelana. Uyakuthanda ukudlala yedwa, uze uthethe wayengenamdla. Le ntetho baby kamva, xa wayefuna ukwabelana nomnye umntu phakathi kwakho iingcinga. Ikakhulu abantwana ukuba iminyaka emithathu sele ukuthetha ngokucacileyo okanye akuphuhlanga kakuhle. Kodwa ukuba umntwana kule ubudala cwaka, oko akuthethi akuthethi ukuba lisasalele emva kuphuhliso, kodwa kuyimfuneko ukuba adibane ngengqondo.

Oku waphawula ukuba amantombazane aqala ukuthetha ngaphambi amakhwenkwe. Xa abantwana baqala ukuthetha - kungekudala - kwiinkalo ezininzi kuxhomekeke abazali, emoyeni entsatsheni, kwakunye umlinganiselo bamphetheyo kanye umntwana. Ukuba ngezikhondo zamehlo usapho, abazali basoloko ingxabano, thetha ngezwi bayavuswa, yaye abazange kusibekela umntwana wakho, kungenzeka kukho umnqweno ukuba ukuthetha, ukhale. Abanye abazali kunqabile ukunxibelelana nabanye kunye nomntwana, waza yena akayi uziva ingqalelo ngokukokwabo, akayi ifuna ukunxibelelana nabo, sayivalela kwihlabathi lakhe.

Kodwa yenzeka ngamanye amaxesha ukuba abadala bethetha kakhulu kunye nomntwana, nangona yinxalenye yeqela yaye musa ukuvumela ukuba ukubonisa akukho ngokwayo. Loo umntwana kukho ingqiqo zazibaxhalabisa phambi abadala. Kwaye ke ngumnqweno andikuthethi ayinayo nazo. Kuyaphawuleka ukuba ekuqaleni kade ukuthetha kwabo kubantwana babazali kakhulu ukubukela phezu ungaziva sithandabuze umnqweno nakancinane umntwana wakhe. Izenzo ezinjalo kukhokelela kukuba engazange ukuphuhlisa ngokwayo, oko ibonisa umntwana akukho phulo, bonke simnqwenelela kakuhle yaye ngoko nangoko touted abaphezulu. Yena nje akanawo safuneka ukuba sithethe into.

Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza?

Kuqala kwinto zonke, abazali kufuneka ukuba ube ngumhlobo osenyongweni kwaye enobubele kunye nosana lwakhe. Limelwe ukuba eninzi intetho, funda kuye amabali, kulandele ingxoxo efikelelekayo, ukucula iingoma, ukudlala imidlalo fun kuye. Umntwana kufuneka ufune ukuthetha into. Baby ufuna ukubuza imibuzo ukuze akwazi ukuphendula ubuncinane: "Ewe" okanye "Hayi". Xa uhamba naye esitalatweni kufuneka kubizwa ngokuba wafumana izinto, ebonisa phezulu phezu kwazo, aze anikele umntwana wakho ukuphinda amagama emva kwakhe. Nomntwana oko kuyimfuneko ukuthetha kakuhle - emfutshane, ecacileyo neqondakalayo. Ukuzama ukuba amfundise ukuba bathi ngayo, sifunda indlela ukuthetha nabantwana.

Kakhulu massage luncedo iminwe umntwana, njengoko zininzi kwalapho. Ukolulwa ezinjalo Ukukhuthaza uphuhliso ubuchule zabantwana kwaye umncede ukuthetha ngaphambili. Babizwa ngokuba "yeminwe" for kids nako ukuzalisekisa lo msebenzi. Kunye iinyanga ezilishumi elinesibhozo umntwana zama ukudlala imidlalo indima-idlala. Makhe umama lidlala indima, umzekelo, izinja, kunye nentombi yakhe - iikati. Kunye zveryata ukunxibelelana nabanye.

Abantu abadala abanqwenela ukuba umntwana wabo uya kuthetha, kufuneka bakhuthazwe ukuba amsunduze incoko. Umntwana rhoqo kangangoko ukuba kuvela ukuziva uyolo, uvuyo, nokuba imincili ukuba ayifumene imbonakalo ngamagama. Xa abantwana baqala ukuthetha nabazali babo isiganeko entsha amnandi. Kwaye bonke, kakade, ndifuna ukuba eze ngokukhawuleza kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Nokukhawulezisa ukuhlasela abazali ngenkani. Ukuze wenze oku, nje ukwenza ezinye iinzame.