Gns emngcwabeni - amava amawaka eminyaka

Funeral - into ebuhlungu kodwa akunakuphepheka. Ukufa bekusoloko engaqhelekanga, eyoyikisayo akunakuphepheka yayo, akunakwenzeka ukuba baqikelele ukuba yiyiphi na, ukuba umbundu yakhe? Mhlawumbi yiloo nto yomngcwabo, mhlawumbi ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na enye into, lingqongwe yi halo ngemiqondiso, imithetho, neenkolelo. Abantu bazama ukuba ukude abafileyo, ndisindise ubomi amanye amalungu entsapho. Le nkolelo usakhula ingenuous, umnqweno ukuphelisa engaziwayo eloyikekayo ngeyisekho namhlanje. Imilingo, ze zibe imithetho phantse olusisinyanzelo yezithethe.

Imfuneko lokuqala - qiniseka ukuvala isipili apho kukho umntu ofileyo. Kukholelwa ukuba umphefumlo angaya esipilini, ukuba ahlale ubomi apho. Iya zokoyikisa izalamane akayi kuba nako ukuphuma eli hlabathi.

Ngokutsho kwenye inguqulelo ukuba umntu ofileyo kubonisiwe esipilini, kubhaliwe "twinned" ukukhetha umntu evela abahlobo okanye izalamane zakho.

Iimpawu Funeral zinika kufuneka uvale amehlo akho ofileyo. Ngaphambili, kuye kwenziwa ngokusebenzisa dimes zobhedu namhlanje imali enkulu. Amehlo Vula lalowo ungasekhoyo, ookhokho bethu bakholwa, wakhangela ngaphandle nasezindlebeni ngubani ecaleni kufa.

Ukubona ongasekhoyo, kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba ubugcwabalalana ezimbalwa, itshefu, a ikama. Le amisiweyo, njengoko wacinga ngaphambili, uncedo ukuze soyise indlela ende eparadesi, ukuhlawulela stand kwendlela phambi uSomandla ngohlobo ebuka.

Kodwa imifanekiso zokuphila elingafanelekanga akanakubekwa kule bhokisi. Kungenjalo, baya kungcwatywa.

mntu uswelekileyo ngokuyimfuneko ahlambe ekulihlambululeni umzimba. Umphefumlo wazihlambulula ngokwayo oku kwi window imfuneko wethala ukubeka iglasi yamanzi. Kuya kuba ifonti umphefumlo.

Iimpawu ukunqanda ukungcwatywa umzimba ofileyo ahlambe abasetyhini abakhulelweyo okanye izalamane ezisondeleyo. Ababethwele simbi kakhulu musa ukuba izalamane igazi. Kungenjalo, umfi ugqiba ukuba ukufa kwakhe rada. Ngcono ukuba kuya kuba ngabahlobo nje okanye nezihlobo. isandla sabo ibe ngumqondiso yombulelo evela oswelekileyo, itawuli ebotshelelwe entsha, ngamanye amaxesha - kunye itshefu.

Apho ndlelantle abafileyo, ayikhuthazwa ukuhlamba okanye atshayele phantsi. Oku kwakukholelwa ukuba ngenxa yokuba abaphilayo kufa, "vymetutsya" abafileyo. Oko makwenziwe ngoko nangoko emva, xa ibhokisi endlwini ahlupheke. Table, apho kwakukho Domowina, flip, nesilili, umntu ofileyo, ulilahle kude.

Iimpawu emngcwabeni bayacetyiswa ngendlela abaqwalasela ngayo izinto, impahla womfi. iintsuku ezingamashumi amane ningayichukumisi; kwaye emva kokungena umphefumlo, zonke izinto ekufuneka ngokukhawuleza wabele amahlwempu, kunokubalelwa Cathedral, ibandla.

Phantse yonke imiqondiso emngcwabeni zijolise zeewadi abanye umonakalo onokubangela abantu abakhohlakeleyo usebenzisa izixhaso zomngcwabo.

Ngaphambi kokuba ubeke kwisidumbu ebhokisini, efanisa iingalo kunye nemilenze. Iyaqondakala ukusuka kwindawo mihla lwembono, kwisiko yayigqalwa indlela apho akasivumeli umzimba ofileyo ukuma, ukuhamba phezu komhlaba ukoyikisa abaphilayo. Phambi kokuba uvale isiciko ebhokisini, uze zinokuwehlisa kungena engcwabeni, iinyawo nezandla zakhe likhululwe.

Ezi iintambo nga ukuzisa umonakalo ekufeni, ngoko ke igqwirha okanye emnyama imihlola sisoloko sizama utshontsha intambo. Ukuthintela oku, faka i ad hoc obukeleyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku ixhegwazana, wayeqhelene izithethe.

Iimpawu kunye neenkolelo emngcwabeni xa eyalela ukuba baziphathe ngayo ngexesha isiko. Awukwazi anganyathela iitawuli, ezimisela ibhokisi ukusuka emangcwabeni ukuzisa naziphi na izinto, iintyatyambo. Xa bebuyela ekhaya, qiniseka ukuba ukususa izandla zakho kuyacetyiswa.

Awukwazi ukuwela indlela phambi umfi: uya kufa kungekudala kakhulu.

Kufuneka ukhumbule umfi ngemini yomngcwabo, ngomhla wethoba amane, isikhumbuzo.

Iimpawu emngcwabeni wambumba ukutyhubela iinkulungwane. Bona linegama amava visceral wokudla protocols. Abantu engazi okanye ukungabinako ukufumana ingcaciso imithetho yendalo, baphatheke indlela aziphathe ngayo nemeko enzima, ukuba sisebenze ngaphandle ikhosi yokuziphatha equlethwe kule ze amasiko.