Uphawu oluthakazelisayo: liyintoni ukukhwela kwesokudla

Izinkolelo-ze zinyamalala kancane, kodwa zikhona abantu abaneleyo ukukholelwa ukuba i-subconscious ithetha nathi ngeempawu ezithile. Abanye, umzekelo, khumbula iinombolo eziza kuvela kuyo yonke indawo, abanye bafunda iimpawu. Okukugqibela, ngendlela, inokuchazwa ngokucacileyo ukuba yiyiphi into elungileyo. Kuye kwavela ukuba ukuchithwa kule ndawo kunakho ukuhlaziywa. Awazi ukuba yintoni? Masibhale phantsi.

Ukulungiswa kwenyaniso

Ngaphambi kokuba uqonde ukuba yiyiphi imilinganiselo efanelekileyo, kuyimfuneko ukuqonda ukuba ngubani na xa ifunyenwe nokuthi kutheni kulungile. Ngaba akunjalo wena, njengommi wexesha elide, uthembele koothixo abangaziwa? Le ndlela yokuziphatha ngexesha lobuchwepheshe obuphezulu ibonakala ingaqhelekanga, ukuthetha okungenani.

Iimpawu zinezizathu zokuqinisekisa, apho saqala khona. Intetho engabonakaliyo yomphefumlo uthetha nathi. Asiyiqondi, kodwa ikhona kwaye ilinga ukucebisa-unike iingcebiso. Kulapha kuphela inhlanhla, asikwazi ukuthetha engqondweni yethu engqondweni. Kuninzi ngamaphupha kunye nemiqondiso.

Ookhokho bethu, okanye ootatomkhulu, baqonda le nyaniso, kuba ukususela ngexesha elidluleyo baphulaphule imeko yomzimba kunye nendalo, kodwa bonke baqaphela. Ngoko kwakukho imiqondiso yinyaniso. Baqokelele iwaka leminyaka, bahlambulukile, bahlolwe, batshintshile baza bazaliswa ngentsingiselo entsha. Ukusebenza kule nto ayikho abantu abathile, kodwa wonke uluntu. Kwaye siqhubeka nomsebenzi namhlanje, kodwa asiziboni.

Yintoni efanelekileyo yokukhawuleza?

Sithetha malunga neemeko apho ukutshitshiswa kwinqutyana ethile yomzimba kubonakala kwaye kwanyamalala ngokukhawuleza. Ngaphandle koko, akufuneki ukuba ufunde iimpawu, kodwa ukuba usebenze kugqirha. Ukuvuvukala kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zomzimba kubonisa ukungasebenzi kwezitho zangaphakathi. Emva koko, funyanise ukuba kukuphi ukukhwela kwesokudla, impumlo okanye isifuba, kufuneka ube ngumcali oqeqeshiwe. Xa ukutshabalalisa kubonakala okwesikhashana kwaye ngokukhawuleza kwanyamalala, kunengqiqo ukukhangela kwirejista iya kwamkela, kwaye ujonge umsebenzi onjalo njengesisithakazelo nantoni na.

Uvakalelwa ngokufanelekileyo, njengoko besithi ebantwini, ukugula kwasekuqaleni. Le ndlela yindlela inqununu eyakhethileyo ukuba ikuxwayise ngengozi. Nangona kunjalo, akukho zizathu zokukhathazeka okanye ukuva. Isifo asiyi kuba namandla. Sekunjalo abantu baqinisekisa, ukuba i-itch ayibonakali kuphela ngenjongo yokudluliswa kolwazi olungathandekiyo. Ingqondo engacatshulwayo ilumkisa ukuba isenzo okanye isenzo siza kubakho ukuqala kwesifo.

Iyakwazi ukuguqulelwa ngolwimi lomntu ngale ndlela ilandelayo: "Beka isitya sakho, ukuba unqume ukuhamba ngeqhwa!" Uyazi, vula intloko yakho - iindlebe zakho zigula, okanye kubanda. Yiloo nto inokuthi ummi onobuchule uyanqatshulwa - uyaphakamisa amandla akhe emzimbeni!

Olunye uxwebhu lwe "uphawu lwangasese"

Izibonakaliso zenziwa ngabantu abahlukeneyo ngokuzimela, kuba baninzi ukutolika. Kufuneka ukuba ukhethe okokukholelwa. Funda yonke into, uze ukhangele iimeko, yiziphi iimeko. Kukholelwa ukuba i-armpit efanelekileyo iyakhathalela izinto ezintsha. Ukuba kwindawo ebonisiweyo kwakukho utywala obuqinileyo, kwaye i-déodorant yakutshanje ayisitshintshi, inentsingiselo, kungekudala uza kuba neentengiso eziphumelelayo. Mhlawumbi, umzekelo onjalo wabonakaliswa ngumboniso othile, khangela, mhlawumbi uhlala naye kunye. Kwimeko nayiphi na imeko, xa ufumanisa oko kulungele intombazana enyantywayo, kufuneka ubeke ingqalelo kwi-decoding efanayo.

Ukuchazwa kwengqondo ngeempawu

Sekunjalo bathi ukutshitshiswa phantsi kweengalo kufuneka kudibaniswe, ukhokelwe yimpawu zomntu. Ngoko, abantu abaneentloni banokuvakalelwa xa beyiswa ngoloyiko lokuthetha koluntu. Mhlawumbi, ngokukhawuleza ummi lowo uya kuba "nesabelo esibi" - uya kubonakalisa uluvo lwakhe kuluntu. Ekubeni i-subconscious iqaphela zonke iingxaki zomntu, uzama ukulukisa malunga "nengozi ekhethekileyo" ukuze i-coward inexesha lokulungiselela ngaphakathi.

Mhlawumbi zonke ezingentla zingathembekanga, kubalulekile ukugweba oku ngeziphumo zeemeko. Futhi ubhale malunga namava akho kumazwana, ukuze abanye bakwazi ukuhamba kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kumsebenzi onzima ekwakheni nasekuphuculweni kweempawu.