Child ulwimi intlonti: izinto kunokwenzeka nokusombulula ingxaki

Umntu usebenzisa engcolileyo ukuze ize kuphoxisa kwaye kuyithoba interlocutor, umntu - ukuze ukongeza expressivity intetho kunye ubunzima, umntu - nje ngokufuna ukukhangeleka kwinkampani ethile kuye. Abanye abantu bethuka amahlazo azive akwamkelekanga ngokupheleleyo, ngoxa abanye musa ukufumana nantoni na ekhethekileyo wamkele nje njengenxalenye inkcubeko ethandwayo. Nangona kunjalo, kwiimeko ezininzi, kwaye bobabini bayavuma ukuba inhlamba Okwala abantwana. Ngawo onke amaxesha nakuzo zonke iinkcubeko, abantwana basoloko ezinxulumene into eqaqambileyo, ezihlambulukileyo, kwanamanyala, nkqu abawathandayo bangi kuwo zingabi njengento ecocekileyo.

Noko ke, ekubeni abantwana musani uhlala yedwa kwaye ekuhlaleni, singena intlonti engxoxweni zabo. Ngelishwa, mvanje abazali senze ngokwandileyo nesibakala sokuba umntwana ulwimi oluthukayo esikolweni. Kufuneka wenze ntoni kule meko? Kubalulekile ukuqonda oonobangela kwale meko, izizathu, ezenze ukuba umntwana ukusebenzisa ulwimi eyomeleleyo, yaye injongo ufuna ukufezekisa oku. Emva koko ke ngexesha elifanelekileyo, okuthambileyo kakuhle apha naphaya ukuziphatha kid.

I mothuko lokuqala

Ngoko ke, itakane bafunda nje ukuba bathethe. Uye ubunzima yokubiza amanye amagama. Kwaye ngoko, kunye nta esilavuzayo izandi ngokucacileyo igama ezingcolileyo okanye ibinzana. Abazali ndothuka! Ezinye iziganeko ungomnye meko zila. Okokuqala, ukuxhatshazwa kwabantwana kunye ngokungqongqo ithintele kuqhubeka awathethe amagama ezinjalo. Okwesibini, emva kokuba umothuko kuqala ekuqaleni ukuba kuhlekwe luvo, yaye ngoko ke ukuhleka ngokupheleleyo onyanisekileyo. Kulungile, kufuneka! Ngoko encinane, kodwa kakhulu! Kanjani cool! Kwi internet unako lula ukufumana okuninzi iividiyo izinto ngendlela abantwana kusetyenziswa ulwimi ezingcolileyo. Jokes yale hlobo athandwa kakhulu. Bathela abantwana babo kuboniswa obala ngakumbi rhoqo nabazali ngokwabo.

ambulensi

Yini na ke ukuba ulwimi oluthukayo encinane kid? Yintoni abamele bayenze abazali? Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba xa eneminyaka kwiminyaka emibini okanye emithathu, umntwana wakho nje awukwazi ukuqonda intsingiselo yala mazwi. Nje abantwana baqonde yonke into kubhabho kwaye zama ukusebenzisa ngoko nangoko. Kodwa ngeli thuba kufuneka bacinge apho onke usana weva amazwi anjalo. Ukuba intsapho yakho eqhelekileyo ukusebenzisa engcolileyo okanye uvumele kwiimeko ezinqabileyo, kodwa kuvumelekile, ngoko bazilungele kakuhle into yokuba kungekudala umntwana uza kulandela umzekelo wakho. Ngoko kuqala zonke kuyimfuneko ukuba esweni ukusulungeka intetho yakhe.

Ngaphezu koko, amabinzana ukutshabhisa umntwana encinci kuva abazalwana noodade okanye nabahlobo babo, iindwendwe, ukuba ukuhamba okanye TV. Hlalutya isangqa lwentlalo ubambe itakane engenabungozi ingozi "ukubamba" Amazwi emibi kuwe. Ukuba niye nakuva ukususela kulwimi lwakukhula iminyaka emibini, vele. Xa kungekho tyala musa usabele ngogonyamelo! Ingakumbi kulo mzekelo, ukuhleka iyingozi. Emva beqonda ukuba lumenza onwabe nawe, umntwana uya kuzama kwakhona kwaye kwakhona ukuba indlela abasabela ngayo. Ukuba akuyihlawuli ingqalelo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba umntwana kulilibala nje igama engaqhelekanga ukuba kuyo. Khumbula, nangona kunjalo, ukuba le ndlela isebenza kuphela kunye nabantwana ababini okanye iminyaka emithathu. Xa umntwana uyakhula, utshintsha nombono wayo. Kufuneka itshintshwe neenkqubo.

ezama ukulawula

Eneminyaka engama-kwiminyaka emithathu ukuya kwemihlanu umntwana anabo ulwimi ngabom intlonti. Ngokuqhelekileyo, akakazi ukuqonda ngokupheleleyo amaxabiso amagama asetyenziswa. Kodwa ke into yokuba la mazwi - embi, ukuba sele uyiqonda. Okubangel 'umdla kukuba, ukusetyenziswa inhlamba kunokuba kube uphawu ukuba umntwana kakhulu izama nangayiphi na indlela ukutsala ingqalelo yabazali. Indlela le meko elula ngokwaneleyo, kodwa logic abantwana okwenyaniso.

