Indlela ukuxelela umama wam ukuba ixesha lam akazange eze?

"Owu, amantombazana, mna andazi ngawe, kodwa ukuba ingxaki: indlela ukuxelela umama ukuba ixesha lam akazange eze? Ngokomzimba, mina kwakhiwa imazi abadala, kwaye guy ke kukuba sisenza njalo ngesondo, kodwa ngandlel 'labaleka kude kube namhlanje. Ulibaziseko kweentsuku nje ezimbalwa, kodwa mna ndiyoyika ukuba "moya".

Nangona kunjalo, lo neentlobano lokugqibela ngesondo ngaphandle kwekhondom, kodwa wakwazi ekutsaleni lobudoda ukusuka ngaphambi kwilungu lobufazi ukuya mzuzu madlozi yakhe "agxothwe." Kuza kwenzeka ntoni ngoku? I-15 kuphela, yaye waba ngaphantsi. Ukuya ugqirha ukoyika nobugorha esirhesha? "

Ezi oogqirha bazi lukhulu yamabali, kodwa uthi kubo yesikolo ongenamava kuphela xa ukugula kusasa iqala ukungcungcuthekisa okanye isisu kukhula. Kufuneka wenze ntoni na kulutsha kuba umzimba uyabuza, kodwa intloko yam "hayi convolutions ngaphezu ezintandathu"? Icebiso mnye: ukuqalisa incoko kwi njengesifundo olusondeleyo phambi kokuba sexesheni ukubhengeza ngokwayo.

Ewe, amantombazana baphoxeke ngolo hlobo, kodwa elowo kubo Ungafumana indlela, kuba akukho bani owaziyo kakuhle umntwana wakhe, umama. Kufuneka uqale incoko ngaphandle yokuziphatha kunye nothando, ngenxa yokuba intombi yakhe.

Ngubani ofanele uye kumbuzo "Ndithi njani umama ukuba ixesha lam akazange eze?"

iintetho eyimfihlo ngezi zihloko enokwenziwa kwaye wengqondo ukuba akwazi ukwenza abahlobo kunye naye abe elivisayo phantse nentsapho. Kuya kuthatha ixesha nomonde, intombazana kutyhilwa umphefumlo ayikho owayeyintombi ngengqondo, ekwaziyo imvume okanye izaba kwikona imfihlelo yobudala bakhe, kodwa kuninzi ukuze ehleka kokwazisa piquant imeko ngaxeshanye kwisikolo sonke, yaye yena.

Ngoku thelekela ukuba bafumana blog ofunda naye, yena wabhala apho oku:

"Kodwa, ukuba ndithi njani umama ukuba ixesha lam akazange eze? Asiqondi okufanayo kuye ekhitshini xa ikhaphetshu iziqa isuphu, kwaye sho iindaba baya emnyango apho lowo omthandayo kusenokufuneka ubize inqwelo yezigulana. Oku kufuna indlela ethe, umzekelo, bafakwa udumo uvavanyo lokukhulelwa ngaphandle iziqwengana ezimbini lilishwa. Mhlawumbi uMama ndiyaqikelela ngokwakhe, ize kuqala ufuna ukuthetha?

Olu khetho, Kakade ke, efanelekileyo, ukuba ubuhlobo ngendlela enothando. Kungenjalo, kude kwihlazo kufutshane, kodwa mhlawumbi abazali pokrichat elincinane, uze ke, waqinisekisa, isigqibo ntoni? Ukususela endlwini, ngokuqinisekileyo, hayi makagxothwe: Enkosi, ukuba umthetho phezu ecaleni lam, uze uye ugqirha le nto imbi kangaka. Kunjalo ngaphandle umama akazange avume.

Yinto enokwenzeka, umgaqo, kwaye ubuxoki bokuba nyanga iintsuku 2 nje into, kodwa umntu kuphela oku kuya kuba lula? Ndandisoyika ukuya kwigumbi lokulala kubazali bakhe, kodwa nangakumbi ukuba bathinjwa yetyhefu, ngoko wonk 'ubani uya kwazi ukuba mna intombi kunye ngomnwe poke ekuqaleni.

I silinde ithutyana elide, mhlawumbi nje ulibaziseko? "

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