Sensation ekukhulelweni

Mhlawumbi, ngexesha ingxelo umfazi malunga nokukhulelwa, wayeziva iwaka iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo. Phakathi kwazo kukho uvuyo, yaye yintoni ukuba ukoyika, kwaye nkqu diffidence ethile. Ukuba ukukhulelwa eyayicwangciselwe, ngoko, Kakade ke, imvakalelo esiphambili okwangoku ulonwabo novuyo. Pregnancy buyifanele umfazi. Ngexa lokukhulelwa, oko ngakumbi ethe, esobukhomokazi. Nkqu loo ngxaki ngohlobo heartburn, okanye zinetyhefu, akakwazi ezonakalisa izivamvo.

Emva kokubeleka, ngokutsho-manani, abafazi abaninzi imibuzo emininzi. Kwaye oku kuyaqondakala. Ngapha koko, ubomi babo baya kutshintsha ngokukhethekileyo. Ukuqhelana ubomi obutsha, ukuba umfazi ukuze ancede loo ndoda. Kufuneka nje kuphela kunceda ekwandiseni usana, kodwa kuba inkxaso abafazi ngamaxesha anzima. Ingakumbi le nkxaso kuyimfuneko ukukhulelwa kanye. Eli xesha ngexesha elifanayo elona xesha kakhulu kubomi umfazi, omnye maxesha anzima. Ewe, ukukhulelwa ngokwayo ezihonjiswe umfazi. Kodwa le nto sifumana ekumitheni, musa ukudlula nayiphi amagama. Ngoko ke, ngexa lokukhulelwa, umfazi ufanele ukufumana ngenkxaso eziphathekayo yokuziphatha amadoda.

Kubaluleke kakhulu ngexesha lokukhulelwa, umama okhulelweyo na isimo. Lonke eli xesha, oko kufanele kube mnandi, eNamandla, kuphela ukuqaphela izinto ezintle ngeenxa zonke kuwe. Simele sikhumbule ukuba nayiphi na uxinezeleko okanye imo embi, kunokukuchaphazela kakubi olungekazalwa. Ntshikilelo ayingozi ingakumbi ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Kungenxa yoko le nto umntu kufuneka akhusele loo ntokazi naziphi na iinkcukacha ezingalunganga. Oku imfihlelo ukukhulelwa sonwabe.

Kwaye nomawukwenze xa umsebenzi uza ukuqala? Yintoni kukho iimpawu ukuya komntwana? Ngumqondiso ophambili womntu ohlaselwe ukuya ekubelekeni, i Ukumka fluid. Loo inkqubo akukho azinampembelelo ukukhulelwa kunye ndingekazalwa, nangona kunjalo, lo ngowona msebenzi ophambili, nto leyo ibonisa ukuba abasetyhini kungenzeka ukuba azale. Ngenxa yokuba ukhuseleko olukhusela usana ukususela ekusulelekeni ibhuqiwe, kukho imfuno engxamisekileyo ukuthatha umfazi esibhedlele. Ngamaxesha anjalo, kuhle ukuba ukhethe oogqirha zakhe oqeqeshiweyo. Kubalulekile ngexesha lokuzalwa, kuba umbala fluid. Ngoko ke, jonga kwi kuye. Ukuba ithinti sakuba okanye omthubi, ngoko nina nonke emihle. Ukuba kukho umbala oluhlaza, ngoko qiniseka ukuba wazise ugqirha wakho. Isibakala sokuba namona eluhlaza ibonisa ukuba umbungu ayikho umoya ngokwaneleyo. Kwimeko enjalo kuyimfuneko ukwenza yonke into umntwana ozelwe ngokukhawuleza kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Kwaye yenza kungaba amagqirha kuphela.

Ziziphi izigqibo ntoni kuko konke oku? Ekubeni umfazi ikwalubizo elikhulu enjalo nokuzala, indoda unyanzelekile ukuba ugcine ngeenxa ukuba amncede. Kakade ke, akukho mntu uthi madoda musani ukwenza nto. Ngapha koko, ngaphandle kwabo, enyanisweni, bekuya kuba akukho nto. Kodwa mission eziphambili kusenjalo umfazi. Ngapha koko, kufuneka uye kuyo yonke intlungu nokubandezeleka ukwenzela ukunika kuzala, kwaye kwixesha elizayo ukunyusa Sonwabile eyingqondi, ngaphezu kwako konke, usana enempilo.