Ngothando kubizwa ngokuba Man?

Yintoni ubani akayithandi uthando kunye nobuhlobo obuhle ukuya kulo? Nkqu amaXhosa kubulawa kunye ezifumaneka kunye zobuso ngokufihlakeleyo amaphupho nelimdaka. Ingakumbi xa ixilongo ukusuka imilebe ngumntu omthandayo. Kodwa ukuba intombi kulula makathathe ngamazwi amnandi: kunokuba ikati, kwaye ilanga, kunye Zainka - ke indlela ngothando ngokuthi loo mfo ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zabo ngaphandle kokuba corny kakhulu? Ngothando kubizwa ngokuba Man? Okokuqala kufuneka siqonde ukuba amagama wathi ngobunono. Ukuba zothando, kwaye ceba amagama kakhulu yingxaki cute isoka yakho, unako kubhenela amabinzana jikelele, afaneleka nayiphi na imeko. Amagama afana "sithandwa sam", "kuphela yaye oyintanda", akayi kukushiya kuye lingenandaba, yaye uya baqonde oko uvakalelwa kuye. Ukuze wenze oku, usoloko ukundibiza Man ngesisa.

intonation intsingiselo

Kodwa kubalulekile nje ngamazwi, kodwa ithoni - bukhali nangokweemvakalelo. WoLuntu uya kubizwa ngokuba "tarakashka wam" okanye "ihagu", kodwa kube mnandi kangaka nothando, ukuba uya kuzamkela la mazwi ehlekisayo. Kwaye wena unako, kufana umpu kumatshini, scribbling yokuncoma bakhe kunye nokuphathwa nokuthantamisa, kodwa ukwenze oko ngokukhawuleza, ngaphandle iimvakalelo, ngaphandle imibala ngokweemvakalelo - ngoko bonke iya kuba lilize. amagama Gentle umntu omthandayo omnye isandi ukuxhala ngakumbi. Kubalulekile ukuba siziqaphele amagama nemvakalozwi, njengoko ingasetyenziswa ukuqinisekisa mfo kukuba nguwe kuphela ukuba silindele ubomi bam bonke. Kukho imfundo ubhalo amantombazana okanye kaninzi musa ukuvumela ukubonisa isimo sakhe omnye wakho omthandayo. Bakholelwa ukuba "molo" formal ekuqaleni emini "ubusuku ezilungileyo" - isiphelo ngokwaneleyo. Kodwa into engalunganga. Guys ufuna ukuva amazwi amnandi ngamaxesha onke amantombazana, kodwa musa ukuthetha ngayo. Musa phula intloko yakho phezu indlela kubizwa ngothando iNdoda, tsalela le ndlela ngoku uxelela intliziyo yakho. Amazwi athethwa ngokuqhutywa ngumdla kwaye ngokusuka entliziyweni, thinta kakhulu ngaphezu ukufunda iincwadi uLihayi ngenyameko. Yiba ngokwam, esithi ngalo mzuzu ofuna ukuyithetha.

Imivundla, neencanda nemivundla

Kwaye imfihlo ezincinane kodwa ezibalulekileyo: zonke abafana ngokwenene ungathanda ukuva ukuba walithiywa "kakhulu." Xa unxibelelwano elula ukuba akukho umthwalo ekhethekileyo esemantiki. Sinako sithi "Loo mhla inzima" okanye "i uhambo yeyona," nje ezimbalwa eziliqela iziganeko oqaqambisa current. Kodwa xa kufikwa kweli nolwalamano olusondeleyo phakathi kwabantu ababini, bonke utshintsha kakhulu. Musa ukucinga ngendlela ngothando kubizwa ngokuba Man, ukongeza nje amazwi ukuba eze "abaninzi 'intloko yakho, uya kubona i" yenguqu omlingo ". Unyango "bekhathalela", "kweyona nto ibiza", "oyithandayo" ukumnika ukuva oko ulonwabo, isisa kunye novuyo ndize kuni ngokunxulumene kulo. Unakho pick up a guy funny isiteketiso, njenge "Bear" okanye "kati". Kukusondela kuye, ngoko ke lumka xa yokusabela. Isiteketiso akufuneki zingakhubekisa. Okona kubalulekileyo, limnandi kuzo nobabini. Kulo mzekelo, akuyi kufuneka sizibuze ukuba, "kubizwa ngokuba njani ngobubele uMntu" - kuya kuvela igama yantle kubomi bemihla ngemihla ngokwako. Kwaye kolunga emehlweni suku ngaphezu kwesinye.