Dream Ingcaciso: iibhutsi, bubonakala ephupheni - kuba ngcono okanye abambeke?

Abantu bavame ukuqikelela oku okanye siganeko, ingakumbi ngamaphupha. Ukubona iphupha nayiphi na into okanye inyathelo - siqala ukutolika oko silindele noko oko zinto zingumqondiso wambona liphupha. Kungakhathaliseki indlela ezinxulumana ngayo izihlabo ezinjalo - ahlekisayo okanye ukuthatha kakhulu, kunjalo, kukho iinguqulelo ezininzi ezahlukileyo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo - jonga nje ukutyhilwa kwephupha elo.

Iibhutsi, kubonakala ebusuku uyaphupha ivelayo uhambo isithembiso ukuba wayengenakuyijika kakhulu yonke yobomi mphuphi. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuba ufuna zibeluhlobo luni na, ukubo lo mbandela, umzekelo, ukuba izihlangu Lanikwa olukhazimlisiweyo esinomfaneleko, nangaphandle, kwakukho amatsha - makube njalo - yonke into iya kuba yona ngokohlobo nenzuzo kunye luncedo kwixesha elizayo . Noko ke, losasazo incwadi iphupha: iibhutsi, The Zakwe e neqwengiweyo, ezimdaka, zonakele njengesilumkiso malunga nendlela yokufumana kwixa elizayo Iindaba kakhulu ezingemnandi ukusuka omnye abazana-elide bemi.

Xa iphupha ukuba wena okanye nawuphi na umntu ococa iibhutsi - kubhekiswa ngqo nakwenzeka ezimele uluntu naliphi na ityala emanyumnyezi ezenziwe nguwe.

Ubungqina ncwadi iphupha: iibhutsi, zama phambili ephupheni, ebomini uya kubuzwa inani iinkcukacha ezincinane xa sisenza izigqibo ezibalulekileyo elizayo uya kwiinkathazo nenkathazo. Bagoduke - kuthetha bexhobile, ungaphoswa izinto ezincinane kunokuba nemiphumo ezimaxongo kwixesha elizayo. nawe ubunzima Eminye imicimbi amazwe kunye noxanduva bunyaniso kuya kufuneka ukuba uthathe ngegxalaba zabo - yiloo nto qikelela iphupha apho ukuphatha ukuzama iibhutsi yomnye umntu.

Dream usasazo Ukutolikwa malunga yokuphuma HIV isimo esibi yaye ubuthathaka, yaye uya kukunceda kule bantu abanempembelelo kakhulu yaye umdla uya kudibana nabo emva kokuba iphupha ukubona yena ukuthenga okanye ukuzama izihlangu evenkileni. Kwakhona, eli phupha ithetha utshintsho olukhulu ebomini bakho.

Ngokubanzi, amaphupha malunga izihlangu kuthetha utshintsho olwenzileyo imicimbi ebomini kunye ishishini lakho. A ipere yezihlangu - uthi ukunganeliseki yakho ebomini, kwaye sizame ukuhlangabezana iqabane umphefumlo wakho.

Kutheni iphupha eebhutsi esibathandayo? Lindela - indlela yakho ayiyi kuphela ukuhlangabezana umxhasi enamandla gqitha. Ukuba uzama ulale iibhutsi ezinkulu - elinde ukuba ukhuseleko elizayo ekhululekile kunye nomnye umntu. Ukukhetha iperi eebhutsi ephupheni izithembiso okunene ume phambi kwe kukhetho nokwamkelwa isigqibo ebalulekileyo echaphazela ngqo isiphelo sakho.

Tolika ethi iphupha: iibhutsi, leyo uphupha ukucinga ukuba ukuze yoyi ukuba Ukudilizwa akayi kuba baya - ebomini bakho kuthetha ukuba indawo yakho iya kuba uzinzo kwaye ixesha elide, nangona kunzima, kodwa ukufumana elide kwixesha elizayo ukuziphilisa uya kunikwa kodwa kuya kufuneka asebenze ngocoselelo ukuze kufikelelwe ezinqwenelekayo.

Bona izihlangu unpaired ephupheni - ukuba ziqaphele ukubandezeleka, ubulolo, uloyiko.

Lindela i ukwabiwa kwempahla, iimbambano, iinkani, xa uphupha kakhulu izihlangu. Akumangalisi ke, xa emva iphupha asifumanayo isamani.

Lwaba inxeba iibhutsi - harbingers nakwiingxaki kwiimeko ukungoneliseki, zonke iintlobo kobunzima, ukususela iwile ndawo phezu kwentloko yakhe.

Enoba yayiyintoni na, kodwa i amaphupha ahlale amaphupha, yaye kuphela, ekubeni zimiselwe ukuza yinyaniso, mabeze ethembisa kakhulu uvuyo, impilo entle, intlalo-ntle kunye konke okulungileyo silindele kuphela ubomi kakhulu elungileyo.

Musa ukufumana belenga phezulu koko wabona iphupha neze, kubhetele uzame ngokukhawuleza kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuba silibale ngayo yaye ungaze uyilibale. Kwaye ukuze kweli lizwi, "St. uSimon uyayisusa iphupha lam!" - wathi undilibele, kwaye mhlawumbi uya kuhlelwa bububi. Yaye ukuba nje aphuphe amaphupha ezinqwenelekayo.