Khawucinge imeko elula ngemihla: Abazali egxile ngokupheleleyo inkxalabo malunga usana lwakho - ukuze ifidi ezikumgangatho ophezulu, ezingubeni ngexesha, enxibe kakuhle kwaye kuthenga zokudlala elungileyo. Kodwa nantsi into yokuba usana ngokwaneleyo ukuhlawula ixesha lobuqu, umgudu, njengoko umthetho, akukho ukuzikhethela. "Yiza yaye badlale", "ubukele umabonwakude", "baby mama uyadinwa ....". Kwaye ushiya lo mntwana. Kodwa ke umnqweno ukugxila iintsalela. Kwathi ngenye imini, wathi igama elitsha kraca, ufumana ingqalelo efunekayo! Kwiimeko eliphezulu kakhulu, umntwana akayi kuyeka na ke, bekuya kuba basabela nogonyamelo kunye isohlwayo. Ngaphezu kwako konke, ngoku uziva ukuba uMama noTata unomdla kubo.

Ukucacisa isimo

Njengoko kwimeko kwabantwana abaselula kakhulu, apha ke kubalulekile ukuba usabele ngogonyamelo kakhulu. Ndicela ukubuza apho umntwana akuweva la mazwi. Ekubeni le Isangqa zentlalo yobudala esandisa, umthombo inokuba umhlobo okanye ummelwane egadini. Thatha ujongo kakuhle basabela. Ngaba ukuba nolwalamano olukhethekileyo umntwana bathi? Mhlawumbi ke nangoku nje akayiqondi intsingiselo yamagama? Okanye umntwana lowo ulwimi oluthukayo ngabom, esazi ukuba le nto amanye amazwi ekhethekileyo?

Hlala phantsi cwaka, kwaye okona kubalulekileyo - ngqo ngentlonelo uchaze intsingiselo yala mazwi. Ndixelele izinto sebenzisa limele omnye. Ngaba amakhwenkwe elungileyo kunye namantombazana bafuna ukuba buhlungu nabahlobo babo? Kodwa ukuba abanye abantwana bathi kukuthi, mhlawumbi, besebancinci kakhulu kwaye ezihlambelayo zamaxhegokazi zimangale. Kwaye andazi ukuba ndithini. A ubudenge ukuphinda emva kokuba omnye ayikho imfuneko. Umama kunye notata andiyithandi loo nto.

Kakade ke, zama ukuchitha ixesha elininzi umntwana. Kulula kakhulu ukuba utyalo kulo elungileyo ngoku kunokuba ukuphelisa embi ngoko. Musa ukulibala ukuba ngeli Eselula, abantwana musani nje ukufunda ngokukhawuleza lonke ulwazi ongenayo. Ngaba ukuyilwa ubuntu, apho kwaye kufuneka uthabathe nesinye isahlulo ngqo.

iingxaki zezikolo zaseprayimari

Xa kid eliphezulu ulwimi junior angehli rhoqo ukuze bafumane udumo phakathi noontanga babo. Kodwa maxa wambi oko kunokuthi kwenzeke njengelinge ekukruqulayo abazali. Kule minyaka, umntwana sele wazi kakuhle ukuba loo locutions abazali ongayithandiyo. Kwaye ngesandla sakhe, kunokuba uhlobo beziphindezela ngenxa yokwala ukuba athenge into okanye isohlwayo.

Okunye isizathu unakho kulala abasabela ngayo abazali izenzo bomntwana. Ukuba abantwana yiva idilesi elithi "silima," "obangela", "isiyatha", ngoko ukuze ekukruqulayo abazali? baya kusebenzisa modeli yokuziphatha. Kakade ke, akuyi khangela isigama yakho imingcele.

Funda ukucinga intsingiselo yamagama

Endicinga ngayo nendlela izilumle umntwana bafunge, njalo ucazululo isimo sakhe sengqondo, indlela yakhe yokunxibelelana. Kwaye hayi kuphela umntwana, kodwa liqabane kunye namanye amalungu entsapho. Kuphephe izithuko ngamazwi kwincoko zabo kwaye musa khangela, ubuncinane abantwana, i-bhanya kunye series TV, apho le ndlela yonxibelelwano bayaboniswa bachazelwe akuyongozi nehlekisayo.

