Kutheni liphupha ibhiya ephupheni?

Amaxesha amaninzi sibe amaphupha, thina nje asikwazi ukufumana ingcaciso emva kokuthi, kuba le meko ngokwalo, isukela kubo, kubonakala namanwele njengempambano ngamampunge. Apha, umzekelo, yintoni uphuphe ibhiya phupha? Asililo na eli isanga yesiqhelo bazikhohlisa, apho ubomi bakhe bonke thina uphupha amawaka? Enyanisweni, ukuba ukhangela nje ezimbalwa iphupha-iincwadi kwaye uthelekise iinkcukacha amaphupha akho, ungafunda into iphupha ukuba basele utywala ephupheni.

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Amaxesha amaninzi, sifun malunga iphupha elingaqhelekanga, ndivuka ndicinga: "prividilos ngolo hlobo", yaye ngamnye kubo sibhekisela iqela amaphupha abuxoki, yicinge loo nto, waphupha elinye bububhanxa. Abantu abaninzi dream umqombothi sibonile, kwaye oku iphupha abonwabileyo linxila, akukho amele umnqweno eyoyikekayo basele abantu. Kutheni liphupha ibhiya ephupheni? Ukuba usela utywala, kodwa musa ukukhangela kuyo evenkileni hayi ezandleni zenu, akuthembisi ukugula okanye ibhadi. Kwimeko engcono - ukunganeliseki okanye ukusilela kwezoshishino abanye abasanda iqalisiwe. Emva koko siye kulala iinkcukacha. Ukuba usela le isiselo kwi bar, ngoko nilindele ukuphoxeka. Kwaye uya kuba yintoni badane - ucinga wena, into neemvakalelo ezingakhiyo kunokuba kunye nomsebenzi kunye namashishini, yaye ubudlelwane bothando, kwaye maxa wambi ubomi yonke! Ukuba utyelela Morpheus ungabona, ke musa ukusela, usele utywala enye, abantu baxhontele kuwe, ngoko ke kufuneka woyike nomdla kwimicimbi yabanye abantu, kuba kudla ngokwenzeka ukuba, emva kokufunda yokuphumelela omnye umntu kulo ndawo thina, qala phantsi wena, Ungakhathazeki malunga luck yabo. Xa uphupha na ukusela amagwebu kunye nabahlobo bakho kwinkampani fun, iincoko iziqhulo, uyazi - it utshayelela ukufika kukuba i ukonqena emangalisayo, ukuba usele nawe onke amandla ebalulekileyo. Musa ukuvumela umphefumlo uyonqena, ngokuba umphefumlo, njengoko Z waziva enyanzelekile ukuba asebenze ubusuku nemini kunye.

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Imeko yam ayiniki themba ukutolikwa embi, rhoqo downers ochasene - akukho into uthembisa ukungaphumeleli, isikakhulu yesi into yovuyo kunye ochwayithileyo. Njani oko ibhiya iphupha uyazi? On iinkcukacha! Apha, umzekelo, incwadi iphupha Freud kaThixo, umhlaziyi omkhulu lonke ixesha, uthe ebona ibhiya xa ulele - ekhulelwe okanye mandithi ukuzalwa abantwana. Ukuba ukhulelwe kwaye musa sijonge ukuba abantwana ubuncinane esinye isibini kweminyaka, umntwana uya kuba omnye wabahlobo bakho. Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo wabona ibhiya amagwebu, kodwa sipped kuwo, unokuqiniseka ukuba ukukhulelwa ulungile, umntwana oya kuzalwa esempilweni. Ukuba phupho ubona umntu, ithetha umnqweno wakhe ngesondo.

Kaninzi abantu babone ngamaphupha yindlela basele utywala, nangona ubomi ayikho intlonelo enkulu kule eselwayo. Yintoni iphupha ukusela ibhiya? Xa uphupha ngayo utywala iphupha umntu, ngoko kusenokwenzeka ukuba aqonde ukuba umntu ukulungele ukutshata, ukuba umfazi, oko kukuthi, phezu koko, akazange "ukuhamba" kwaye ufuna into bumane kwi ubuhlobo.

Dream Ukutolikwa Vanga

Wang - a clairvoyant odumileyo Bulgarian, leyo kuthiwa iingqikelelo ezininzi. Abantu beza kuye de kwasa ekufeni kwakhe ngowe-1996, wacela uncedo, kwaye wayengakwazi ukwala. Kwakhona, ebudeni yomphefumlo mfazi uye waba ixesha ukubhala lakho iphupha-ncwadi, kuba ayekholelwa ukuba umbono yonke ebusuku ihambisana ezinye uhlobo umxholo yesemantiki. ibhiya elichithwayo ephupheni uthembisa uthotho zemvula njengomlambo uphelayo lembandezelo. Ukusela ezinxilisayo ephupheni uthembisa umhlobo emnandi omtsha okanye uvuyo engalindelekanga. Ukuba ubona imagi yebhiya turbid, kufuneka anqande ikhwele kwakhe ayeke wayethembe ukuba, mgaqo, akunakwenzeka, okanye ezithwaxwa ngqiqweni oyilindeleyo inokuba ukhohlakele kakhulu.

Yiba ingqalelo iinkcukacha, akukho mfuneko yokuba ukucinga ngaphandle iphupha, okanye ilungelo ukuqonda ukuba amaphupha utywala, kuya kuba kwakungenzeki kwaphela.

Ndifanele ndikholelwe dream iincwadi?

Ukulala - le mfihlelo inkulu, nto leyo isonjululwe ngokupheleleyo ngabantu bonke ebusuku, siya gxwa ehlabathini amaphupha, kodwa musa khumbula imiso yonke, saba iphupha okanye khumbula ngokwalo jikelele. Kutheni le nto isenzeka? Kungenxa yokuba thina kancinane ulibele iphupha, okanye wenza ngokupheleleyo ezinye iinkcukacha, oko kukuba utshayelela kuba yintoni na yimpumelelo. Ngoko ke, oko kanye ukuba baqiniseke kwincwadi yeempendulo iphupha lo mbuzo: yintoni amaphupha ukusela utywala, wena awukwazi. Njengoko bathi iisayikholojisti ezininzi izazinzulu, le ncwadi ugqithayo kuphela ukuba ezinye iingcamango, yenza ukutshintsha into ebomini babo, kwaye isigqibo malunga nokuba ukuphulaphula okanye hayi - kuwe.

Xa uvuka makaqonde ukuba awuyazi into amaphupho utywala, khangela nje kwincwadi iphupha, kodwa uzilibale izinto ezibalulekileyo ezinokuthi kuchaphazela umgangatho ukutyhilwa kwephupha elo.