Ngayiphi imibuzo okuya ibuzwe intombazana

Yiyiphi imibuzo enokubuzwa intombazana ukuba ayithandayo na? Indlela ukuqala incoko naye? Indlela ukukhokela yakho incoko kwicala elifanelekileyo kwaye ukuba sikwazi ukufumana amazwi ekunene kwintlanganiso yokuqala? Yonke le mibuzo musa kukunika uxolo lwengqondo. Ngoko ke yintoni na ukuba intlanganiso yokuqala kunye intombazana akazange ukusilela kwakho? Kuyimfuneko ukwenza le ntombazana andinakuyilibala. Ngoko ke, amanye amacebiso ngayiphi imibuzo kufuneka ucele amantombazana ngomhla wokuqala, siza kuqwalasela.

uqeqesho

Kuqala kwinto zonke, akukho mfuneko ukudlala. Yiba wena, mntu nentembelo - kusoloko undoqo kwimpumelelo. Ngokubuza imibuzo, qiniseka ukuba bakhangele emehlweni akhe, ngenxa yokuba onke amantombazana ndiyamthanda iinkokheli. Zama ukudala imo elungileyo ebuza imibuzo sokuthomalalisa i bhalo umdla. Kusenokwenzeka nokuba kule pozhestikulirovat encinane. Ubulula ukuqaqamba ingxoxo yakho kuvumela intombazana ukuphumla. Yenza njalo ukuba ivuyela iincoko. Kungekudala emva koko, ukuba unxibelelwano lwakho ukhululekile, musa ukuba ucinga ngento imibuzo kufuneka ucele le ntombazana, yonke into iya kuza engqondweni ngokwayo.

Bekuya kuba mnandi ukuqalisa kukucela intombazana ukusebenza. Lo mbuzo kuya kukunceda ukuba uqale yakho incoko evela kude, ngaphandle kokuyifunda ebomini bakhe buqu, kwaye iza kuvumela ukuba ugcine umgama ethile. Impendulo yalo mbuzo mhlawumbi ukutsala kunye ukuba uya kukuxelela lonke ibali malunga Valery, Kwanovuma phantsi ngomoya wakhe, yaye Irina, intombi egama kungekudala uza kutshata, okanye, icala, onale umgama ngakumbi, ukuba iimpendulo ziya kuba owomileyo monosyllabic .

Unga kwakhona ukusombulula umbandela izilwanyana. Ukuba sakho intombazana kukho ikati okanye parrot, okanye eyona i Hamster, ngoko cinga wena nethamsanqa, kuba izilwanyana kunye kangangoko abantu ndawonye. Okukhona ukuba wena ndibahlisele esi sihloko. Ndikholelwe, amantombazana ungathanda ukuthetha malunga izilwanyana zabo kangangeeyure, ngoko kuya kuba yinto ukukhumbula.

unxibelelwano

Ngoko ke, wena ndicinge ukuba ngubani na Irina kunye umbala nomsila inja yakho ntombazana. Ngoku xelela kakuhle ngeziqu zabo, into engundoqo kukuba - musa ukubonisa ngaphandle, ngenxa yokuba la mantombazana ukwenza ayinjalo. Ukuze uqonde ukuba yintoni imibuzo ungabuza intombazana akunyanzelekanga supermacho. Zama ukuba nje nobubele novelwano. Yaye nayiphi na imeko, musa andimxeleli malunga iinoveli zakhe zangaphambili, njengoko oku kuya ukunivalela kuphela omnye komnye. Ukuba omnye imibuzo impendulo kwaye ingalandelwa, akukho mfuneko ukuba inyanzelise kuyo, kungcono ukuba switsha kweyahlukileyo umxholo. Ukuba intombazana ufuna ukuthetha into ethile, ngoko yena uzixelela.

Omnye iimpazamo ezinkulu guys ezininzi - oku ibali malunga neengxaki zabo. Ukwenza njalo akuyomfuneko oko; ngokuba ukhuseleko - yinto plus omkhulu, ngoxa ukuba nesoka lowo iingxaki okuqhubekayo, nto nje akunakwenzeka. Kodwa umntu obuthathaka onke amaphupha ndingumfazi yoluntu.

Akukho mfuneko ukusebenzisa amabinzana incoko eqhelekileyo. Inzala inokuba yiyo nayiphi ntombazana. Zama ukuba emxelela malunga nayiphi na ubuhle babo. Eyona nto iphambili incoko yakho - kukuba ukuba uyolo kuyo, kunokuba ilahle ingeyanto, nje ukugcina ingxoxo. Nezincomo kwakunye kunokwenzeka ngqo yakho incoko kwicala elifanelekileyo. Phambi kokuba uqonde ukuba yintoni imibuzo ungabuza intombazana, cela ukuba aze aphendule ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba akukho namnye kubo into ndikubeke ekupheleni ofileyo, uze wenze yonke into kakuhle.

Ngoko ke, masikhe zishwankathela. Yiyiphi imibuzo enokubuzwa intombazana kwi ngosuku lokuqala? Malunga emsebenzini, malunga izilwanyana ozithandayo, malunga inkanuko, malunga nezicwangciso zexesha elizayo kwaye kakhulu ngakumbi. Kodwa simele sikhumbule ukuba imibuzo kufuneka ibe kakhulu ezichanekileyo, ukuba siphephe buhlungu hayi zokoyikisa intombazana. Kwaye, ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbi lo ntlanganiso iya kuba nguwe na inyathelo ngqa ukungena ubomi entsha, leyo kuthiwa umtshato.