Isipho umntu omthandayo ngezandla zakho - yintoni ibe ngcono?

iimveliso ezenziwe baziswa kakhulu ngawo onke amaxesha. Namhlanje, le nkqubo ibizwa ngokuba igama u- "hendmeyd", yaye kuphela isiqingatha senkulungwane eyadlulayo bayibiza womluki. Yinto akukho mfihlakalo ukuba nabalulamileyo xa uqala kuqala, into encinane, umzekelo, wenza isipho kuba umntu omthandayo ngezandla zabo, iphatha elibukhali amandla Amazing HIV, u nga nokuba uthi ukuba inxalenye olungisiweyo komphefumlo kuyo, yaye lo, eneneni, ukwenza oko.

Ukususela ngoko, omabini ngecala ezishelifini ukugcina kunye neemarike wabona kwathontelana kwempahla ezahlukahlukeneyo sele wehlile, kunye nemfuneko yongxamiseko izinto, eyakhe. Kuba baninzi abafazi isipho inkwenkwe ngezandla zakhe baqalisa ukuba sibonakale amazwi yexesha elidlulileyo, ngoxa abaninzi needlewoman ihlehlise kwiiklasi eqhelekileyo ukuba angenelwe yempucuko. Noko ke, njengokuba sisazi, fashion usoloko ebuya, kwaye mzuzu liqulunqe lonke neshishini, igalelo ukuvuselelwa ubugcisa bokuyila.

Namhlanje kufuneka abe nolwazi olulodwa okanye ukuthenga izixhobo zobungcali, ukudala isipho kuba omthandayo ngezandla zakho, uze nawe ukwakha ezinye eningenakukholwa kokokuhombisa ekhaya. Iintlobo ngeentlobo iivenkile ezifundisa zonke iintlobo zezixhobo kunye nezixhobo, ukulungele ukukhonza uphuhliso kwetalente kuzo zonke iindlela hendmeyd, kunye oomakhulu zobugcisa ngoku ulibele ngomdla omkhulu inkosi umzukulu wabo.

inkqubo indalo wabubuyisela kwakuloo mntwana ubomi zoluntu kunye ezingqondweni zabantu, Ukuba ndithe ndithi ke, ngenxa chavelela lokudala, iindlela ezintsha ngokupheleleyo womluki ekhaya. Phakathi kwabasebenzi abanezakhono kumila nothando ngenxa isepha, kodwa hayi ngokungabi imveliso ezinqabileyo, yaye ukwenzela ukudala imveliso ngokupheleleyo kwakunye ezizodwa. Isepha wenziwa kongezwe iziqholo kunye imifuno, zekofu kunye oyile ezinqabileyo. isepha elulwelo kudla zincediswe ibhotile ahombise ngesandla njengento ubugcisa ngokwalo. Wenza umgudu, nokuba Ivila nako ukuyenza loo isipho kumntu ngezandla zakhe, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo le fun ukufumana omabini amacala.

Akukho hendmeyda indlela ngaphantsi umdla kunye nokuveliswa amakhandlela. Ngokuzimeleyo wax bunyibilike, idayi oko, ngokuxuba oli efunekayo kwakunye nencasa, kudityaniswe izinto zokuhombisa abe ngokuhlwa yothando. isidlo amakhandlela, equka izitya ukukhanya, iwayini enxilisayo nencoko ekhululekile uya kuziphanzisa ukomeleza ubudlelwane ezikhoyo, okanye wayeza kuba linyathelo elibalulekileyo malunga nokusekwa ezintsha. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo le ngokuhlwa uya kukhunjulwa njengesipho olukhulu umntu omthandayo ngezandla zakho, nokuba uthatha kwaye uya kuwenza ube usuku kakhulu.

Ngoko kwenzeka ukuba iindidi ezahlukeneyo ezimfakamfele benze abantu womnatha zabo zokuyila kunye self-eyabangela, enkosi ukufumaneka kweencwadi nezinto kunye neendlela ezahlukeneyo. Xa imfundiso endala yomsebenzi manual eyayibonwa isakhono kwinqanaba yobugcisa, yaye hendmeyd wabona kusetyenziswa kakhulu bemilo ukuzeyisa ukuzichaza. Yena akazange yayintsha imibala eqaqambileyo, iingcamango engalindelekanga kunye nesibindi, ukucaca imizwa. Abantu abaninzi benza kwezoshishino, ukuba siphumeze kunye nemisinga isiphumo esibi hendmeyd ezahlukeneyo, kukudala uhombiso esimangalisayo neyobuchule. Yaye abafazi abo ikhefu lokuya kubeleka kwaye beze kunye kwiiklasi kakuhle ngexesha lakhe spare.

Iimveliso wadala ngesandla, adla incasa kwaye isoloko zibonisa inkosi, nokuba kukho nto yezenziwe ukuze kuvele zangaphakathi ethile okanye isipho nje umntu omthandayo ngezandla zakho - oko kusoloko wobugcisa. Kubalulekile ukuba bajoyine eli nyathelo umdla kwaye xa ungafumana amkhanuke ubomi.