Dream Ingcaciso: umfazi Pregnant amaphupho utshintsho kubomi

Enyanisweni, abaninzi abalinganiswa amaphupha abafundi bethu zitolika ngokuzimeleyo. Kusenokuba kube oluneenkcukacha njengoko eyenzelwe ngokukodwa le njongo yale ncwadi - downers, kodwa ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi. Ngokomzekelo, iphupha - umfazi okhulelweyo. Yeyiphi lisenokuthetha ukuba mlinganiswa? Mhlawumbi utshintsho ezizayo ebomini.

Enyanisweni, umfazi omithiyo ephupheni kwiimeko ezininzi umele nje utshintsho kubomi kuleyo ephupha, ingakumbi, ukuba - umntu. Kwezinye iimeko, kuthathelwa ingqalelo iimeko ezithile ezazihamba nomlinganiswa kunye nokusingqongileyo wakhe, iphupha kungase kusho, yaye isiganeko ayilunganga kakhulu.

Mandithathe ngenxa ukuthelekisa iikopi ezahlukeneyo eziliqela iincwadi, ezinxulumene isifundo sethu, makhe senze uhlalutyo lothelekiso kwaye bafunde inzuzo enkulu. Ngokomzekelo, khangela le Dvoryanskiy sonnik. Ibhinqa elikhulelweyo, Ukuba nithe nalixela iphupha yabantu, uthi kubo malunga utshintsho kwimicimbi yosapho. Sicingela ukuba olu tshintsho okulungileyo, ngenxa yokuba ukukhulelwa olungaphambi ukuvela kwi ngokukhanya ubomi obutsha njalo akuthandileyo.

Kwakhona, kanye inkqubo yokuzalwa unxulunyaniswa neengxaki ezithile kwaye nengcutheko, akunjalo na? Ngoko Incwadi ethi iphupha - umfazi omithiyo nalowo kuvunyelwa ukususela umthwalo lowo ukuzala ephupheni, yaxela iingxaki abanye okuqalisa amashishini. Ngokukodwa, kuphakama ubunzima ekupheleni indlela kwimeko ethile, sele ekupheleni kwayo. Ukuba mphuphi yindoda, waza waphupha ukuba akuko iziqhamo (konke kwenzeka ngamaphupha), koko ubomi bakhe iqala ixesha elitsha enxulumene kunye nezicwangciso amakhulu ebinazo ebomini uvelisa kutshanje.

njani le ncwadi phupha, umfazi omithiyo, ngalo ulele ebhedini - ukuba iphupha elungileyo, bethembisa utshintsho ezinqwenelekayo kwiinkalo ezahlukahlukeneyo zobomi. Kohl ndoda waphupha ukuba umfazi wazala umntwana, uthando lwakhe ngayo inyaniso nothando, yaye ufumana kubamba ingqalelo ethile umntu okumnandi. Ukuba umfazi uyaphupha ukuba uyakhulelwa, oko akuzange iingxaki zengqondo nje kunye nokoyika ukukhulelwa. Kwaye mhlawumbi, ngokuchasene noko, nomnqweno zophendlo lwezifo yokukhulelwa kwihlabathi lokwenene.

Mhlawumbi, kulo mzekelo, kufuneka usebenzise iinkonzo zeengcali entle entsimini ngengqondo. Kodwa ukuba mphuphi ubona omnye umfazi okhulelweyo, ngoko udla ngengqiqo ezintweni zonke, inkqubela, kwaye uqoqosho luya kuba ukuze. Le iphupha olubi amantombazana. Ndithetha ukuthi, ukuba waphupha ukuba ukhulelwe. Oku kuthetha ewolo. Ngubani na oya ukutshintsha alukhankanywanga, kodwa ezingemnandi.

Ayikho into entle namakhosikazi aselekhulile advanced engathembisi incwadi phupha. Pregnant, ingakumbi ukuba i-mphuphi ngokwakhe - ukuya ingozi yobomi bakhe. Lumka ezintweni zonke, ubuncinane okwethutyana. Imbi le mphuphi ubone ukuba azale. Xa uthando uya kufumana inkohliso endaweni ulonwabo, kwaye kwenzeka ebomini ngokubanzi into embi. Efanayo, okanye into eninzi ngaphezulu engendawo kwenzeka ngokoqobo, xa uphupha waziva wayezala yomgubo.

Emva koko sibe ukutyhilwa kwephupha mihla. Ibhinqa elikhulelweyo ngubani amaphupho oko okunene ekhulelwe, iingxelo ukuba zizale ngokoqobo kuya kuba lula, phantse ngaphandle iintlungu. Kwezinye iimeko, abafazi aphuphe izithembiso ayiphumelelanga umtshato kwixesha elizayo. Imbi ukuba amantombazana bona ngokwabo lwamaJuda inzala. Akakwazi ajamelene udumo obhityileyo, nyala.

Nanku omnye umthombo kuyo thina anakhangela okanye wabheka ezinqabileyo. ibizwa ngokuba "otolika ngo-1829". Apha, kugqalwa uphawu amaphupha ezithathwa uphawu elungileyo. Ngokukodwa, ukuba umntu odinga azibone ephupheni okhulelweyo, izityebi. Kodwa abantu abazizityebi iphupha uthembisa nto ilungileyo kwaye iprofeta ngokutshatyalaliswa, ubuhlwempu, ubuncinane inkathazo kwishishini, kwishishini.