Iingcebiso ezibalulekileyo abazali abatsha, ukukhetha indlela indlwana ukuba kuzalwa

Itakane engazalwanga, kodwa umama wakhe sele liqalisa ngokuthe ukuxhobisa indlwane yayo. Yaye into enye yokuqala ukuvela kwixesha elizayo abantwana - its walala ukuba imvuthuluka. Ixesha elide futhi ngokucophelela abanyuliweyo. kuvela Iingxoxo kwiingxoxo womzekelo ethile ngamnye. Abanye abazali baye ixesha ukuphikisana kude malunga nalapho ukuthenga indlwana ukuze kuzalwa: uthungelwano enkulu, ngokusebenzisa i-Internet okanye ikhuphe umyalelo ngamnye kumasifundisane ifanitshala encinane. Impendulo engagungqiyo akukho, kwadala icebo eqhelekileyo yokuthenga.

Kodwa naphi na apho iyohluleka na ukuthengwa kwiimvuthuluka "ikhazi", kufuneka wazi ukuba ukhethe indlela yosana elifanelekileyo lokuba usana, wokuziphepha elizayo. Ayikho into ebaluleke ngaphezu ukhuseleko usana lwakho. Ngoko ke, simele sinikele ingqalelo izinto ezisetyenziswa ngumvelisi. Kulungile ukuba zincede zikhethe iinkuni zendalo. Le ngcina Ukubunjwa EAF iza ngokuthe zikhutshelwa emoyeni, yaye umphunga kunokusenzakalisa impilo yomntwana. Ezi mfuno kunye ukutyabeka. Ezinye iinkampani yokuvelisa, sikhumbula into yokuba abantwana baqalisa baziluma neentsimbi iyasazi nzima, xa Baza, bezinqumla zonke amazinyo yokuqala, ukuvelisa izingxobo ezikhethekileyo ukhuseleko.

Ngamanye amaxesha izalamane nabahlobo isigqibo ukunika abazali abatsha yonke into efunekayo kakhulu le nto umntwana, bathi sinyamekele zonke iingxaki yokufumana kuyo. Kwaye ngoku kufuneka silwe ukuze ukhethe indlela indlwana nje imali a yeentsana okukhulu ezahlukahlukeneyo modeli kwiikhathalogu.

Out of inkxalabo malunga nempilo oomama abatsha, khetha iinketho kunye imiphakamo emithathu ezantsi hlengiso. Ekubeni umama usoloko osimelela phezu kwebhedi, yaye emva koko akazange bamba, uya umthande ithuba ukuze uphakamise ezantsi eliphezulu. Ngoko, xa umntwana eqalisa ukuba ngenkuthalo mbole ecaleni layo, lo umatrasi uvikivwa yi lomvuzo elinye. Kwaye ngoko, kunye nophuhliso sana, kwaye kufikwa ukuya kwinqanaba lokuqala.

Indlela ukukhetha indlwana ukuba kuzalwa? Ngaba ndidinga umsebenzi gungqa? Okanye ngaba iyingozi? Ezinye bezifo musa Siyaleza kuthenga saso-pendulum, becaphula buthathaka inkqubo vestibular ihleli. Baya kuhamba malunga nokusekwa ebantwaneni lo mkhwa isifo motion, kodwa ubusuku ezimbalwa ochithe ngaphantsi rhoqo usana bedanduluka, oomama isingele phantsi nihlale yokufuna iingcebiso eziluncedo, usisilumko abasebenzi. Ngoko ke, ukusilela unakho ukuzichamela-sombane. Ingasetyenziswa njenge sinyikimisa ezalwa, yaye ukuba kuyimfuneko zokumisa ethintela pendulum esenza sibe elukhukweni eziqhelekileyo zokubhala.

Le ndoda encinane izinto ezininzi, ezo kulungiselelwe ukugcina iibhokisi. Indlela ukukhetha indlwana ukuba usana iziqalelo eyakhelwe-ngaphakathi ukuba usana wayengasaphefumli uthuli lokwandisa? Okokuqala, kufuneka kubekho umsantsa omkhulu phakathi bhokisi kunye ezantsi. Kaloku, ukuba isikhongozeli babonelelwa neqweqwe eyakhelwe-ngaphakathi. Kodwa ke kambe ukuba khangela esifubeni encinci nabakhi.

Umbuzo ezimbaxa kwisuntswana ukukhetha indlela indlwana ukuba usana, kufuna ingqalelo kungekuphela iinkcukacha, kodwa lubonisa ujonge ukuba usana elizayo. Khawuthelekelele pipsqueak yakho yokukhula nokufunda ukuze igaqele sele, yena ufuna inkululeko intshukumo, kukhuselekile ukuqalisa emityinweni ukubetha, njenge inkawu encinci, ukhwela nge nonyeliso. Ngoko ke, ukuba koyisa yakho zincopho yawa wazenzakalisa, kwangaphambili "lwakuba lwandile iindiza yakhe." Yanele ukuba uthenge indlwana aseludongeni ngaphambili elisusekayo ze ususe ezo.

Whichever ulale kungase owukhethileyo umntwana, okubaluleke - oku uthando lwakho uthando kumntu encinane lomthonyama kancinane.