Indlela ukufumanisa umonakalo kuwe

Xa iintshaba kunye nabagxeki, ungafumana ukuba umonakalo okanye iliso ububi. Yiba ngokuxhomekeke umonakalo nawuphi na umntu, kodwa ukuba ijolise enonjongo balahle yempembelelo omlingo ezinzima. Kufuneka wazi ukuba ukujonga indlela umonakalo kubo kunye nabo babathandayo, kodwa siya kwenza ubhukisho ngoko nangoko ukuba igqirha kuphela ngokuchanekileyo nangokupheleleyo imisela ukuba uhlobo umonakalo siwiswa, yaye ngubani.

Iindlela ukujonga indlela umonakalo ukuba kuqwalaselwa efana self ngaphambi kokuba aye esibhedlele. Wena ngenkankulu kakuhle waphilisa ngokwazo okanye akwazi ukubeka isifo, kodwa ungakhankanya ezinye iimpawu ukuba lixesha lokuba afune uncedo.

Enye iimpawu eziphambili umonakalo - isimo sakho ebandleni. abantu oniwe ngenkankulu na omelana inkonzo weyisayo ubuthathaka kunye yawning yayo, abanye bade Watyhafa phakathi ecaweni. Ukuba abasibaneki isibane, wazingcwalisa ngokwabo ukuwela kuyo, uphawu lomonakalo amadangatye lanqanqaza kunye ukuvela uthuthu lweziko emnyama. umonakalo ezimandundu ebangela ikhandlela kucinywa.

Ngoko ukujonga indlela umonakalo ebudeni bokuhlala kwabo ebandleni, awukwazi kusoloko ukuphendula uthotho lwemibuzo:

• Ngaba kwenzeka ukuva amavumba "indawo" ukuva ingxolo wasemzini indlu, ephawula kwikona iliso amanani engabonakali?
• Uba ngesiquphe ubunzima bomzimba, buhlungu sifo engaziwa, lokufunyaniswa apho oogqirha abakwazi icace?
• Ngaba uthwaxwa amabi, uloyiko nasihlahla nakukulindela into embi kwaye ayaziwa?
• Ingaba unayo ingxaki ujonge kwi ukubonakaliswa bayo esipilini?
• Musa ukucinga ukuba niyakwenza oko, kwaye luck?

Uyacengeka okanye ethathwa yi Ndingumphambukeli "embi" site umonakalo. Ukuba bahlole ukuba ngaba awusifumananga umonakalo, akukho mfuneko ezenzelwe wena? iimpawu zayo kuyafana nje eqhelekileyo kodwa kuvela emva isiganeko esithile okanye utyelele indawo ethile. Ukuze Unokuzikhusela kwinkohlakalo umonakalo ngengozi, mabalandele ezo zikhokelo.

Okokuqala, musa ukuzama usike kude utshintsho komhlaba. Maxa wambi nkqu zemali ezincinane ziqatywe amagama ekhethekileyo emnqamlezweni ihlabathi okanye amanye amanani zobugqi ukugqithisa umonakalo.

Okwesibini, kufutshane emangcwabeni okanye ibandla kufuneka sibheke emva xa obuya umntu ongamaziyo. Awunakho ukuphendula le mibuzo, ukuba umntu ongamaziyo ngaphandle nqu kuqala.

Okwesithathu, ukulandela imigaqo yokuziphatha kufutshane emangcwabeni okanye ibandla. Babhaptizwa ekungeneni kunye uphume ibandla, musa ukuthetha ngokuvakalayo nokuba kufutshane kwezi ndawo, musa ukuchukumisa izinto zabanye abantu, nje ukuba ubone.

We wathetha nje ngokufutshane, ukujonga ukuba izixa-umonakalo ngokwakho. Kukho izithethe ezikhethekileyo kunye nokuvumisa, ezifana thaca iqanda, apho iimpawu umonakalo kuvela. Ukuba ezibuza ngamanye amaxesha wena kwimaphu, umonakalo akayi kuvumela ukuba ukuqikelela isiphelo - ikhadi kuya kuzo eziphikisanayo okanye ezingahambelaniyo imeko zidityaniswe, le meko iya kubakho umbala Incopho okanye ndikuxhase ngento amakrele (ukuba ukuba uyazibuza kwi ukubhula).

Ethetha a izangoma okanye ugqirha igqwirha okwaziyo ukumisela indlela umonakalo ukuba ukhankanye okanye ukuphikisa ezibaxhalabisayo zabo. Ngamanye amaxesha phambi umonakalo babona abantu apho konakalisa wena okanye ikamva lakho ukuze yande izono.