Sesikolweni xa engakanani ngobudala Unokuyifaka umntwana, kwaye ke kufuneka kukhunjulwe

Emva kokuzalwa kosana, omnye iziganeko ezibalulekileyo eziza kufunyanwa mama uselula notata - yaba shazhochkami yakhe yokuqala, amazwi akhe kuqala! Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba kwenzeke, usana kufuneka ufunde lukhulu kwaye bafunde lukhulu! Ngokomzekelo, kufuneka afunde ukuze ugcine entloko, yaye kamva - ukuba bahlale lenyama. Nguwo ke lo mbuzo abazali abaninzi entsha itsale umdla gqitha. Indlela yokunceda umntwana wakho ukuba? Indlela ukwenza ngcono? Sesikolweni xa engakanani ngobudala? Unokuyifaka umntwana phambi kokuba iinyanga ezintandathu, okanye hayi?

Amaxesha amaninzi izimvo sele oomama abanamava kwaye abazali basenokungavumelani kulo mba. Umntu aqale ukufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlale kweenyanga ezintandathu, kunye umntu uzama ukubeka umntwana abahlanu, okanye iinyanga ezine. Kanti ke, nabo benza into elungileyo? C Ngeliphi kuyocelwa isihlalo umntwana ubudala?

Uluvo bezifo kulo mba icacile: "Musa ukukhawuleza!" Ngokungafaniyo kwimathematika, wezifo asinto inzululwazi ngqo, kodwa ke zikhona imithetho ethile. Ngoko ke, ukuba ukuthelekisa uphuhliso usana lwakho kunye namanye amanani kunye nezinye izakhono bekuya kuba ephosakeleyo. Kakade ke, xa wezifo, kukho Ipharamitha physical zophuhliso zabantwana ukuya kutsho kunyaka omnye, iminyaka emithathu, njl Nangona kunjalo, ezi nqobo ayenzelwanga ukuba bafumane izakhono zomntwana emzimbeni.

bezifo abanamava xa ucelwa yobudala apho uyakwazi ukubeka umntwana, ukuphendula ngazwinye: "uhlezi itakane ngokwakhe, xa uya kuba ukulungele oko!" Kungenxa yoko le nto kukho imigaqo emibini siseko ezingabantwana: ukunceda kwaye ayinakulimaza. Umbuzo oko ubudala uyakwazi ukubeka umntwana, kungekhona ukwenzakalisa - akufanele sukela.

Yintoni enokubangela ngokungeyomfuneko ekuqaleni ukutyala baby? Ezinye iingxaki kwemininzi eqhelekileyo usenokudibana umntwana kwixesha elizayo, ukuba abazali bazama ukuba bambulale kwexesha - a ukukhubazeka emathanjeni zangasese kunye zokufota. Ezi zeziphumo ngokulinganayo owonona kwixesha elizayo, ngamantombazana namakhwenkwe.

Yinto eyaziwayo ukuba phantse amahlanu ekhulwini abantwana abahamba isikolo ubunzima ukusuka esime ezingafani lialio. Kwaye kumantombazana zokufota kunye ukukhubazeka emathanjeni zangasese - oku kubaluleke ngxaki kakhulu, nto leyo kwixesha elizayo kungakhokelela kwiingxaki njengozalayo.

Abanye omama bangase bathi, "Ukuba ebuntwaneni bam ndatyala ukususela iinyanga ezintlanu, ndaza wazala eziqhelekileyo, akukho nto imbi eza kwenzeka intombi yam." Kodwa bekuya kuba bubulumko ukunamathela umgaqo othi "Ngaba akukho nto imbi!"

Kulungile ukuba umntwana ehleli eneminyaka kweenyanga ezintandathu, akukho. Mhlawumbi abazali kufuneka idale nje iimeko elifanelekileyo ukulungiselela usana ukwenzela uphuhliso kunye nomsebenzi ngokwasemzimbeni. isithuba esininzi, unxibelelwano ngakumbi eqaqambileyo, kunyusa zokudlala. Xa pipsqueak bafunde ukuba ngenkuthalo ukuhamba, iyavuka ngokwakhe.

Ke kaloku, xa zingaphi iinyanga kusenokwenzeka ukuba umntwana kwi Jumpers? Elona xesha lifanelekileyo oku xa sele ehlala kakuhle kwaye uzama ukufumana up. Oku kuyenzeka ukuba iinyanga 8-9.

Ngoko ke, impendulo umbuzo into ubudala kusenokwenzeka ukuba umntwana ilula: usana kufuneka alinywe xa kuya kuba vertebral kunye hip amathambo, kwaye kukho umnqweno. Kungcono ukuba khawuleza ngaphezu kobubi.