Ubhaliso Marriage: umtshato yokuqala

ubhaliso Marriage - indlela enkulu ukwenza emtshatweni wakho akafani nayiphi na enye. njani ndenza kumthendeleko okhethekileyo?

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Okokuqala, ungakhetha indawo apho ungayibopha ngeqhina lomtshato. Ukuba uhlala kwidolophu encinane, kwaye unobhala akakwazi ukuqhayisa imizi-, ungenza ngokulula ukhethe elinye igumbi lo msitho. Emva komtshato - ngeholide ukuba ufuna ukuchitha egqibeleleyo. Ukuze zonke iinkcukacha wadala umoya luthando, ulonwabo kunye tofo. Ingaba ufuna bathi isibambiso isigxina gazebo zothando? Ngaba uphupha ukutshata elunxwemeni? Okanye nayiphi na indawo zodidi? Akukho ngxaki.

Okwesibini, asinguye wonk 'ubani uthanda ukuba "kuluhlu oomolokazana" kufuphi-ofisi yobhaliso. Wedding - a mbhiyozo lobuqu kakhulu, apho umfazi elizayo ufuna ukuba azive ezizodwa, unique, yaye, ke, eyona intle. Ukuba ngaphezulu ezimbalwa kule umtshakazi, nganye "ngesinxibo ngokupheleleyo", kunzima kakhulu.

Okwesithathu, ungenza nayiphi bume. Clearance zinokuba nomahluko. Ndiyakuthanda iintyatyambo neentliziyo? Nceda! Ingaba wena ukuba ama biker? Lungisa yonke into ngendlela efanelekileyo! Kuququzelela wedding desktop zonke? Malunga ngunobhala wenkundla uya kufuna phantse "phantsi neemicroscope", yaye indawo ukhetha, ungaba fun ngokwaneleyo.

Okwesine, ukhetha ixesha elilungele wena. Akuyi beDA, yaye wena akuyi liya kuxhalela ukuba abanye uyalibazisa.

Okwesihlanu, ungakhetha i rekhoda ngokwayo yaye bathathe inxaxheba ekudalweni wawisa.

LeSithandathu, ukuba wena akunguye umhle kakhulu waltz Mendelssohn, uyakwazi ukukhetha umculo ezahlukeneyo eziya kuthatha ubhaliso. Yinto iholide yakho, nto leyo ethetha ukuba ungenza ukwenza yona ngendlela ofuna ngayo.

Yimalini uhambela ukubhaliswa ngomtshato?

Ukuba uthe wagqiba ukuba uqiniseke ukuba umtshato wakho ezizodwa, qhagamshelana arhente yakho yomtshato. Iinkampani ezininzi zifundisa "turnkey" nkonzo njengokuya ubhaliso emtshatweni. Iindleko kuxhomekeke koko uyala. Ngokuqhelekileyo, amaxabiso kuqala ngo amawaka 15. Thambisani. Umzekelo, ungakhetha nawuphi na nezacholo, kweenkantsi, indawo yeholide njalo njalo. Ngokuqhelekileyo wanikela iinkonzo leengcali ezahlukeneyo: abayili, abasasazi, cameramen, nabaququzeleli.

Nokuba awuyazi kakuhle into oyifunayo, kodwa iphupha yombhiyozo eqaqambileyo, uya khetha inkqubo efunekayo. Ingakumbi kuwe siya ilungiswe. Kwakhona ungakhetha nawuphi na yokuzonwabisa ngokwabo kunye neendwendwe. Umzekelo, ukuba amalungiselelo kumtshato indlela "Ebomvu Iiseyile". Okanye uthathe ukukhwela isikhephe. Okanye mhlawumbi ufuna ukubona wafika umyeni ihashe elimhlophe? Yonke iminqweno yakho kunye namaphupha kube yinto ebonakalayo neyinyani.

Nobhaliso yokuphuma kuthetha ukuba akuyomfuneko ukuba avumelane iingcinga uphendule nje "ewe" kumbuzo engundoqo. Ungenza iziqhulo, ndamanga, benikana izibhambathiso, ngamafutshane, ukuba wenze nantoni na oyifunayo. Ayikho na kulinganiselwe amazwi iimvakalelo.

Uyakwazi ukumema iindwendwe ezininzi kangangoko ufuna. Yaye "amazwe" akayi hambisa kufutshane elinde ithuba lazo.