Abazali kakhulu ukwazi: ukubala njani besini umntwana ngaphambi kokuba akheke?

I yomthendeleko lokuzalwa komntwana ahlale nto unknown Kungokwemvelo ukuba yonke into uYehova asinike. Nangona kunjalo, ubugcisa bale mihla kunye neendlela kuvumela abazoba abazali ukujonga umntwana wabo phambi kokuba azalwe, ukuze aqonde ukuba intombi okanye nonyana wabo. Ngoku, omama abaninzi sele inyanga 3 zokukhulelwa ultrasound angasifumani ngubani baya kuzalwa. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba ngubani oya kuzalwa xa ekumitheni akukenzeki? Njani kunokwenzeka oku? Eli nqaku liza kukufundisa indlela ukufumana isini usana lwakho ngaphambi kokuba akheke.

Ntombi okanye unyana?

Fumanisa besini umntwana kunokuba ngeendlela ezininzi: ukusuka intsomi yophando. Umzekelo, kunokwenzeka ukuba ukubala umhla wokuzalwa ngabazali, kwiqela igazi labo, kuba iimvavanyo ezahlukeneyo komama kwi Internet. Ngokusebenzisa inkqubo ekhethekileyo - ikhalityhuleyitha ekukhulelweni - ukubala ngesondo umntwana wokwenene kakhulu.

Indlela yokuqala ukujonga ukuba ngubani na oya kuba - nentombazana okanye inkwenkwe - yinto indlela yokuhlaziywa kwegazi. Ngokutsho data yenzululwazi, igazi kwabasetyhini ihlaziywa rhoqo emva kweminyaka emi-3, kwaye umntu - kanye kwiminyaka 4. Masithathe umzekelo omnye ukuqonda indlela esebenza ngayo le nkqubo. Umama wam engama-26 ubudala, kunye noTata 30. Thina ngeminyaka yabo ngumba, oko kukuthi umfazi xa umahlule ngo-3, ukufumana kangangoko 8 6 intsalela, kwaye umntu xa umahlule ngo 4, sifumana 7.5. Thelekisa amanani njengoko abanye yomfazi elide, oko kuthetha ukuba isibini kungenzeka ukuba intombazana. Ukuba ibhalansi ngaphezu Pope, ke ngoko, kusenokwenzeka ukuba abe ngunyana. Ukuba kwimeko yokubala amasalela wafumana umsebenzi ofanayo okanye ilingana zero, kusenokubakho ezimbini okanye kabini. Kubalulekile ukuthatha ingqalelo ilahleko igazi enkulu (ukusebenza, isiphoso) kwaye ke kufuneka ukuba Babengabalelani umhla yokuphulukana igazi. Indlela yesibini yokumisela ngesondo womntwana kubathandi ngeenkwenkwezi. Ngenxa ngale ndlela kwi umbuzo ukubala njani besini wosana phambi kwesisu, inyanga uya kusabela. Ukuze wenze oku, kufuneka ukuba wazi zavela basayine inyanga ngomhla xa kwenzeka isichumiso. Xa iyonke kukho 12 Imiqondiso ezulu, leyo inkunzi nemazi. Ngako oko, ukuba inyanga na umqondiso abafazi - owazalwa intombi, kwaye vice versa. Lendlela azingethathwa njengezisebenze ngokufanelekileyo kakhulu luncedo, kuba loo nto ayinakwenzeka ukumisela ukuba iperi amawele azalwe.

Enye indlela, esiza kuxubusha ngezantsi - yindlela kwiqela igazi.

Blood iqela yabazali ekumiseleni ngesondo umntwana

Kule ndlela, unako ukufunda nje kuphela ngesondo wosana, kodwa yintoni uhlobo lwegazi uya ilifa okanye kubazali babo. Ukuze kubalwe le ndlela, simele sikhumbule zekharityhulam yesikolo grade 11 biology. Khumbula, osombulule ingxaki lwemivundla yemfuza, ertyisi eziluhlaza kunye nezifo?

Makhe siqwalasele umzekelo, umama iqela igazi 2, kunye Pope mayibe 3 lwegazi. Okuthathwa le ngxaki. Ngokutsho komthetho Mendel kaThixo kunye indibanisela iqela yesibini neyesithathu igazi isibini abe umntwana naliphi iqela, kulo mzekelo i-50% amathuba lokuzala amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana.