Ke kaloku, akuva ephuma emlonyeni zomfundi okungamanyala, cela ukuba achaze intsingiselo yegama. Kutheni awasebenzisa ngayo kwesi sivakalisi? uqhagamshelo ntoni? Kwaye kufuneka ukuba apho? Yaye kutheni yena? Qiniseka ngokupheleleyo. Vumela umntwana wakho abone ukuba alufumani yifuna iyothusa, kodwa koko, kubonakala nesmyshlonyshem osisiyatha.

Iinzame ukuwina ingqalelo

Xa ndandineminyaka engama-10-11 basoloko umntwana ufunga nokuwathuka esikolweni, bekhuphela ukuziphatha untanga okanye umfanekiso oqingqiweyo, nokuba omdlali, imbaleki, okanye omnye wabalinganiswa etsomo. Ngale ndlela yena uzama ukufumana ukuqondwa abahlobo babo ume ngaphandle esihlweleni. Zengqondo bakholelwa ukuba, ukusebenzisa bafunge amagama entetho, abantwana kudaleka amandla kungaqatshelwanga. Ngoko ke, ngokutsho kubo, abo ukuya amaqela ezemidlalo, alwa kwezinye uyithandayo okanye imisebenzi eyongezelelweyo leba kunokwenzeka kancinane ukuba basebenzise ulwimi oluthukayo. Noko ke, le datha impikiswano, ngoko bekungayi kuba bubulumko ukucinga ezongezelelweyo ilikhubalo umthwalo.

ukubaluleka wokuqonda

Ekulungiseni le ukuziphatha kunye nentetho umntwana, kubalulekile ukuqonda isizathu sokuba umntwana ufunga amahlazo. Ukuba unyana okanye intombi yakho, umntu ukuxelisa, zama ukuba akuhambise gqaba omnye umzekelo. Kwaye ukwenza oku kubalulekile, ngaphandle kinks. Qonda ukuba nomtsalane abantwana. Nesibindi? Savvy? Athandwa? Kubalulekile ukuqonda ebalulekileyo. Eqonda ukuba umntwana wakho uthanda, khetha umzekelo omhle. Oku kuya kuthatha ixesha, kodwa kulungile.

Kodwa kuthekani ukuba oko umnqweno embellish intetho yakhe? Kwenze ekhululekile kwaye oludlamkileyo? Bonisa ukuba ukusetyenziswa wokulwa kuphungula kuphela incoko. Nje ukuhlalutya ndawonye, njengoko oko kungqinwa ngokuthi kongezwe olungenasiphelo amabinzana ezingcolileyo. Kuyinto elula ukuba umntu abe hluleka. Gxininisa ukuba, ukuba wakubeka ngokuchanekileyo kwaye ngamafuphi, kunokuba luncedo ukuba ume ngaphandle kwintetho yakhe.

iingxaki elivisayo

Into enzima, kambe ke, intsha. Ukuba ukuqonda isizathu sokuba abantwana kusetyenziswa ulwimi ezingcolileyo, kulula kakhulu ukuba ukulungisa le ngxaki, akuyi kufuneka ukuba ulinde intsha ngeendlela ezilula. Bavakalelwa kakhulu abadala ezizimeleyo, yaye ngokufuthi Nokumphikisa bamane le nkqubo, imithetho esekwe, befuna ubungqina ukuzimela yayo somntu.

Nakuba kunjalo, kufanele sachaza ukuba njengomzali unayo yonke unelungelo lokubeka imithetho ekhayeni lakho. Kwaye elivisayo linyanzelekile ukuba bayithobele. Abazali ukuthintela ukusetyenziswa kolwimi phambi kwabo. Kwakhona, musa ukuba kuhambe ukuxelela malunga ngemvelaphi intetho enjalo. Kwathi ngexesha elifanayo ucele ukuba okanye hayi unyana okanye intombi yakho ifuna ukuba ezinxulumene nokusingqongileyo mthetho. Kungaba eqabuka.

Yintoni ukuba ukwenza

Ukuba umntwana ulwimi oluthukayo, zange kusabela ngogonyamelo kakhulu. Musa ukufaka ukuvalwa non-zizizathu. Qiniseka ukuba bachaze ukuba kutheni awufuni ukuva abathethise emlonyeni womntwana. Kwakhona, musa ukungena imigangatho kabini. Ukuba awukwazi ungabaqalekisi nabani, kwaye ngokufanayo kuyasebenza kuwe. Kwaye kuya kuba bubulumko ukuba ukuxela umntwana phambi kwabanye. Fumanisa zonke yedwa. Bonisa intlonipho iimvakalelo unyana okanye intombi. Ke uya kukwazi ukulindela ngokufanelekileyo ukuba baya kubonisa intlonelo kuwe.