Iphupha eliphuphayo kunye nentaka? Yintoni ongayilindela?

Ndiyithanda into yokuba ubuthongo bubonakalisa amava ethu, iingcamango, imifanekiso ebonakalayo, mfutshane, yonke inkcazelo efunyenwe yingqondo ngosuku. Kwenzeka ukuba sisebenza ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye kwiphupha sithwala into enzima. Yonke imini yayigcwele imvakalelo evuyayo - ukulala kusilethela i-glade ebalabala okanye ice cream ecolileyo.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, akunakwenzeka ukusho ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba amava ethu aya kubonakala njani kumaphupha, kodwa le nto unokuyijonga.

Ukuba iphupha oyibonile ibalulekile, kodwa akukho mnqweno wokuhlalutya usuku oludlulileyo okanye iveki, ngoko unokwazi ukubheka kwincwadi yephupha. Kukho ezininzi. Ngamanye amaxesha iingcamango zamaphupha kulezi ncwadi zihambelana, ngamanye amaxesha - akunjalo. Emva koko, iincwadi zephupha zazibhalwa ngabantu abathatha isiseko sabo ngamava abo okanye amava abantu abasondeleyo. Abaqulunqi beencwadi zephupha ngokungangabazeki benza umsebenzi omkhulu wokuhlaziya amaphupha nokuzifanisa neziganeko ezithile.

Iphupha lephupha kunye nebhola? Masizame ukuyifumanisa. Intshontsho yilwanyana elincinane! Intsana yintsipho, ukukhuseleka, ubumnandi. I-tangle yintambo ekhohliweyo. Jonga imeko yakho. Mhlawumbi inkayi. Ibhola yingxaki ejikeleze wena, kwaye udlala nale ngxaki. Mhlawumbi ba bo nakala? Oko kukuthi, akufanele ubabhale kwaye ubaxhalabele. Iphupha eliphuphayo kunye nentaka? Mhlawumbi, le puppy ngumhlobo wakho, onokubambisene naye ungasifumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo. Okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, awuboni ukuba umhlobo wakho osondeleyo uzama ukukunceda njani. Iphupha into encinci . Usana olutsha luphila ubomi obutsha. Kubonakala ukuba, kwixesha elizayo ulindele utshintsho (lunokuba ngcono okanye lubi kakhulu).

Iphupha lephupha kunye nawe? Mhlawumbi, le meko ibonisa ukuba awunalo uvelwano kunye nothando, nokuba ungazivumeli. Iphupha lephupha kunye nomntwana? Mhlawumbi, ebomini bakho iziganeko ezimnandi okanye iindaba ziza.

Iphuphu ephupha neekiti? Hlola imeko yakho nabantwana bakho okanye umntwana wakho. Ukuba uwedwa, jonga ngokungakumbi kwiindawo ezikufutshane, mhlawumbi ixesha lokudala intsapho. Ungayifaka yonke into ecaleni. Inkati ikati elizayo. Ikati liyilwanyana. Ikati yodwa. Ngokucacileyo, ingxaki yakho iqala ukuphuhlisa, iya kuba ngaphaya kolawulo lwakho.

Into ephambili ukuyiqonda

Unokushiya amaphupha akho engalindelekanga. Kodwa ukuba bakuphazamisa, jonga ngaphakathi ngaphakathi. Yintoni eyenziwa entliziyweni yakho? Khangela. Kukho imeko ongaziqondiyo, kodwa xelela okanye wabelane nanye okanye awufuni.

Kodwa amaphupha ... Thatha iphepha kunye ipeni, uchaze oko kwenzekayo ngeenxa zonke. Misela uluhlu lweemeko ezikukhathazayo. Bhala uze ube namandla kunye nengcinga. Yima emva, yenza indebe yekhofi kunye neyeyi. Unokulala nokuba ulale. Xa intloko yakho "ihlala", funda oko wabhala. Khetha iingxaki ezibalulekileyo kunye neziganeko ezibalulekileyo. Kwaye uchaze ngokwakho iindlela eziphuma kuzo. Kwaye ngoko ude ungene kwizinto ezikukhathazayo okanye ezikholisayo. Yaye uya kuzichazela ngokwakho intsingiselo yamaphupha akho. Ndikholelwe, akukho mntu uyazi iimeko zakho zingcono kunakho. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ungakhohlisi.