Le ndlela ukubala isini usana phambi kwesisu, Kuyinto umdla, kuba unako zama ukubala nayo nayiphi na iqela lwegazi azalwe nguwe.

Ikhalenda wokukhulelwa

Enye indlela ngokwanelisayo lula ukufumanisa ukuba ngubani oya kuzalwa ngezibini - a ikhalenda ekumitheni, ukubala nesini wosana akuyi kuba nzima nakubani na. Ukuze ubone ngesondo umntwana ngale ndlela, kufuneka sibe ikhalenda iinyanga eziliqela, ebuhlanti obomvu, kunye noblowu, ngokukhuthazwa isimo. Ngokusisiseko, le ndlela isekelwe yokubala umhla ovulation kunye imihla elungileyo ukuze akheke.

Umama okhulelweyo ubona ithuba elinye ixesha exesheni ukuya elilandelayo, emalini umjikelo wayo, ezafumana iintsuku ezili-14 (ukususela ngomhla wokuqala wenyanga), kwaye umhla ovulation. Elo lixesha evumayo kwesisu. Emva koko, le khalenda siyenza imeko umfazi emva komhla okuthiwa kwesisu. Ukuba umfazi asitsala phezu esimnandi, oko intombazana, ukuba imuncu kunye ezinetyuwa, ngoko ke kuya kubakho inkwenkwe - mazwi unikwa imiqondiso yesizwe, apho nazo kusetyenziswa le ndlela.

isicwangciso Boy: ntoni ukwenza ntoni?

Ngoku, xa sibonile ukuba ngokufumanisa oya kuzalwa kwisibini, lixesha ukufumana phandle ukuba nomthelela isiphelo uze uzale inkwenkwe okanye intombazana. Khawucinge xa ngokwenene sibini ufuna unyana.

A Yaziwa kakuhle ukuba nesini umntwana ekukhulelweni imisela umntu, hayi kanye mandithi, impahla yayo yemfuza equlathe Y-chromosome nshita ezimbini X umfazi. Ukuze esi sibini wazalwa inkwenkwe, kufuneka ulandele le mithetho elula:

1. Ngokuchanekileyo ukubala umhla ovulation le.
2. Amadoda kufuneka banxibe yangaphantsi ebanzi iveki phambi kokuba neentlobano zesini ukuya amadlozi Velocity zanda. Le nyaniso kungenxa iimpawu komzimba kwenkqubo oyindoda okuzala.
3. Umfazi kufuneka konwaba phambi kwabantu.
4. uthando ezininzi ixesha excitation ubuninzi.
5. Kubhetele ukuba ukhethe indawo, xa indoda ngasemva.
6. Ekupheleni kwale ifom yokungenela ukhuphiswano kufuneka ibe namandla ngakumbi.
7. Ibhinqa emva neentlobano kufuneka phantsi ubuxoki kancinane.

Ukusebenzisa le migaqo, wena ukwandisa ithuba kumitha umfana.

Indlela ukukhawula intombazana?

Ngoku cinga imigaqo eza kunceda ukuphendula umbuzo ukuba ucwangciswe njani intombazana.

1. Ukukhulelwa kufuneka kwenzeke kwiintsuku ezi-3 phambi kokuba ovulation kulindeleke.
2. Ukusuka yesihlanu ukuya ngomhla wesibhozo neentlobano zesini kufuneka rhoqo (izihlandlo eziliqela ngosuku).
3. Kwiintsuku ezintathu ngaphambi kokuba sex ovulation kufuneka 1 ixesha ngosuku.
4. Kulungile ukusebenzisa isikhundla wevangeli.
5. ixesha lokuba umsa esingelwe phantsi.
6. Ekupheleni kwii akufunekanga ibe nzulu kakhulu.
7. Kuyimfuneko ukuba bayeke sex iintsuku ezi-3 elandelayo emva ovulation.

Ukusebenzisa le mithetho, uya kukwazi ukukhawula elide elindelwe umntwana oyintombazana.

Ngamafuphi

Ukususela nqaku, wafunda ukubala indlela ngesondo umntwana ngaphambi kokuba akhulelwe ziziphi iindlela onokukwenza ngayo oku. Ngoku ungakhetha indlela leyo ifana usapho lwakho. Kwaye ngoku uyazi ukuba ucwangciswe njani umsebenzi wesikolo kuba inkwenkwe nentombazana. Kodwa, enyanisweni, xa isibini ilinde ukuba umntwana elide-ilindelwe, abayi kusibekela ngubani baya kuba.