Kufuneka ibe yintoni intlawuliso umntwana

Abazali ukususela ebuntwaneni kufuneka afundise usana lwakho ukwenza imithambo. Yinto kuluncedo kakhulu, kwaye ngexesha elandelayo umntwana nje "enkosi" imigudu enjalo umama notata.

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Bonke abazali kufuneka siqonde ukuba kwemali umntwana - yinto yokuzonwabisa iluncedo kakhulu. Ngoko ke kungcono esemncinane ukwenza kucace ukuba umntwana ukusebenzisa - yinxalenye yobomi wonke umntu. Kodwa ukuba njani ekunene, ukuba umntwana akafuni ungenakuwuxhalabela kusasa? Yinto elula: Abazali kufuneka wamisela umzekelo umntwana wakhe. Kuphela mama izenzo ezilandelayo notata, umntwana uya kuqonda ukuba abize - oku kubaluleke kakhulu. Ufuna kuba uyonqena ukubonisa umzekelo wosana kwaye hayi ukuba afune ukuzithethelela njenge "umama wayedla wema kunye womserbia sele yenziwe." Ukusebenza ngokubambisana, itakane ngokukhawuleza ukukuqhela kusasa umthambo.

Yintoni ukwenza ntoni?

Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba intlawulo yabantwana iminyaka emi-3 ubudala yaye umntwana oneminyaka engama-10 ubudala ziya kwahluka kakhulu. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ukukhetha iseti ekunene beemvavanyo ukuba ayiloncedo kuphela, kodwa umdla umntwana. Kuphela xa izibane menye inzala, ngoko ke iziphumo emehlweni usana kuba HIV. Ukuba usana akukho okunomdla ukuqalisa ukwenza imithambo - yonke imigudu, kungekudala uya kuba sodwa, asinto zanto.

Yintoni ukuba ukulibala

Akhona eXcellent ukhetho ukuze umdla umntwana, siziindleko somculo ebantwaneni. Zonke iintshukumo kungenziwa ukhatshwa ngumculo, kukwakho iingoma abantwana ezizodwa kaThixo, apho umntwana sele ukuba mnandi ebonisa ukuba utsibe indlela efanelekileyo okanye izibambo ujingi. Kuyimfuneko ukuba silibale ngayo kwizifundo ancedisayo afana nala, umzekelo, intethe-ibhola, umntwana uya kuba ngawo umdla kakhulu ngakumbi axhume okanye ukushushubeza, umgangatho nako ukubeka ekhukweni okanye into ethambileyo ukwenza kube bekhululekile ngakumbi. Amantombi kunikelwa ezandleni neeribhoni nabo baya kuba kakhulu umdla sokujingajinga izibambo ngakumbi. Kwaye njalo-njalo, iinketho ngokwenene ezininzi, kunye neemfuno zomntwana, esazi mkhuba, akukho nzima.

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Kubalulekile ukuba sikhumbule ukuba sentlawulo umntwana kufuneka bonwabe. Kuthetha ukuthini? Usana kufuneka ukhululekile ukwenza iintshukumo ezithile, asifanele kuyakukuqhwalelisa iimpahla. Ngoko ke, umthambo elungileyo ngoko nangoko emva ubuthongo, umntwana uza kuba nako ukwenza zonke ezimfutshane kunye T-shirt. Ukuba akuzange kube kudala ngaphambi kokuba umntwana kubhetele ukuba akhulule ibhulukhwe okanye iziketi elifutshane, kwakunye elula T-shirt. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba usana wokufudumeza ngokukhawuleza, ngoko ke kufuneka kube shushu ngenxa enxibe ilokhwe.

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Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba intlawuliso umntwana iqulathe izigaba ezininzi. Ngoko ke, kuqala kukho eshushu-up, xa umntwana ukufudumala izihlunu, esotha phezulu, ivusa. Oku kulandelwa ashushu-up - ngakumbi kakhulu, kodwa ke ukuza kuthi ga ngoku hayi xesha ukuyibiza kakhulu esebenzayo, xa uhamba kunokwenziwa kwi ndawo, umntwana stupanie eminweni, izithende, amacala ezahlukeneyo unyawo. Okulandelayo iya kufika nxalenye ebonakalayo isigxina, nto leyo ifanele ibe umthwalo onke amaqela kwezihlunu wosana. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba isimangalo Akakhathali, kodwa kneads kuphela umntwana, kumnceda ukuba bavuke baze beze ithoni. Igcina intlawulo ezolile umntwana wendiza izandla, ehamba phezu ndawo ukubazolisa umzimba.