Kutheni liphupha inkwenkwe, njengoko incwadi iphupha?

Qho ebusuku, nokulala, sibonelela ihlabathi kunye nokukwazi lethu ienjini "amandla" kunye nathi, ukuba asinike ezinye iinkcukacha ezibalulekileyo. Sithetha amaphupha ethu. Kodwa ukuze ziqonde kubo akusoloko kulula oko. Ngoko ke, siza kubanceda downers. Kakade ke, uyikholelwa okanye hayi - ukhetho ngowakho. Ngapha koko, njengoko abathile incwadi zangaphandle uyakwazi ukuchaza oko kwenzeka ebomini bakho kunye neengcinga zenu? Ingakumbi ukuba uthathe ingqalelo kuwe into yokuba uqikelelo elifanayo kwi inani elikhulu labantu. Noko ke, le ncwadi iphupha kwindawo yokuqala ezenzelwe ukuba ukuchaza imeko ekhoyo ubomi. Udlala indima ngengqondo ncwadi. Ngoko ke, ukuze aqhelane ukuze ziqonde ukuba amaphupha akho akayi kuba nesilima, kodwa musa kuhlala phezu kuqikellelo ezimbi.

Kodwa namhlanje sicinga umzekelo eziphathekayo echaza imibono, ezizezi impendulo kumbuzo ngento inkwenkwe iphupha.

utoliko Inkoliso amathumba phantsi ingcamango yokuba ukubona umntwana oyindoda - uphawu oluvumelanayo. Ukuba kukho inkwenkwe encinane, phambi ukuwuqonda lo mbono, makhe ukuchaza njalo, wenza oku ngqo kunye nobomi bakho xa mzuzu kungenxa. Ngaba ulindele umntwana, andifuni ukuba ukhulelwe? Ukuba le ndawo ngokwenene 'ngaphakathi' kwaye sele uyazi ukuba uya kuzalwa nje umnumzana encinane, okanye elinde, bekuya kuba yena, kusenokwenzeka ukuba iphupha lakho yinto ekhethekileyo. Kutheni liphupha inkwenkwe kwimeko yakho? Loo mbono ibonisa kuphela iingcinga neemvakalelo zakho, ingqondo yakho simulates imeko ocinga. Kodwa masibone ngoku, oko kuthetha ntoni ukuba inkwenkwe baphupha intombazana akalindelanga abantwana kwixa elizayo.

Intombazana wabona iphupha ukuba kungekudala ilindela abazana oluhle mfana okanye inzuzo yemali. Yintoni iphupha boy ochwayitileyo, evuya? Lo mfanekiso kubonwa kuphawu oluhle kakhulu - indoda elindele inkqubela luck ekhethekileyo kwezoshishino kunye nolonwabo. Xa uphupha ukuba badlale mntwana, ingakumbi lowo obona lo mfanekiso, ngoko oko kuza kungekudala kuza wagqwesa ukukhanya ebomini, ngxaki iza kusonjululwa, iimbono kunye namanyathelo ziya kuqhama ebomini kuya kuphuma kakuhle izinzile. Noko ke, ukuba umntwana embonweni yakho edanduluka, bakhathazekile, ukuthetha, kufuneka uqwalasele inkunkuma yabo, ngokuba ubunzima zemali kunokwenzeka. Kuthetha ukuthini ukuba iphupha yenkwenkwe nochuku? Le mbono kubonwa njengophawu ukuba angadibana nenkathazo evela kubahlobo, ekusenokwenzeka ukuba waziva usondele yaye athembeke. Kodwa ukuba ngoko ungabona ukohlwaya inkwenkwe, cinga indlela oku kusisilumkiso - kufuneka Akunqatyelwa ngenxa iimvakalelo ungafumana ibe imeko nzima yaye ezingemnandi.

Kwakhona umdla into amaphupho kwinkwenkwe wena. Oko kukuthi, ukuba kuvele itakane kancinane. incwadi Dream lihlolisisa lo mba ukusuka kwindawo nje engqondweni ngayo. Kuba indoda njengephupha kuthetha ubunzima ekusombululeni iingxaki kunye nomnqweno iphindile encinane; ngokuba namantombazana - iingxaki kwinkcazelo ubomi bentsapho, nzima ukulungisa imiba ephathelele umtshato.